Mom visitings me in my dreams

[ashekt]

Hi 38 muse, I am really sorry to hear about the loss of your father in law. May his soul rest in peace.
Monster4, thanks for your reply. You are right the theory of people visiting your dream can never be explained but experienced. I want to share my recent dream with you. You know what I feel sad every day since the day my mother is not around and although she has communicated to me through dreams that she will soon come to me forever, I still miss her a lot and cry and questions if my dream will ever come true however she being my Mom and the person who loves me the most keep reminding me about it.
Recently I saw in my dream that she has come back and sitting between me and my husband and she looks exactly the same and she remembers everything and I am so surprised me keep asking her if she remembers everything and she says yes. Then me and my mother steps out and we are heading to one of our relative's place and ask look for a rikshaw (carrier which is driven manually in my native place) and he says yes and when we ask him how much will he charge he says 9 in the local currency. Then we both are sitting in it and he is driving it too fast and I am scared and I tell him to go slow but he keep driving it at same place and then stops.
The theme was my mom coming back to me and when I looked for dream interpretation for it, I found that number 9 is associated with rebirth or reincarnation. Would you believe she told me again. I should probably not doubt my dreams but at time I miss her too much and the depression results in negative thoughts. I am sure she will be back with me soon as we both are inseparable.

[ashekt]

My prophetic/ visitation dream has come true...my Mom is coming back in my life again as I found out that I am pregnant!!. This can't be coincidence as I ws trying for this before but it happened now when my Mom came and told me she will be back with me forever. Hard to beleive for others but true!!

[HopeJoy]

Your post gave me a real ache in my heart, I know that sounds like empathy but I mean a true ache in my heart...like falling in love and losing it. That absolute crammed energy, explosive, heart tearing feeling! I got more from it as well...... before I read the rest of your post, I got a clear reading of your mom trying to let you know she is already there with you now, she can hear you when you talk to her and she is around you what I would consider almost constantly... she sends you a message of her unfailing love for you and that she does most certainly return but to let you know she never left. She returns to you as what Im seeing as son rather than a daughter.
(Please Remember This) She does not want you to see this as a reincarnation but rather a rebirth for her and that she will return to you but she says please do not compare the new to the old. She says we pass away but we never die, life is truley everlasting and she does not ever want you to doubt this or be afraid, she says have no anxieties. Your mom is comforting to say the least and she does not want you to wonder about this or ask if this is really happening she wants you to accept it for what it is and that is absolute certainty.

I would love to hear if you have a girl or a boy as I see a (BOY)!
Please stay in touch as I would love to hear from you.

Your friend in Day and Dream, HopeJoy

[ashekt]

Hi HopeJoy, it was nice to read through your post. It’s always good to know that there are people who believe in your beliefs. I have absolutely no doubt that she will come back to me. My dreams don’t lie. You know what, it’s so surprising to know that he last visited me on the day I conceived (doctor told me my conception date and it matched with the day I had that dream where she was back with me), after that she never came in my dreams the way she use to do before as she is with me now however she came in my dream just a few days before I knew about my pregnancy and that too in a picture, it was a same picture I have of her with me all the time and she was smiling as if she is happy now. I know at times people may think I sounds crazy and these things don’t happened however I have proved it wrong. Would you believe one more thing. I crave for the things which my Mom loves to eat (which were never my favorites). Don’t know if I can give enough proof to say she is my Mom.

Can I ask you question…what made you belief that I will have a boy as I would love to have a baby girl and feels like I will have a girl (although I don’t know yet).

[IrisRavenstar]

Hi Ashekt,

I do believe that the dead are not actually dead... just their bodies are. Their spirits leave their bodies at death, and cross a threshold to somewhere new, but they can communicate with us, and most easily in dreams.

I will share with you an experience with my dogs, which kind of brought me some insights into this, and perhaps the story will help you with your dream.

Last year, the spring of 2008, my Siberian Husky, Shaman, who was only seven years old, suddenly got very ill, and tests finally found that he had esophageal cancer, and it was very severe. Before that, he underwent all sorts of tests, and even had a horrible hard black ball removed from his stomach. I knew that black ball meant things weren't going well, and I was right. The cancer was discovered after removing the ball did not help the situation. I had to have him put down, and it was heartbreaking, as he was a wonderful companion and hiking buddy.

After he died, I kept having dreams of him sitting outside the back door, with his back to me. Dream after dream of him sitting with his back to me. There was also a dream of him wandering heartbroken at a favorite hiking trail where I had considered sprinkling his ashes because he loved it there so much, and he was so sad in the dream, because he had been left there, and couldn't find me anywhere. Now this dog and I were really connected. When he was alive, I often shared his dreams, or knew things like that he had a tick, and even with all that Husky fur, I knew right where it was. So, it didn't really surprise me that he was communicating from the Other Side. The dreams of him with his back to me continued for some time, until one day, it clicked in my mind that he was trying, nonverbally, to tell me he was COMING BACK TO ME! As soon as that connected, I started dreaming of him playing outside on his run, or sitting in front of me in my rocker in the living room, waiting for his doggie massage.

Shortly after this, I started dreaming of a tiny little dog with reddish brown fur. I remember I had written in my journal that if I was going to get another dog, I wanted lots of fur, soft fur I could sink my hands into. I dreamed of my guide saying, "It won't be the same dog." I knew it meant the new dog would not look the same as Shaman. Having some problems with arthritis and fibromyalgia, I thought a smaller dog sounded just right, really, as Shaman weighed 75 pounds and pulled me everywhere we went, to my backs pain!

So I waited, and after awhile, I woke one morning and heard my guide say, "She's waiting for you, Iris." I asked where, and was told to go to the same pet store where I'd gotten Shaman. I didn't right away. I went to T.J. Maxx, which is near there, and thought about it, and argued with myself about it, and bought some towels and washclothes for my half bath. I chickened out, and didn't go to the pet store. I was still so sad about missing Shaman.

When I got home, I discovered I only had one out of the six washcloths I had bought and paid for, but it was too late to go back. I had a sneaky suspicion that my guides had arranged the missing washcloths to get me to follow through and go to the pet store! So, the next morning, off I went in my car again, and I went in the store with my bag and receipt, and was able to get my five missing washcloths.

This time, I followed through and went to the pet store. I wasn't at all sure what kind of dog I was looking for, though I had researched both Golden Retrievers and Pomeranians. I did know it was a female, reddish-gold in color, and that her name was Lily, which surprised me to know that, but I guess it's the name she wanted. So I go into the store, and first I looked at a Golden Retriever, having recently met one that was lovely, actually at the T.J. Maxx parking lot when her owner had taken her out of the car for a respite. They had one female, but it had a sold sign on her cage. Next I noticed that right next to her was a Pomeranian, the same colors, and looking much more like the dog I'd been seeing in my dreams. I asked to hold her, and she *immediately* snuggled right into my shoulder as if she'd known me forever. No shyness, no hesitation, just instant snuggles.

Needless to say, she only had to spend a few minutes back in the cage while I did the paperwork and bought the necessities to take her home.

Over the next weeks, I became amazed at both the things that were the same and the things that were different about her. When I'd go to throw toys for her, I threw them in a different direction than I used to for Shaman, as she is so much smaller. But SHE would start off running the route Shaman used to, into the dining room, and then be startled when she realized I'd thrown the toy the other way, down to the back end of the living room. It took her awhile to catch on. Other things were like him too, like her tastes in many things, and the fact she started right off sleeping through the night, just as he had. Lots of little characteristics were the same. Some of this is because both dogs are bred from Northern sled dogs, I think.

But much of it convinced me I really had the same dog in a new body, and this time around she is female. I do believe in reincarnation, and I believe we are born as both sexes, because I believe the goal is to develop both sides of our minds fully over time. It is how we become full individuated people. She also has her own personality. The fact she is female makes a difference. She's more nurturing and even likes to mother me, but also her toys, especially the one stuffed bunny she takes to bed. She treats that bunny like her baby, making sure the bunny gets out of bed in the morning and gets a turn playing in the living room. I have to laugh. The girl side is definitely different than the boy side was! But she has taught me so much about how yes, we're born again, but because we start out in new bodies, and new influences, we aren't exactly the same, really! We grow in new ways each lifetime.

I know this is the lesson she came to teach me... and maybe you too!

I also dreamed the night my mother died that she was going right away to be reincarnated, after a short resting period, and was told not to expect to hear directly from her. She had unfinished lessons, and wanted to get right back to it. Other relatives are on the other side, and often come into my dreams and talk to me, just visit for awhile. Usually, they are close to the earth plane when another relative here is ill and might be near death, waiting to meet them when they cross over. When my stepfather was dying from cancer, my brother Tom was around me a lot. When my former mother-in-law was sick with cancer a couple of years ago, her second husband visited me a lot, close by in case she crossed over. So yes, I can't NOT believe that it's possible for your mom to stay connected with you. I can't NOT believe it's possible for her to be reincarnated. Many reincarnationists believe that we are often born again into the same families, but in new relationships, so a mother may become a child or a niece or nephew, or whatever.

I wish you all the best puzzling through all this!

I'd say the sun may mean she's coming back as a boy, and the nine planets refer to the nine months of pregnancy, probably.

Take care!

[HopeJoy]

Hi ashekt Im happy to answer your questions. A little info on me: I have been a prophetic dreamer all my life and an Empath, Clairaudient and a healer. I said she will be coming back as a son to you and not a daughter because that is what I not only hear but I also feel when I came across you. I not only feel it as if Im there but I can hear the information being relaid to me. Im a Christian woman and I am by no means someone who is trying to mess with you or your feelings, I just know what gifts are mine and these are them. You will have a son and that is 100% your mother reborn she does NOT come back to you as a daughter.

I can hear this in soft audio:
Tell her I was always with her, she wants you to.... (Please Remember This) She does not want you to see this as a reincarnation but rather a rebirth for her and that she will return to you but she says please do not compare the new to the old. She says we pass away but we never die, life is truley everlasting and she does not ever want you to doubt this or be afraid, she says have no anxieties.

Your mom is comforting to say the least and she does not want you to wonder about this or ask if this is really happening she wants you to accept it for what it is and that is absolute certainty. Dont let anyone detour you from this truth!

Your mom is very calm about everything and comforting, it is almost like she feels the need to explain or to rationalize the situation to me to insure I get the message to you the way she wants it to be heard. I dont know if that is how she was in life before she passed, maybe you could let me know more about her personality and confirm a few things for me. That would be interesting and help me on my end to confirm what Im experiencing over here.... I look forward to hearing from you again soon!

Limitless Love, HopeJoy

[IrisRavenstar]

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ian_Stevenson

About twenty years ago, I read through several books about reincarnation, and most of them were by Ian Stevenson. The above is a Wikipedia article about him. I see he died last year, but I'm sure his books are still available!

Until my dogs, I never had any real evidence of it, except a knowledge that I came into this world already knowing mathematics. I know I did, because I didn't learn it here. I didn't study! I didn't have to. I just knew and understood it way too easily, as if I were just brushing up on something I already learned. I think reincarnation explains a lot about child prodigies in any number of subjects, doing such amazing things at such an early age. It's because they already learned it before! To me, that is the most convincing evidence, though past-life regressions certainly have a lot to offer in learning about it as well.

Well, I'm done for tonight... you all sleep well!

[ashekt]

IrisRavenstar, thanks so much for reading through my experiences and dreams and to know about your story is really comforting. I can imagine your relationship with your dogs. I can say that because my Dad is a crazy dog lover and I have seen lot of dogs around me in my house since the time I was a kid. I see the amazing relationship he shares with his dogs. He call them his extended family. It’s so good to know that you have already got your Shaman back as Lily (you named your Pomeranian Lily right!) and no doubts absolutely about it as Lily does things the way Shaman use to do and above all she loves you exactly the same.

At times, I really question myself as to why is this happening to me as I know there are many instances when your loved ones departs and not everybody gets them back. I might not know the answer however what I know is that the world means NOTHING if she is not besides me. I still remember those crazy months I have recently gone through right from the day I got this news. I still cry almost every night and I guess I had all these dreams of her because at times when I use to loose faith in what she said told me she would come to reassure me again. She would never get angry or annoyed, as she loves me so much.

HopeJoy, you wanna know about my mother right!!. (I never use past tense for my Mom) She is the best gift of GOD to me. She is very comforting and I remember how angry she gets when even a word is said against me or my brother. She had pampered us to an unimaginable extent. She is very friendly, cheerful, and helpful in nature. However one thing which is common between my Mom, Brother and myself are that we all are a bit impatient.

My brother also had a dream some times back where the whole scene of her accident was replayed again in his dream (my brother actually witnessed the accident happening through his eyes, how very painful for him) and she remember my mom on stretcher and the only thing which was different was she woke up and told my brother not to worry as she will be fine and on listening to it my brother feels very happy in the dream but then she gets unconscious again. When I passed on the news of my pregnancy I told him ‘ Mom told you she will be fine, she is fine now and is coming back to us again’.

The fact that she was waiting so eagerly for his grandson and he arrived few hours after she left is the most painful thought and I am glad she can now play with him. Given a chance I can give away anything and everything just to bring her back and give her everything which she deserves. How painful it is to be in our family home without her. Oh God, I cannot imagine my life without her. This is no age and this is no way to go. I am so angry with God (although not lost faith) that I have asked him to give my Mom back to me or else I’ll fight with him and will never speak to him. I have stopped praying and have told him that I will do that again only when I have my Mom beside me. He just can’t do this to me and I will never accept this decision of him.

For last couple of days I have having very strange dreams. Yesterday I saw that my Mom comes rushing home and tell me and dad that my nephew is born (strange as she left before he was born so she don’t know) and then there is one of my cousins who is also there and she tells me she is expecting a second child in coming April and I ask my Mom who is standing in the kitchen if she knew about it and she say yes. She and I then are going somehwhere and the ride is very bumpy so I tell her that you know I am pregnant and still taking me for this ride and then I see she is running in the middle of a road and I again get angry stopping her and hit her very lightly on her face and say why are you running you know I am pregnant. (She was the one who was so looking forward to this news and I could not even have the joy of sharing it with her but then my case is different).

Yesterday I saw a extremely horrible dream visualizing my Mom’s accident scene (after the accident took place) and I can’t even narrate it as I cried so much when I woke up. I also saw that she is sitting on a bed and I am doing something in the cupboard and then I suddenly come rushing to her and kiss her and both of us cry so much as we know we will part soon. How very strange. It was more but I don’t remember it completely. I am missing her a lot for last few days or may be I miss her all the time.

I will keep this in mind that it’s rebirth and will not try and mix things up. She has already started hinting me as would you believe I am craving for food she like the most. Although I am in my first trimester and hate food however still want to eat things which she loves. More than me, my dad, brother and my sis in law are waiting desperately to see mom again. My husband believe in my dreams more than I do as going through this emotional journey when I was not able to realize what these dreams means he use to tell me it’s meaning and make me believe in them. So lucky to have him. My Mom and my hubby are the two pillars on which my life stands and it has tilted since my mom left. May be life will be the same again when I have her back.

You know what both me and my hubby wants to have a baby girl for the simple reason that they are really sweet. It’s been long since I have heard about a birth of a girl in my family so would love to have one. I have thought of a name which is derived from my Mom’s name. I know that baby is my Mom and we are fine either way but we would prefer a girl. You know what I have a history of twins. My mom had twins (2 brothers, however one died very early). I hope it’s not twins as I am a working woman and cannot manage 2 babies at the same time. Following the old wives tales I feel it’s a girl however you never know.

[IrisRavenstar]

The reason I thought you might have a boy was the symbol of the Sun in your dream. The Sun is most often symbolically masculine, while the Moon is feminine.

I think it will be an interesting experience to have your role with your mother reversed, don't you? You will be her mother! Some of Ian Stevenson's books are about memories some children have of past lives, and it will also be interesting to see if she has any memories after her birth of you and of your former relationship. I hope you'll keep us informed!

My mom had twins once too, but they came too early, in a time when premies did not fare so well as now, and both died. I always wondered if I might have twins, but was relieved, really, not to, since two of my kids had ADHD. Twins would've done me in totally!

[ashekt]

It’s good to communicate with you and to know somebody somewhere in the world shares the same thoughts. Oh I am relieved to know you did not had twins even thought you had a family history. I might know it soon as well when I have my scan. As of now don’t feel big and touchwood didn’t have any major problems as of now. At times, I forget if I am pregnant. I guess that is another thing my Mom will not bother me with. She is already taking care of me. You will find it silly but at times when I am sad, my hubby asks me to put my hands on my stomach and speak to my Mom. You are right, there will be a role reversal and I would love my baby so very much and may be secretly pamper him/ her a lot, as deep down I know he/she is my Mom. I am also eager to know if she will remember anything although if I go by my dreams she will not. However, both my hubby and me feels strongly that the baby will have some sort of mark or will say something inadvertently which will make us realize it is her. I know God cannot be that cruel and my mom leaving me was not the end of our relationship. We are destined to be together much longer. I would certainly be happy to share things with you as time progresses.