Work, naked girl, death... severe waking effects since dream

[gpfm]

K, so I'm at a gas station, working. It's a damp cloudy afternoon and I think the sun has just set (very little natural light). Inside the store I notice a hole in the ground that seems to reveal that this store has been built on top of an old one. I look inside of it and notice a bunch of christmas presents at the bottom. I then feel a stronge urge to go pump gas, so I head outside where a customer is furious for some reason. They hand me their keys through their windshield and then drive off very fast. Then my cousin is there telling me that my sister has just been abducted by the guy. I grab his license plate with super vision... I feel very ill now and very depressed, but I seem to drop the whole situation. When I head back inside, my grandfather is there in the hospital gown he past away in. My boss's boss is speaking a strange language that I automatically know has brought him back to life. I am happy at this point and decide to randomly run outside, where it is now snowing like crazy (a few feet high). It feels warm though. Eventually I trip over something in the snow. So I get up on my knees and start digging. The snow numbs my arms really really bad and soon I can't move them fast enough. I feel rushed, like I have to find what ever it is under the snow that tripped me. Then I feel something like an adrenaline rush and somehow blow away a chunk of snow. After that, I see a frozen face. It's a girl's face, the one I used to work with in reality before she was fired. She tries to speak but is too cold and begins to whimper. I am totally confused and affraid of all my surroundings at this point (like I need to sit near a wall to comfort me). I reach down and try to get where I think her back is. When I do this, she immediatley brings her arms up around me and cries really loudly into my ear. The situation starts to scare me, I am now unsure if I should rescue her, then feel bad about even thinking about it. Of course I have to. I pull her out and stand up. She lets go of me and somehow is automatically a few feet away. That's when I notice that she is not wearing any clothes. I push her through the stores wall in an attempt to get her a uniform or something... She refuses and begins to cry and starts chasing me toward where I found her. I feel very weak all of a sudden and can't run anymore. When I turn around, I see her standing over the snow grave where I found her. She is wearing a bikini now and tells me to listen carefully to something. I listen, then just when I suspect something, she begins yelling in my ear. She yells at me about the world's problems and stuff like that. I get a sudden urge to tell her this world has no problems with her in it, but I can't seem to get it out of me. Then she crawls into the crater I unburried and starts choking; she's on her hands and knees and is naked again. When she stops, she pulls a sword out of her throat and stabs my stomach. I feel sad now and fall into the hole with her. She whispers something to me and then burries me alive. That's all I remember. Although it seems long, it was actually a fairly short dream in comparison to others I have. Anyway, here are the main concerns I have with this one:

1. I'm a guy and I'm not going to lie, I found the fact the she was naked appealing and gave the dream a strange feeling of excitement. However, I am not perverted and I haven't really thought of this girl in that way before...

2. The fact that a family member was brought back to life by my boss's boss is kind of freaky...

3. At the end of the dream (I think) she whispers something that I keep having played in my head in my waking life. It just sporadically comes into my head and sends chills down my spine. It sounds like a backwards whisper. When it pops into my mind, I get these weird feelings that seem to translate into words, but I can't think of it long enough to capture what she said in the dream. Though I can't remember what kind of mood she was in the instant she whispered to me, when I recall it in now, it sounds distressed. I had it come into my mind again when I was typing the dream above.

The third one is the one I would really love to be commented on by someone. Thanks to anyone who does!

[holydiver]

quite a bit of wisdom in that dream. Your boss would be Jesus, and your boss's boss would be God. Though in comparison to being brought back to life are both in the first part of the dream with your boss, and with the girl in the snow. Your good morals come out in this dream in trying to help, though the meaning of the dream isnt exactley as you might think.

Your dream rings a really high prophetic nature to it because of the gifts in a hole, and then digging in the snow. finding a gift box symbolizes finding a truth, or a truth being revealed to you. This normally comes about from prayer. Digging in the snow symbolizes something thats going to take place.

The rest of the dream goes into teaching you the difference between you and her, and also goes into the why of the resurection after death which is in this dream recovery after failure.

When someone has stress depending on if they are a man or women, also depends on their method of dealing with that stress. Its the big dump truck, and often times we dont want to deal with stress from others, "hold on, back up the dump truck!". When men get stress they blame, point fingers and generally dont know what they are talking about or what they are doing, they only want to be heard and have the problem dealt with. They do this without asking, or being asked. Women on the other hand often need to be asked, and if they answer often comes out sounding like blame to us because thats what we do. This is not the case at all. When we ask them they only want to be heard, without any advice or how to fix it. This is acomplished by reacting with emotion of how it must have fealt, or repeating what you heard. If you watch women they will often nod their heads as if agreeing, but actually means they hear them. If you insist on fixing the problems they have they will feel as though you will never understand them, and you get no where fast.

Mens personalitys are so different than a womens personality it will hurt you to try to be that way, and take practice and patience. Normally women expect things without having to ask, just the fact they bring up the subject is clue enough. This is because their minds are set up in dualistic mode with both sides of their mind working together so that their is no difference between suggestion or subject, doing or thinking. They do also comunicate like us with the passing of information though they do not know we do not comunicate by feelings like they do. Mens feelings are secondary and we dont normally use them between other men so much, it only really comes into play during a relationship and are vulnerable to feeling stupid for being wrong when their answers are better than ours. Women will always outdo us when it comes to everyone, though we will always outdo them on singling things out.

The underalying of your dream is that we cant do things for others we can only help them. We can be there for them, but we cant do it for them. No matter what we say, they are individuals and are going to make up their own minds with or without us. This way of thinking also goes into helping those who are deprived. We might open our homes to people, and they may never try to help themselves. We can give them money, and they will spend it on whatever got them into trouble in the first place. So sometimes its better they fall, so they can learn to stand back up on their own feet fully knowing their falts and learn from that. If we do things for others it only extends their missery because we are looking at our own vanity and how we look by helping, but if we give them what they need instead of what they want the hole thing tends to work out better.

So the wisper you hear is what you didnt hear, because you only heard what she was saying. Her being naked is you hearing her, and thinking you know her.

[gpfm]

Thanks a lot. Your interpretation gives me a lot to think about. It's actually begining to scare me how much the whisper is constantly coming back. I heard it even in my dream last night. I've spoke to profs in this field about this and they think I have a letting go problem, especially with bad situations. Your view gives me more to think about though. Thanks again!