Please help.

[mysteriousdreammer2005]

It just doesn't seem to be like it used to be. I miss the old person that I once knew but If she doesn't want anything to do with me then there's nothing that I can do.

[Jennings]

The 'old person' that you once knew is still there, she still exists, but she is mortally wounded emotionally and in any battle when your friend is wounded what do you do? You try to heal the wounds by doing some first-aid; who then is about to start putting on the sticking-plaster in this affray or are you going to allow the relationship to die? Your problem seems to be that your feelings are taking presidence to your relationships; you are, in effect, nursing your own feelings rather than repairing the relationship which would bring about the healing which you both need.

[mysteriousdreammer2005]

It just doesn't seem like it's going to happen. I am thinking about quiting the club that I am in just to get away from her and transfuring to my friend's police department so that I woun't see her. I don't even see why I should even bother anymore. She won't return any of my messages, she won't talk to me and she doesn't wnt to acknowladge that I am even in the post anymore. Why bother?

[gulldom]

Try not seeing thing romantic, maybe one of you just lost interest in relationship. In thees situation better is not to make any moves. Make it cold, you can allways unfreeze it again, but if you burn it damage is done, it cannot be tasty again.

[mysteriousdreammer2005]

Not to be rude or anything but we are not romantically involved. I have a boyfriend and she's married. WE were just good friends up until this happened.

[mysteriousdreammer2005]

I was finally able to talk to her and she is denying that she is mad at me which I know that she is. It just sucks that my friend will no longer be there for me when I need her. She has been helping me out through thick and thin, I was always able to vent on her and she was cool with it.