separating reality from nightmares

[scarletfire19]

Im new here and joined because need help to understand whats going on with my dreams.
It all started a week ago with one nightmare about my girlfriend cheating on me. When i woke up I thought it was no big deal but now everything is more intense. Last night i woke up in a sweat and i had tears pouring out of my eyes.
Last nights were the most intense yet. It takes me awhile to seperare reality from my dreams and i dont know what is going on. Im kinda of scared to fall asleep now.
Last nights dreams are still vivid enough for me to describe, even though ive been awake for some hours now. Let me describe them.
The first was weird to start out i cant really remember the start but the end is what gets me. My girlfriend comes home with my friend and she acts like nothing is going on, and out of no where she tells me that she cheated on me. I can feel this intense rage in my dream as if i were awake and not dreaming at all. So i proceed to take me friend to the basement and here i am 6'2'' 230 and hes about 140 soaking wet. I beat him until his face is nothing but a picasso painting. I can even remember my hand kinda of aching after the dream and the smell of his blood. im really scared. But anyways my girlfriend tells me it wasnt the first time and shes been doing it for awhile with all the guys that i hang out with. I dont even want to write what happened next. i am a good looking guy, im inshape, my sex life is good and i dont no where these dreams are coming from. The second dream was about the same but instead of my friends her ex that lives in n.c. hikes up here and she leaves me for him, but in this dream her family hides her secrets form me to.
I wake up everynight now heartbroken and in tears and my girl friend is worried about me. iam actually crying right now writing this last little bit. someone help me plz. I dream like this anymore, i feel tired all the time as if i never slept.

[holydiver]

Its impossible for you to be something your not, so dont put much stock in the dream. Dreams are to correct our own action, and giving probable outcomes, or seeing places we cant see through the actions of others. We base our dreams on our constant which our subconcsous knows, and thats all men have the same personality. We think the same for the same reasons. Some people choose to be evil, and some choose to be good, and some choose to do whats needed by their positions in life. So unless we put ourselves in other peoples shoes, we can not begin to guess what they are about.

Normally in dreams if your being hurt means you did something wrong. Your girl friend hurting you by way of your friends would mean you are hurting either your friends because of her or her because of your friends. Its the opposite in dreams because it has to show the action of being hurt, because its a action. You may not even know your doing it, or it may not even matter to anyone. But maybe since you care so much, this care has come out in the dream. showing that maybe the actions twards this certain friend you hurt is him hurting you. But since in this dream everyone is hurting you first, could be actions from you or things you say of what you are going to do if anyone mess's with your girl friend. Since every action has a equal and opposite reaction the wheels never stop and the tention is always there.

If we say anything that contradicts our nature as men, and not knowing we have the same personality becomes a lie. Its a lie because your subconcsous knows who you are, and what you would be like if you put yourself in some other mans shoes. We have two thinking modes in our mind, one on a emotional side that tends to react to threats, and our thinking side that trys to overcome by reasoning. This is seperated by the two side of our mind, one side that wants to jump in and solve the problem, and the other side which wants to problem solve. Our problem solving always gets in the way when it comes to doing anything, except for sudden pain we react to.

Taking anything out on another man for his actions doesnt solve the issue, the issue isnt with him. He is going to take advantage of wanting to know where he stands if he gets the chance, you would know that being a man. The issue would be her, because the definition of being close has made you extremly sensitive. Everything based on relationship has become more sensitive which always makes us more emotional when it comes to how were viewed by the women we love. It tends to bring us down, and even atempts to seperate you because of the difference in personality, and her position in life. Most people go through this, most dont make it in relationships at first, and take alot of attempt to get it right depending on the women.

Your dreams tells me she cares for you, and she isnt interested in your friends in that manner, but that your actions because you care about her may be telegraphing your fear. She and your freinds might be uptight thinking they may get blamed for something they are not doing.

Only you know what you have done, I can only guess based on the dream. She may want more of you, and may want to take it to the next step. Ask her.

[Varzandeh]

Hi,
Dreams should be interpreted and some of dream symbols are disgusting but mean good.
In dream language symbols , She had sex with a known man means he will do her a favor, a help nothing more ,nothing else.
Also if one's wife or g/f went for sex to someone it means that man will do to the husband a favor even very simple favor.
Beating means you will do him a help too.
Here is some more about dreams:
I want to tell you a reason to know that 5 senses can't understand anything except by the soul,
Have you dreamt you were eating and drinking and had pleasure of that. He said yes. I said: have you dreamt laughing and crying, and strolling in the cities that haven't seen yet but you know the specialties. He said: yes dreamt very much. I said: Have you ever dreamt about your dead brother or father and know them like they are alive.
He said: yes too many times. I said: tell me which sense has received such things to see the dead and talking to them or crying and laughing. He said: I can’t say which one. Because the body is slept like a dead. I said: tell me when you wake up don’t you remember and report to the friends exactly, He said; yes and sometimes I see that before night in real life. I said; which sense keeps it to remember the dream after waking. He said; there is no way for sense. I said then you should know because senses are vein here that is the soul that God has put wisdom in it and it is a reason. He said; what I dream is like mirage one thinks it is water but when arrive at there is nothing. I said; how do you say it is like mirage and you ate sweets and pickles and were happy and sad he said; because what I dream when I arrive at it is nothing. I said: have you ever had sex in the dream and your hearts beat, have you ever had wet dream about a woman or man. You know him or don’t know He said many times said had you orgasm and when you woke up you were wet then this is not mirage.
He said: dreaming orgasm is just like the real life .I said this is my reason that soul. Knows everything although senses are dead and can’t see or hear of course you shouldn’t deny that soul in addition of the senses knowledge recognition in the waking life and after vanishing the senses has sex with them then it recognizes the things after going senses and now you understand that the itself is guiding the senses and is their governor and none of the senses can’t do anything without soul; if the soul goes a head body wasn’t get back and if soul gets back the body won’t go ahead with the soul the happiness comes and with it the ache is received if a sense is damaged the soul is remained but if the soul is damaged senses can work properly.


Dream language interpretation is an ancient science of allusions . Pointing of the surrounded environment. As Mr. Einstein has said the events are like train stations which exist and we are moving towards them. These are prewritten destiny with some authority ( in decision making seconds) in a very full details. This dream language should be translated, and interesting to know it is international and common for all human beings. But ignorance causes some misunderstanings.People were not aware of this language and always thought in a bad way , for example Mr. Freud said about sexual dreams it is because you have suppressed your sexual desires so misled everybody and some women dreamt about having sex with co-workers or another and thought they should do that, while it only meant he will do something for her, or some others dreamt had sex with the same sex and invented homosexual, while it meant the same ,Also some men dreamt his wife had sex with a man and didn't understand or a woman dreamt her partner had sex with a woman and didn't' understand ...etc.Do you see what catastrophes are caused by misunderstanding a language. About the approximate interpretation time table: Dreams at noon or exactly at midnight( In the summer time 13 at noon and 1 midnight else at 12)in the same day if past a few minutes, a few days later. Dreams at 10-11 in the morning in 15-30 days later. Also dreams at 3-4 in the evening in 1-2 months .Dreams in the sunset mostly are not truthful and are messed, they have no interpretations, Dreams at 4-5 in the morning in a few days to 2 months some dreams in the holy books( Josef dream of kneeling the sun and the moon and 11 stars)was interpreted after 20 years and other dreams of the Pharaoh's prisoners interpreted in the same day and after 7 years. Dream of Pharaoh about the 7 thin cows and 7 fat cows interpreted from the next year to 14 years. Also dreams in 6th of the month will interpret after 1-2 days, in 9th at the same day, in 10th after 20 days, in 13th after 9 days in 14th after 26 days and in 15th after 3 days, in 16th after 2 days and in 28th ,29th ,30th in the same day, but these are solar (Persian months and you should refer to a calendar or convert them) . Of course there are different kinds of dreams , like messy dreams which have no interpretations or deja vu dreams, or psychological dreams or dreams which are caused by bad food or drinks.