Spouse engaging in homosexual behavior

[dg506]

Hi, last night I had a nightmare that I found out my husband was cheating on me and had been involved with other men. I woke up very anxious and overwhelmed. The history behind this is that my husband has cheated on me with other woman and I returned the favor. I still do not trust him and we are now trying to repair our marriage and things have been going well until this week. His coworker who he used to party with and I suspect he kissed has resigned and this is her last week. I started feeling uncomfortable that since she is leaving they would feel the need to say goodbye and have inappropriate conversations or interactions. Well yesterday they worked together and I was just uncomfortable not knowing what was actually happening since they work in a very small office. So when I fell asleep I had negative feelings about the situation....additionally earlier in the day I had listened to a radio program that talked about kids who were transgender and this women talked about how her husband turned out to be a women and that if he would have been supported in being a women when he was younger she and her daughters would have been spared the pain. I don't think my husband is gay nor do I think he has homosexual tendencies but when I told him about my dream he was disturbed and said that I must have some deep seeded concerns about his sexuality....can you pls help me interpret my dream. Many thanks!

[Wolfjk]

Originally Posted by dg506

Hi, last night I had a nightmare that I found out my husband was cheating on me and had been involved with other men. I woke up very anxious and overwhelmed. The history behind this is that my husband has cheated on me with other woman and I returned the favor. I still do not trust him and we are now trying to repair our marriage and things have been going well until this week. His coworker who he used to party with and I suspect he kissed has resigned and this is her last week. I started feeling uncomfortable that since she is leaving they would feel the need to say goodbye and have inappropriate conversations or interactions. Well yesterday they worked together and I was just uncomfortable not knowing what was actually happening since they work in a very small office. So when I fell asleep I had negative feelings about the situation....additionally earlier in the day I had listened to a radio program that talked about kids who were transgender and this women talked about how her husband turned out to be a women and that if he would have been supported in being a women when he was younger she and her daughters would have been spared the pain. I don't think my husband is gay nor do I think he has homosexual tendencies but when I told him about my dream he was disturbed and said that I must have some deep seeded concerns about his sexuality....can you pls help me interpret my dream. Many thanks!

Hi,
The things you think about during the day, the things that concern you or worry about and the things watch or listen to all impact on your sleep and dreams. Your dreams make up a storyline to divert you from the worries or negative thoughts while you sleep.
I can't tell you any more than wht you know about your own situation. I hope you and your husband can work it out between you!
Perhaps it is not wise to relate dreams of jellousy to your partner?
Cheers Wolfjk

[Sunset]

I think your fears are comming out in your dreams. It may just symbolize what you are afraid of not what is happening.
My husband has also cheated on me and I have dreams that he is doing it again but isn't. It is just my fear coming out....