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[junebug79]

I had a dream about 2 years ago. In the first part my cousin had twins (a boy and girl) and lost the boy. In the 2nd part my aunt had a daughter and in the third part I had a daughter. 6 months ago my cousin had twins, two months later the boy died of sudden infant death syndrome. My aunt is now 7 months prego. with a little girl. Im freaked out. I dont know why i saw this or what to do. As far as the third part goes, i want that little girl, my little girl, but i dont want to have her so soon. But then again isnt having her soon better than never having her? Wouldnt it be worth it? And then im afraid that if i try to control "fate" something will go wrong but how can i just forget about it and let it go? Am i supposed to just let it go or did i see this for a reason? someone please help me. Nothing like this has ever happened to me before.

[Rocambole]

Originally Posted by junebug79

I had a dream about 2 years ago. In the first part my cousin had twins (a boy and girl) and lost the boy. In the 2nd part my aunt had a daughter and in the third part I had a daughter. 6 months ago my cousin had twins, two months later the boy died of sudden infant death syndrome. My aunt is now 7 months prego. with a little girl. Im freaked out. I dont know why i saw this or what to do. As far as the third part goes, i want that little girl, my little girl, but i dont want to have her so soon. But then again isnt having her soon better than never having her? Wouldnt it be worth it? And then im afraid that if i try to control "fate" something will go wrong but how can i just forget about it and let it go? Am i supposed to just let it go or did i see this for a reason? someone please help me. Nothing like this has ever happened to me before.

You are not supposed to PLAN for having a baby!

[leeolson]

If the dream is about your own future, and it makes you scared and confused, then it is not serving any constructive purpose even in fulfillment. If you can find something useful in the dream, use it. And if you can't, just ignore it. This is my opinion.