reacurring but different people

[RosallieLynn]

When I was about 10 years old my father decided to molest me. I have been able to block most dreams relating to this subject, but lately they come more and more frequently. First with the face of my father, then my mothers boyfriend she's had for the last three years, and the last was of my grandfather, which is weird and stupid because I know the thought would never cross his mind. What is worse is that the entire day after I have the dream I will be extremely skittish with anyone male. I need these dreams to stop so I can feel normal again.

[dreamalittledream]

You probably had post-traumatic stress disorder after the molestation. You are trying to block this out because it is painful to deal with the feelings involved. This best thing to do is just let yourself heal by allowing yourself to feel the feelings of betrayal and fear you did, that your mind and body wouldn't let you cope with until you are ready. You are now prepared and strong enough to deal with this trauma.
The memories of all of this are flooding in because you know in your heart that you are an adult and able to handle the way you felt at that time. You were just an innocent and never deserved to suffer this. Now, you can look back in time and see that you couldn't have defended yourself. Can you see that time has gone by and you are able to defend yourself now in your dreams? What I'm saying is prepare the night before by saying that you are grown up now and safe and you can keep this from happening in the dream, by playing it out with you saying no and being heard and respected.
If you are mad about what happened, buy a punching bag or hit the pillows. If you are sad, then allow yourself to cry. Tell the truth and the truth will set you free. You are ready to tell your loved ones the truth about you and they will hear you and still love you. Don't try to stifle this anymore, but instead talk to your friends and confidantes and allow yourself to be free, once and for all. You cannot allow yourself to suppress it any longer and there is nothing to be ashamed of. I applaud you for your courage in facing the past openly and assertively.

[boyibboy]

You really want them to stop young lady? Pray before you lay your body and soul to sleep. Sleep is a time to rest in peace. Not to be tormented by your past memories. If you believe and have faith Jesus will take it away for you believe in Jesus. Ask Him in His name: Jesus i am being tormented by my past in my dreams for what had happened to me. Please take these's dreams away from me Jesus. You must forgive that person who has caused harm to your body and soul. Jesus says you must forgive to be forgiven. You can't have hate or grudges against anyone. You may say or think why doesnt He make them stop with out me asking. Well He knows whats happening He is just waiting for you to. Call out to Him. So you can see your request be completed by the power of God. Believe young lady. I am a living testimony. I stand firm that the name of Jesus, the man who died for you and all the people in the world and they who come in the future, has power. Don't listen to people who say you won't be healed. You won't forget what happened, but that torment, that opened wound will be forever destroyed by the Blood of Jesus. By his stripes you are healed. Ill pray for you. Adrian

[RosallieLynn]

I dont want all males to feel cheated. I have three brothers and many male freinds that I love dearly and know they would never hurt me. Its made things more difficult though when it comes to adults. I have been a child of god since I was still in my mothers womb and she prayed that if I was a girl than I would be his, so I have lifted these dreams up to him. I just want to say thank you for ur guys help in this situation. Thank you

[JanuaryGirl]

In your dream, your abuser is your Grandad (someone who you trust.) This happens because your mind is reprocessing the event.Your Grandad loves you and would never hurt you so you have nothing to be scared of. By reprocessing the event, your mind is trying to make you feel safe.