Does anyone have any idea what this may mean? Please Help!

[nsully]

My friends girlfriend died a month and a half ago from a drug overdose.
Recently he has been having nightmeres about her.


1st nightmere- A mailman showed up at his house with a package, he opened the package and he found a cassette tape inside. He played the cassette tape and on it was his girlfirend she said hey Jason this is me I just wanted to let you know that I love you, I dont have much time because they are coming for me. They will be here soon. I have to hurry, I just wanted to tell you that I love you. bye.

2nd nightmere- His girlfriend called his cell phone and left a message saying Jason its me again I just wanted to let you know that Im here and I love you. Im not really dead Im just gone, they are keeping me here. You can come see me but I cant come see you.... Jason says why why cant I come see you? She says I dont have time I have to go they are here for me.


3rd nightmere- She comes to him in his sleep telling him that she loves him and that she misses him. She tells him that there is only one way to see her and that is to suffer the same fate she did (die of a drug overdose). He tells her Tina I dont want to die Im not ready to die, why do you want me to kill myself? She says I need you to be with me here. Please Jason. She says There are enough trees behind your house you can hang yourself from one of those just please come and be with me.




He called me crying today and explained his dreams to me. Hes horrified that she would tell him to kill himself. He wants to know what these nightmeres may mean and why he is having them. Someone please help.

[Varzandeh]

Hi,
Dreams are in an indirect saying language and symbols that should be interpreted.
First two dreams mean that she needs your charities or doing something for her soul.SHe is ina bad situation in the spirituals and if help a few homeless people and pray for her soul she needs them, once a clergy died here and after a hwile his family dreamt him saying we are in desperate need for your charity even if as much as you throw the food bones for your cats and dogs.


The last dream that she asked you to kill, is interpreted that you will have a problem solved and if you hanged up would mean you will have a management position.

drugs are interpreted as a sorrow.


Dream language interpretation is an ancient science of allusions and pointing of the surrounded environment, as Mr. Einstein has said the events are like train stations which exist and we are moving towards them, these are prewritten destiny with some authority ( in decision making seconds) in very full details. This dream language should be translated, and interesting to know it is international and common for all human beings. But ignorance causes some misunderstanings.People were not aware of this language and always thought in a bad way , for example Mr. Freud said about sexual dreams it is because you have suppressed your sexual desires so misled everybody and some women dreamt about having sex with co-workers or another and thought they should do that, while it only meant he will do something for her, or some others dreamt had sex with the same sex and invented homosexual, while it meant the same ,Also some men dreamt his wife had sex with a man and didn't understand or a woman dreamt her partner had sex with a woman and didn't' understand ...etc.Do you see what catastrophes are caused by misunderstanding a language




Soul
I want to tell you a reason to know that 5 senses can't understand anything except by the soul,
Have you dreamt you were eating and drinking and had pleasure of that. He said yes. I said: have you dreamt laughing and crying, and strolling in the cities that haven't seen yet but you know the specialties. He said: yes dreamt very much. I said: Have you ever dreamt about your dead brother or father and know them like they are alive.
He said: yes too many times. I said: tell me which sense has received such things to see the dead and talking to them or crying and laughing. He said: I can’t say which one. Because the body is slept like a dead. I said: tell me when you wake up don’t you remember and report to the friends exactly, He said; yes and sometimes I see that before night in real life. I said; which sense keeps it to remember the dream after waking. He said; there is no way for sense. I said then you should know because senses are vein here that is the soul that God has put wisdom in it and it is a reason. He said; what I dream is like mirage one thinks it is water but when arrive at there is nothing. I said; how do you say it is like mirage and you ate sweets and pickles and were happy and sad he said; because what I dream when I arrive at it is nothing. I said: have you ever had sex in the dream and your hearts beat, have you ever had wet dream about a woman or man. You know him or don’t know He said many times said had you orgasm and when you woke up you were wet then this is not mirage.
He said: dreaming orgasm is just like the real life .I said this is my reason that soul. Knows everything although senses are dead and can’t see or hear of course you shouldn’t deny that soul in addition of the senses knowledge recognition in the waking life and after vanishing the senses has sex with them then it recognizes the things after going senses and now you understand that the itself is guiding the senses and is their governor and none of the senses can’t do anything without soul; if the soul goes a head body wasn’t get back and if soul gets back the body won’t go ahead with the soul the happiness comes and with it the ache is received if a sense is damaged the soul is remained but if the soul is damaged senses can work properly.

[nsully]

I dont get it.....why is she coming to him in his dreams and telling him to kill himself?

[Dreamer78]

Hi, Nsully. I'm not sure I'm much help -- I'm no interpreter. However, my brother in law lost his wife a year ago to cancer. She fought to the bitter end, but she made it hard on him by hiding the truth from him until it could no longer be hidden. She told him she "was going to be just fine" until the day she passed. Her parents were complicit in this (they never accepted him--evil people, really), and so when she passed, they had months to prepare, and he had mere days.

He now has recurring nightmares that he comes home and finds her sleeping with another man. He can never see the man's face. She always screams "I hate you and I'm leaving you!" and then he wakes up.

I don't think his wife (or your friend's girlfriend) is actually haunting him or trying to communicate with them. I think deep seated feelings of responsibility ("I should have known." "I should have been able to prevent it." etc.) plague both of these men. Time should alleviate these horrific dreams. If not, speaking with a counciller (why can't I remember how to spell that word???) or even just a good friend to get to the root of these guilt feelings might help. I hope your friend begins to heal soon -- loss is a terrible thing to endure.

[nsully]

Thank you both so much for your help