Most normal men wont advance if they think somone else is interested in you, so if they have a friend who is interested they wont move. Also on the other hand if they are already involved with somone they wont advance. If men think you have to much going on in your life they may not advance because you wont have time for them, also if you dont have room for them in your life. Men in respect to relationships think the same, and only want to be the only one. They also want to think they matter enough you wouldnt have done anything stupid they would find out about later and regret. This is the everyday stuff, the basics for your dream interpretation. This is what our minds figure out and try to tell us.
Your dream tells me that were you are, you dont want to be, and im guessing thats without the kind of love you believe you deserve. Your dream tells me that you probably have seen men looking at you, and wonder why they dont advance, {the ones you want}. The part about the growing beards tells me that all the good ones are married. In some walks of life men grow beards as to show everyone they are married, though also growing beards is passing of time. Your not getting any younger.
Maybe at one time your thoughts were about the night in shinning armor who would come and sweep you off your feet, and you imagined this with who you believed would be the perfect person for you. As time went by those you found or found you were not that person you imagined, and maybe you have even changed your original thoughts about who that perfect person would be. So to sum it up might be the strong man you need isnt always the one you want. Needs and wants are two different things, and often times women defeat themselves by wanting, and wanting to see how that want feels.
No Man is ever going to be perfect, and all you might be able to do is look for what you need. Look for a balance in what you need and what might be exceptable and passing in your eyes.
Dreams are missleading to some extent because the interpreter is going blind and cant see everything. Normally women dont go without men in their life, so if what you are feeling is actually because of a relationship and not a friendship then it wouldnt be a good idea to jump from one person to another just like that because then if the guy has any smarts in his head at all he will know he is going to be next. That your going to do the same things to him. If this is the case then the problem wouldnt be men it would be you.
The best thing you could do is look at all of your relationships together, all the men you have had in your life. Most of the time there will be distinctions between them and your dad. If you hold anything against your dad because of anything he might of done to you, you will also hold it against every man. Its what you told yourself you were not going to be like when you grew up. So now you will refuse to be that way. The problem with this is not knowing that all men are the same personality. So then what you told yourself becomes a lie, and chosing somone really close to being like your dad is going to bring out all those problems untill you discover the great lie. Once you forgive or learn past those things, then normal relationships can come avoiding those others who have these same problems.
If a man is posesive then its because he is afraid to be alone, and if he is bossey then he is afriad of loosing control. They got their fears from their parents, and havent yet learned to outgrow them.
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12-17-2006, 11:09 AM
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