why only the bad dreams come true

[spotsrc2]

Since I was a child I have had dreams that end up coming true. The thing that makes it even more strange to me, is that I seem to have these dreams 3 times in a row before they come true. If the dream only occurs twice, then nothing happens. I have tried to analyze the dreams see if there could be anything in my concious mind that could have slipped into the dreams, but it always ends up being nothing going on in my personal life. I have had dreams where others are going to be injured, and tried to warn them, but it seems that nobody will take the dreams seriously. Is this truely a gift? Am I meant to help the people in my dreams, and if that is the case, then how do I get them to believe me. After 7 years my boyfriend now believes, and tries to help me convince others, but it seems that all people want to do is tell me that I am crazy......Tell me that there are others like me who have these dreams. I also have had dreams where dead loved ones have come to me to let me know that they would be taking other loved ones with them soon. Then if I try to ask a question to find the answer in the dream I get nothing. I need advice on what to do. It seems that the only dreams that I have in 3's and come true are the bad ones.

[thewolfden1077]

I agree. Some dreams come true, but sadly most of them are bad. About the dreams coming in threes, well maybe the first two dreams are just warnings.

[Bernadine]

My dreams are of murders in several differant state s in several settings involving people I do not know on any level. I have had them since I was a little girl and never understood them and still don't but I find myself wanting them to go away. They have no purpose because I can't help any of the people. I have only helped find a little girls body and understand that Ted Kennedy should not write his book It will be bad. The other dreams did not make it to the T.V. for me to see so I do not know if they where real or not. These dreams scare me and I feel the pain of the victim and the fear. They can not see me but I see them and I want to help so bad. This can not be a gift or I should know how to use it. The people I want to share it with are afraid of it as much as I am. I do believe that I can convince myself never to make it to a sleep that allows dreams but I have to be up very early in the mornings around 2a.m. and 3a.m. and Very tired threw the day but it is the only way I can control it.

Any info available for such dreams and turning them off other than no sleep?

[Vespera]

Hm. Turning off bad dreams is an interesting subject, and you can try therapy on a number of different levels...

First, there's the obvious physical aspect. Try not eating past 7PM, or 9PM at the latest. If you do have to eat after that time, pick foods that are easy to digest.

I was told that if you develop a mantra before you go to sleep of, "I will not have bad dreams; my dreams will be calm and peaceful; I will not let bad thoughts and feelings affect my dreams" that it will help you relieve bad dreams. I haven't tried it, but it's worth a shot.

Try not to go to bed angry or upset, or if you do, try using some sort of mantra or meditation before sleeping to ease out of bad thoughts. It may help.

[whatifiam]

hmmm. i got a dream that i am talking to a man and we are in the middle of the fire. we are talking what will i do after i go on that place. i forgot what did i answer.when im 14 i got a dream that i am falling to a big hole with no end. on that time im a coward i dont want to see the end. august 14 2002 i decide to go on what is the end of that hole. and i see lava. the 1st word come to me is hot. when i fall to the lava im not hurt. its warm. after that i woke up. when i go to school im completely numb. im always thinking of that lava. why im not hurt on that lava? on that time im a science believer thats what im think i dream that i fall to center of the earth. im thinking that on the lava i didnt hurt but on the other dreams that i got shot by a gun i feel the pain. march 13 2006 when im 18 i got a dream that the ghost's are really frightened to me. the souls are crying begging me i forgot what are they telling to me. jan 27 2009 when im 21 we have a new house. after we are placing my things to my new room. i fell to sleep. i got a bad dream the death reaper is standing at my body. he is just looking to me. i want to touch him but its so hard to move. when i see my left hand its red like dragon scale. like nero's arm on DMC. but its not glowing my hand is full of blood and the blood boiling. when i grab the deathreaper(skeleton with black robe) it vanish. when i woke up my left hand is still red and numb. i cant control it for mins. on that time im so curious about my self when im having a bad dream. april 13 2009 im starting to move my self on dreaming. i got a mirror near my bed. when i grab it its too heavy. it's like a ton for me. thats why i decide it to sit and see what is the real me when im having a dream. but i failed because my cousin woke me up. on my desperation im trying to get the mirror. but.. june 2 2009 when i sleep to master's bedroom i got a dream that there is a white human figured mist. comming from me. i think its a ghost. i cant see his/her face but i think its a woman. i try to woke up but i cant until he/she sit beside me. on that time i cant woke up. im the only one on upstairs my cousin and my brother is on the kitchen eating breakfast. when. he/she look at me im still trying to woke up. but its still failed. and he/she start to move. the white lady (i think) place her left arm to my chest and her right arm to my left arm. and she bite me on neck. maybe on that bad dream its 20sec until i move. on 1st day i dont mind of that bite. until when i have a bad dream again when i start to get moving and see what looks like when i look to the mirror. the bite of that ghost on my neck is really hurt even my body is automatically moving when i feel that pain. and i always wake up when i start to get rid of that bite. i cant bare it. its like a curse or something. thats why im always take the mirror beside on my bed when i go to sleep. august 27 same year. when i got a bad dreams again its a good timing that the mirror is really beside me. all i have to do is to turn left and see my face. when i did that the pain on my neck is getting worse. but i did endure it for a sec. when i turn left i see my face is same. but my eyes. its color red. then i woke up. i try to search to other humans having a bad dreams that they have a red eye. but i think im the only one having it. after i saw that i have a red eye the bite curse is gone. but its still have a pain. when i see the red eye. its like a gold i want to treasure. its like everything ill do it for that red eye. on present day. im starting to have a OBE (out of body experience) and im getting addicting to it. i try once that when i have a fever. i try to kill myself. i did take a shower and put the aircon to 18 degree. on that time my head went numb. and fell me to sleep. i thought thats the end of it. but. when i woke up. my fever is gone.and one more thing. i dont know if its a coincidence it may sound stupid. when a time that im that really angry. that the feeling that i want to kill them all. i said it to my self "kill as many as you can" and after that theres a storm killer this year and it destroy most of it on asia. i said "bring more" and that day that storm is getting worse. and it destroy most on the taiwan and china. on that tragedy i got a feeling thats my rage. bring death to people. i got frightened and i stop cursing that storm and it vanish. i know its sounds like a **** but who knows. i also have a dream on my past life. i forgot it but ill try to post it when i dream of it again. my birth date is sept 27 1988. on chinese calendar its a dragon. ill try to post more when i get a new bad dreams. im serious about this post. maybe ill try to contact a psychiatrist about this too.