i woke up crying because of how real it felt

[Aly_baby]

i had this dream a year or two ago.

In my dream i was dating the guy who was my boyfriend at the time(who i had been dating for years and i was in love with) and we had been fighting alot(which was true for reality also). He was ignoring me and talking to other girls. We were at school and could barely speak without fighting. i go home that day and we had been fighting over text and finally he calls me and says "You know this isn't going to work, we fight to much" and hung up the phone. I sat on my bed and tried to keep it together, and a person a didnt recognize in the dream came and sat on my bed with me and was trying to comfort me saying "you know you want to cry, just cry" then he left. The next day i got up (i still hadnt cried) and rode the bus around all day, no destination just kept gettin on and off buses, and on the last bus i caught to go home, that is were i cried. just a few tears. i got off the stop and went to the elemantary school near my house and sat on the top of the slide and cried Histerically, while there were a bunch of little kids playing on the play equitment. randomly my little sister showed up, with the guy i didnt know and what i assumed to be his sister, and she climbed to the top of the slide and looked at me and all she said was "now it feels like everything he ever said to you is a lie" and she slid back down and the three of them just stood there.



I woke up crying and called my boy friend and told him i loved him. later on i told him the dream and he promised me he loved me and that isnt going to happen.

a few months later he started talking to other girls, but nothing i could prove and we faught constantly and we broke up wit him saying "you know this isnt going to work we fight to much" and that time i didnt cry and everything was fine.
shortly after we started dating again and then i found out the truth about the girls and things he had done and i lost it started crying histerically and went to the school near my house. and all i could think was, it feels like everything he ever said to me is a lie.

i didnt realize that my dream had already showed me all of this until i was reading my journal (i was crying) and read the dream. It freaked me out how my dream gave me the exact feelings that reality had recently. how the words and feelings were the same.

The dream and reality had the exact same feelings. when i woke up crying from the dream is exactly how i felt in the dream and when i went to the school by my house in reality.

Is this a Prophetic dream or just couincidence?

[NfoJunkie]

I've had a similar experience with dreams about my ex (described here in case you're interested: http://www.sleeps.com/forums/dream-i...ion/23275.htm), and I've been wondering the same thing, but since I've seen some pretty convincing evidence (in my own experience and in some posts in these forums) that dreams actually can predict the future sometimes (subtle things we may have noticed & even bigger things we couldn't have possibly known it seems), I have to consider it both possible & likely unless & until I can find a better explanation. ...but that's just me & there are some members on these forums that strongly oppose the notion.

I still have dreams about this girl, probably because she was the only ex- that I was truly head over heels in love with & probably because the realization that it couldn't work out was at least as damaging as a bad car accident I was once in. I think these types of dreams are maybe another form of post-traumatic-stress from moments that seemed more real and challenging than others & perhaps as a result these experiences have become my minds symbols of how I think about "love", "driving in cars", etc... & they never go away (for me at least) because they changed my perception of things in a big way.

[pockets]

wow, that is scary how everything was so alike.

i personally think it was a premonition, premonitions are in place to stop you from getting hurt and telling you about a thing that is going to happen in the future.

they are like feelings of skeptisism , for example: i dont think i should get on the bus as i feel something is going to happen, you question yourself , i dont think i should get on that bus just incase.

sometimes it can be a paranoid thought.

your dream was trying to prevent you from going through what you went through, but you shouldnt always do as your dream says, i had a dream that i should buy a car becuase i was going to pass my driving test and i didnt so i wasted £400, some may think that is just a coincidence.

as for when you say your boyfreind started talking to other girls you were right to suspect, but if you had asked him (or checked his phone) about the girls maybe you would have seen it coming. my partner talks to girls as they are his freinds and i get on with them very well so there is two sides to every story really.

relationships are based on trust and respect, in your dream you lost trust for your partner as hes started talking to other girls and it seems you were suspecting something and you were right.! IMO