Weirded out.

[katielynn]

I moved back home Saturday. And every night since then, I have been having extremely vivid dreams which I remember in detail in the morning. Sunday night I had this dream:

This guy who lives a few states away and who I have been previously involved with came to my town to search for me. He was convinced he could win my heart and steal me away from my boyfriend. When he couldn't, he became extremely angry and scary. Stalker-esque. He wouldn't leave me alone. All I remember are his eyes, instilling a chilling fear into my entire being. I woke up, completely creeped out.

Then, just yesterday, he IM'ed me saying that he was no longer moving back to L.A. He was going to stay put and come visit me in a month. And I know exactly what his intentions are. I predicted this happening in my dream. Does this mean I have ESP or something? Or is this just a coincidence?

I am doubly creeped out now. Does this give the rest of my dreams that I have been having meaning as well? I really don't know what to think.

[Briarcliffe]

Hi Katielynn,

More than likely, you probably expected as much, even without the dream, and that may be the source of the dream. It sounds like you were well aware of his continued affection for you.
Know what? If you don't really want him in your life anymore, you might consider just heading him off at the pass and preemptively blocking his visit. You could tell him no. Your current boyfriend would probably appreciate that too .

Briarcliffe

[Rip]

Where no counsel [is], the people fall: but in the multitude of counsellors [there is] safety. Proverbs 11:14

Hello Katielynn,

I agree with the other comment. I believe it is a warning from God. If it were me, I'd tell him that I am not interested in him any longer and he should keep his distance for now and not visit. A true friend would not impose himself on another or invite himself over if the other was uncomfortable. I would be brutally honest via email and hopefully that would take the wind out of his sail.

Blessings,

rip

[bcdreamer]

I agree so much with the other comments. You KNOW that at some level you are afraid of this man, your dream so strongly suggests that is the case. You are lucky, you have a "window of opportunity" to change course. Call it a warning from God, it is more than just instinct. Tell him firmly not to waste his money coming to see you, I believe your dream is pointing to a possible bad or somehow unfortunate outcome and it gives you time to "shift" the outcome by taking another course of action than simply allowing him to arrive. We all have an inner connection to the Higher Mind, whether we are aware of it or not. There are many people who regret not acting on that "gut feeling" - don't be one of them! Listen to your Inner Voice. Good luck! Be safe......