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    Unhappy my chorus teacher raped me two times

    I had two rape dreams-friday and saturday
    Friday- Mr. Pierce wanted to see me after-school. I went into his office and I asked what you want to see me for? He locks the door and takes off all his clothes and he takes off all of my clothes. Then he knocked me down and raped me. I was yelling please stop. i am your student. this isn't right.

    Saturday- I was home alone in my room, listening to music. I see him coming in my room. I saw him and asked why are you doing here and how did you get in here? He locks and the door, takes off his clothes and rapes me in my own bed.

    I didn't understand why that happened. He's a great teacher and he hasn't touch me or yelled at me. He is pretty cute because of his buff body. I told my first period teacher and he found out and he feels uncomfortable around me due to the rape dream. The assistant prinicpal thinks I should be taken out of the class. I don't want too. I let this dream scare me. What does this mean? I did get molested by my uncle and maybe my dream is telling me I fear men.

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    Hey there Anna,

    Hope I can help you with this. I'm so sorry you had such a terrible experience being molested by your uncle.

    What happens with dreams is that the mind tries to link things together and make meaning out of things and events. The rape dream you had is not a reflection on your teacher and is most likely not about him at all. For some reason, your mind has taken that experience when you were violated by your uncle, and it has linked it with the dream character that looked like your teacher. This might have happened because you find your teacher attractive and your mind may then have linked this to being a sexual thought, and maybe you have indiscriminately linked anything "sexual" to when you were violated. Your dream then mixed this all up to try to make sense of it and to bring to your attention this "fear of men" you discussed earlier.

    Another thing that dreams do is if there is some kind of imbalance in your life or in your thoughts (for example ALL men should be feared) then the dream will pick opposites and mix those together in an effort to find a balance. For example, if you would think of your uncle and your teacher as complete opposites, then this might be another explanation why your teacher appeared in the dream the way he did. Just think of all the times when you, or someone you know, has had a dream where someone acts completely out of character. This theme of opposites is really quite common in dreams. It seems illogical I know, but it can serve to challenge the imbalanced belief and get you thinking about just how illogical and wrong the belief is, or just how illogical and wrong it was for your uncle to do what he did. These are just example's mind you to demonstrate why this dream might have occurred.

    Have you had any help with what happened to you? If not, and even if you have in the past, it might be a good idea to.talk to someone again, a counsellor, someone who is specialised in dealing with abuse issues? Perhaps your school could help with that? Let me know if you have any questions, anything that really bothered you about the dream that you didn't mention above or that I didn't address.

    Take care, and look after yourself..
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    I agree with Chook, though another possible explanation might be that the dream is simply expressing your attraction to this teacher. In the back of your mind you know that the crush or whatever it is is wrong (it's not necessarily wrong, but it usually feels wrong). Those conflicting feelings, of having that sort of crush but feeling underneath that it is wrong, could easily lead to such a dream. Dreams have sneaky ways of pushing a darker truth into your mind. Like things you usually don't want to think about get twisted and come up in a dream. I wouldn't worry too much about the real life implications of these dreams. They are just saying something like, I think this teacher is really cute (the intimate acts in the dream), but I'm kind of embarrassed that I think that because it seems wrong (the inappropriate expression of that forbidden attraction/intimacy, or confused love. In dreams rape can be symbolic of confused or misplaced love). I'm just getting over a sickness today, so I apologize if this doesn't make much sense or isn't clear. Like Chook said, if you have any other concerns or related issues, feel free to discuss them. Good luck.
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    Hello,
    thanks for the advice. I guess it might be because I was sexually abused or think he is cute but having a crush on him never occured. I do fear men a little but I will talk with my theparist about this. This really helped. Thanks guys for everything :D

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    You are very welcome, and thanks for writing back. Take it easy!

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