Mom visitings me in my dreams

[HopeJoy]

I hope you have read everything I wrote to you and took it to heart completely and understand even though you want a baby girl she is coming to you as a baby boy. You do however have a little girl too so no worries. But your mother is NOT the baby girl! Please if you listen to anyone who replys to you listen to me and what I am telling you because it is important for you to know your mom would not insist I get theses messages to you in the way she wants them heard if you didnt need to hear them. Please never be angry with God or anyone else or have any anxieties and to trust with certainty. You know I was not even a memeber of this website until I saw your posting and in order to respond to you I decided to become a member and that is the complete truth! I hope the best for you and I hope you will keep me informed.

[IrisRavenstar]

Hi Ashekt,

Myth says that before we re-enter the Earth plane, we all drink the sleep of Lethe, which makes us forget what came before. Yet, some children still enter with some of their memories intact. So, you never know, but it's probably important not to force it or expect her to act the same as your mom. I think of drinking the sleep of Lethe as being rather like going to a play or movie, and setting aside our disbelief, so that we can get more involved in the movie, and feel as if we are actually part of it, thus learning the lessons the movie, or play, have to offer. It's like that here too. We learn more if we enter without our memories, because we have to react to things as if they are all real.

I said there *might* be a role reversal. I would never push my view on you, even if it was received psychically, and in this case, it was simply my read on the symbol, because of the sun usually being masculine, but maybe too, it simply meant that in a way it's the sun coming out for you, as you've been sad (cloudy) about losing your mom. I don't think we necessarily switch genders each successive lifetime. On the other hand, if your mom helped you to grow on your own inner feminine side, it's reasonable also to assume a son might help you grow on your innner masculine side, as you would have to teach him the things a boy needs to grow up to be a man. All of our relations with others help to foster our own inner growth, you know? As we do for them too.

My first biological grand daughter was born in June, and a day or two before, I heard her out of body, visiting her new family. Her spirit came to me as a little girl voice that just said, "That's going to be my new grandma!" She is so cute! Her photo is on my profile page. I wrote about it somewhere else here at the time. My son's off at his National Guard duty, so I'm waiting for him to get back so I'll hopefully get some new photos!

Anyway, I wish you all the best with your pregnancy, and hope that whatever the gender of the baby, s/he remembers at least that s/he loves you! I expect that will be the case, as you seem like a loving person. I think it would be lovely if you continue to share the experience as it progresses!

You might like a book by Jenny Cockell about remembering her past life when she was a child. She was drawing pictures of a town, and remembering all her children. As an adult she went and found the town, and went and found her now elderly children, all much older than she, and reunited them. They had been separated and put in orphanages after her pastlife self had died. I think the title is _Yesterday's Children_, but just search for her name. I think it's the only book she's written.

All best...

[ashekt]

Thanks you both for helping me deal with this unusual situation in life. Somehow I have become too emotional these days as I am missing her terribly and my husband always supports me and says whenever you miss her just put a hand on your stomach and talk. Today she can listen and one day she will reply. I know this will eventually come true but i just can't help missing her. I can't afford to be without her even for a second and it would be a year when I can again meet her. Somehow those terrible scenes of seeing her not reacting when I was home has impacted be deeply. She was the one who use to come out on the gate to receive me whenever was due to arrive from anywhere but not his time...my heart is broken without her presence. I know each mother loves her kid however I still want to say no one can love their kids more than how my mother loved me and my brother.
I will remember your words and would not try to force her pervious life on his/ her new life. I have absolutely no problems whether I have a boy or a girl although girl was just our personal preference. I will have my first prenatal appointment in Aug and my due date is mid March. I know it's good to be happy during this time however I this is the most difficult thing for me at present but I will try my best. My Mom will forgive me for this also.
I will try and look for the book you suggested.