Could I....?

[Ramza]

Well I have I never had a lucid experience but I am currently developing myself. There is a girl I like in real life but never did talk to her in school, as I'm too shy. School is out and I will never see her again unless she is out in a club or something when I am. Would it be possible for me to create a confrontation with her, like just talking to her, in a lucid dream?

[gpfm]

Lucid dreams are very real feeling, but you have total control of it with your mind. So next time you get the opportunity to steer your dream in which ever direction you want, throw her into the picture and have a conversation with her.

[karmicresponse]

Dear writer: This is one of the most interesting situations I have ever read on this website. I agree we have certain mindsets or frame of mind when we go to sleep and ourdreams tend to address those mindsets. I do not actually believe we can control the dream beyond that. Its not unusual for a person to be totally taken back by anothers presence. Sometimes the person we are attracted to like us and other times they have no value for us what-so-ever. The best way to address these real life situations is to open yourself up to attractions to a number of people. The necessary energies for both emotional and sexual experiences most usually stem from developing fantacies in our inner visions. Let me get this in simple english. Yes you can contact that girl in lucid dreams if she is predisposed to be searching for you in her dreams. However the best approach is simply to ask another person how they would feel about becoming friends with you. That isn't so terribly difficult. Another approach could be if the other person would be willing to spend some time with you. Besides recording dreams this website teahes both skills in socializing and communicating. You have made a very good start in this direction. Continue to both read and write.