being having the same kind of dream

[babyj223]

For the past few nights ive been having the same dream bout weddings. Its not the same people or at the same place but its the same. Rushing to get dress. Everyone in a hurry running around. right before the wedding. One minute we're talkin having a good time the next, everyone is freaking out. I havent dreamt about them getting married just before. and most the time im just the guest. Im not in the wedding party. I dont see the bride. I just get pushed aside watching everyone freak. THen have another dream. And ive had aleast 3 dreams like this. Im not getting married i dont even have a boyfriend. I dont know anyone gettin married. And i dont plan on going to a wedding any time soon. I've read that it means change, but what else could it mean?

[Jennings]

Your dream is not a predictive one so change is not a feature of it. Your dream is about your own understanding of how you feel when socialising and it is always the same. You appear interested in taking part in social activity and initially you try to go with the flow and enjoy the early stages of getting together only to realise that you do not feel part of the social games playing involved. You might feel a tad alienated in those situations where others are seeking to latch-on to the coat-tails of those who hold some form of social status or influence or seeking out fellow beings those with similar interests like wife-swapping parties (or any other event which provides the feeling of being in the van of enlightenment or libertinism; social snobs who want to be on the 'up'). You simply do not take kindly to the artifice in the patronising of others. You seem to be an observer of others but cannot understand what drives them. In the social 'pairing' that takes place you tend to be left out in the cold and the one thing you do not like is being socially emasculated or marginalised (a natural primitive fear of not being part of the tribe). The dream is helping you to come to terms with this mature trait in your personality. It was nice when a teenager of being one of the group but you are now finding that you have moved beyond this stage emotionally and have become independent and perceptive but cannot understand why so many of your contemporaries are stuck emotionally in the teenage culture. It is something of a crossroads in life where you have to make-up your mind whether you want to be a fool alone or a fool among others but my guess is that you will continue to do your own thing from which you will subsequently gain an inner strength with strong moral principles. You probably posses natural leadership qualities and traits. Feel free to say that I have got it wrong but, don't forget what I said when you progress through life.