had one last week

[dreamer_86]

I had a dream where a few of my friends were at this building for a party,
they were wandering around both inside and out. There was something like a
leak in one room and laundry piled around that nobody was really in. Anyhow
this week my friend calls and says that her son decided to leave water on and
she had to clean all of that up then she decided to do spring cleaning and do
everybody's laundry and the whole house all at once. We were out running
around when she points out this building and says that it's where her sister
in laws surprise party was going to be, well of course it wasn't a surprise to
me it was the exact same building (not one I'd been in before or drove by too
often) only it was in a different spot. In real life there were other buildings ar
ound it and in the dream there was a bigger yard with trees. It was night in
the dream and the party was supposed to be at night. That's a lot more on
target than most of them I have. (and fortunately on a lighter note than some.)

[dreamer_86]

sometimes when they are what I refer to as 'minor' premonitions which are events that actually happen but nothing that has a big impact on life or a
nything like that often happen when I'm trying really hard to keep my focus
on things I'm doing, different projects going on, my social life and making s
ure to schedule enough time to relax and just chill out, sometimes when I h
ave a phase of a few days or weeks where I am relaxed I become very in t
ouch with my environment and surroundings and typically have dreams like
this, whereas when things are stressful, chaotic, hectic or tense in general
I become more sensitive to dreams that do tend to predict things that act-
ually have an impact. If I am around people that are frequently tense or I'-
m in places that have had a lot of attention sometimes I actually have to g
et out for a few then come back to clear my head because the tension pas
t or present throws my energy off base. When I was in my late teens and
this started happening from just gradually to more and more often when I r
ealized that it was more than 'just little dreams here and there before some
thing happens' I was kind of confused by it but I've learned to accept that
I can't always be in control of whether I have them or not so I've learned t-
o find outlets for it in ways such as being around people that have more po
sitive energy, music, or intellectual things like reading or other langauges
and community projects outside of the house, I'm not an introverted person
so I get a handle on things better when I have enough going on around me.
I've heard that this runs in families, my great grandmother (who I'd never
met) had the same type of thing going on. As far as I know, no one else in
the family really has had this type of thing.