Boyfriend changing

[Bre1]

Ok weird dream this morning. So me and my sister are at some house, I guess in the dream it supposed to be the one I live at but it looks different from where I live, anyway. My boyfriend is on the couch taking a nap and I look down at his hand,and on of his fingers it is all black. Like there is necrosis of the finger. I kneel down next to him to look closer at the finger and as I take it in my hand the thing breaks completely off. ahhh. I look closer and it appears to have spread down his arm, I can look down the hole where the finger was and there is no blood, just hollow and black. I begin opening all the doors and grab a weapon as a great sense of dread comes over me in the dream. Then my hunny wakes up and me and my sister are holding our breath thinking something horrific is gonna happen and he just starts talking normally and asks how were doing. Dont remember much after that. Long winded telling but that dream was scary and unsettling.

[Varzandeh]

Hi,
Right hand fingers are the prayers. Also right hand fingers mean his child or his brother.
If dreamt he hadn't right hand fingers there is a danger for his child or his brother.
If dreamt he put his both hands fingers inside each other means he will get poor.
If dreamt collected the fingers together means he tries to make correct his children affairs.
If dreamt he fist his fingers means his affairs will be closed.
If dreamt his thumb was cut he will lose some power and money.
If dreamt his pointing finger was cut means he doesn't say any prayers.
If dreamt his middle finger was cut means the governor or the mayor of the city will die.
The finger after the middle one means a money loss.
If dreamt his little finger was cut means his grandchild is in danger.
Foot fingers mean one's decoration.
If dreamt his toes are big and powerful means his marriage will arrange.
But if his toes were weak his marriage won't do.
If dreamt his toes were hurt and he couldn't walk means he will have a big money loss.
If dreamt there was fire from his thumb or there was blood from his pointing finger means he will cheat with his mother in law.
If dreamt there was sound coming from his fingers means there will be a quarrel among the family and relatives.
If dreamt his fingers fell down or were cut means will separate from family.
If one of his fingers broke means a family member is in death danger.

So, there is a danger for his child, brother or his nephew.
Helping a few homeless people will help to reduce affects although seems the danger is serious.
Good luck.

[Hobgoblin]

Is it his ring finger on his left hand?

It feels here kind of like he doesn't want to marry you, or that his intentions aren't as long-term or as committed towards you as you are to him. You may have begun to realize this - that a future with him is hollow and dead as you saw him to be when you looked inside - that there is no living future for the relationship - but he seems unaware of the situation. Your sister may have been noticing this as well, whether or not you have discussed it.

You might like to have a chat with your sister in real life and try to get her honest opinion on where she thinks your relationship with him is going, just to get another opinion less biased than your own...but if you do so you need to be prepared to hear her out even if you don't like what she says. After all, you'll have asked. And you should probably catch your bf when he's in a happy, relaxed, unguarded mood and just really casually, without getting him defensive, ask him where he sees the two of you five or ten years from now, just to get him thinking about the future. Remember, this was just a dream - don't pick a fight with him over it! It might just reflect your own unconscious fear rather than anything you picked up off of him.

[Bre1]

Hobgoblin,
Interesting interpretation.I honestly cant remember which hand it was, dang it. We have been in a long term committed relationship since high school. This year he has made a lot of positive changes toward our future, plus taking care of all finances while I get my nursing degree. But maybe my subconscious is a buzzing huh? Thanks for the insight, was cool to read. And I'm a firm believer in picking your fights, and this wont be one of them.

[Hobgoblin]

If you had to struggle to get him to make the changes, or if the motivation for them and the push to advance the relationship all largely fell to you, then maybe that could account for why your subconcsious mind would have come up with some doubts? Food for thought, anyway.

Good luck!

[LauDauns]

Ditto here~！
I support your point of view 。Good luck for you.
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