Scared

[mbratton04@yahoo.com]

I am looking for advice.....I met someone, someone that is in my thoughts every minute of the day. He's very unique, not like the others Ive dated. He shows some interest but I dont think enough to have it go anywhere. I have had many dreams of this man and I and our future but Im afraid its just what it is....a pure infactuation or a mere image of what I am searching for.
[The scary part of it is.......this man was born on the same day my husband passed away. He has several similarities as my husband, I keep getting these so called "signs" day to day that remind me of this man...most of the time, I just dismiss it but now the signs are getting more evident and I am dreaming more of him.
My husband was killed in an auto accident nearly 7 yrs ago and for years, I could not dream, I just had nightmares of his accident but now, I am dreaming, dreaming of my future with this man.

I am afraid in both aspects, one, that its merely coincidental, meaning nothing and two, that it is a sign, some sort of intervention and this could be the one for me, April 28th would be a bitter sweet day for me.
Am I just over analyzing the situation?

[hazelflame]

I know it must be difficult to be around someone you like with similar qualities as your husband, I can only imagine. Did you ever think this was happening for a reason? It could either be that you miss your husband very much, or maybe that this is a sign to move forward. Since you are able to dream now and not to mention born on the same date as when you experienced loss.

Something similar happened to me before when my mom pasted away at age 40 and me being only 19. By 20 I met my husband & married him because the pain I felt of the loss wasnt their anymore. It just lifted away...and I was able to move on. Not even my friends or family knew how to be their, but his presence was all I needed. All I can say is take it day by day and see where this leads.