Soulmates in Dreams/Life

[dreamintonight]

I know there has to be some people on this site who have dreamt of meeting their future soulmates, so how in the world can that happen to me? I want to induce one and cast spells (lol) no I don't think I'd go through that.
But do you think its more of fate?
Another question to soulmate couples, is when did you two meet? What were the condititions like in your lives..and how do you know he or she is your soulmate?

If anyone wants to add about soulmates feel free, cause i'm sure this is a very interesting topic to anyone who believes in such =)

[Golanv]

Originally Posted by dreamintonight

I know there has to be some people on this site who have dreamt of meeting their future soulmates, so how in the world can that happen to me? I want to induce one and cast spells (lol) no I don't think I'd go through that.
But do you think its more of fate?
Another question to soulmate couples, is when did you two meet? What were the condititions like in your lives..and how do you know he or she is your soulmate?

If anyone wants to add about soulmates feel free, cause i'm sure this is a very interesting topic to anyone who believes in such =)

I feel that we are all soulmates. I believe you are talking about twin souls. Twin souls usually incarnate in the same lifetime later on during their last life here. A mentor once told me to write down a description of the person I want to be with and to be very specific. Height, weight, hair & eye color, etc. It describes the man I am now living with to a "T" even down to being born the same year as me. I dreamed about him many times and even have the name of the road here written in an old journal, along with his first name, almost 2 years before I met him. He may be my twin soul. Who knows? Time will tell. He is 53 now and I am 53 in October. When we met 4 years ago he was married. His ex had just told him she wanted a divorce when I met him and recognized him. My roommate had just died and I had adopted her teenager. We started dating after his divorce at about the time she graduated from hs and I ended up living with him a year later. I thought I had recognized my soulmate in my ex-husband too or I wouldn't have married him. But I still do. We keep in contact almost daily and still play music together. (married him at 21 for 17 years) When I was 21 I still hadn't wrapped my head around the idea of everyone being soulmates. If I were you I would try the specific description thing my mentor had me do. Good luck. Oh. To induce any dream just say over & over to yourself before sleeping, "Tonight I will dream _________ (insert whatever you want)_____ It will be a wonderful dream and I will remember it in the morning." ~ Peace ~ Golanv

[Laucashel]

Originally Posted by dreamintonight

I know there has to be some people on this site who have dreamt of meeting their future soulmates, so how in the world can that happen to me? I want to induce one and cast spells (lol) no I don't think I'd go through that.
But do you think its more of fate?
Another question to soulmate couples, is when did you two meet? What were the condititions like in your lives..and how do you know he or she is your soulmate?

If anyone wants to add about soulmates feel free, cause i'm sure this is a very interesting topic to anyone who believes in such =)

Did I Make The Right Decision?

It was supposed to be my special day
My family didn't know I’ll marry secretly
The night before that day I was dreaming
That I saw my dead father he was crying
He told me, look at your dignity
And you have to marry publicly
In a second, he’s gone and faded away
I woke up kept thinking about that dream
Then a very old man was calling my name
He said, your lover is not your husband to be
I knew I was awake and it surprised me
My eyes were open but I couldn’t move
And my mind was with my first love
Then the old man pointed to the corner
And I saw a man standing but not clear
He continued, he is your husband to be
You have to wait he will come one day
Suddenly both of them disappeared
And the clock kept clicking I heard
I didn't move just lying and thinking
I called God please, I started praying
I turned right then turned left, I didn't know
Then I looked at the clock it's about two
What will I do? I didn't know I can't decide
I turned over again and again and was very tired
Oh no! It's already quarter past seven
God please, I turned over and over again
Shall I go? no..go..no..go..no..go..no….
My God my Lord I trust everything to you
Please help me, guide me I will not go

The above poem/prose can be found in my first book "The messages" miscellaneous prose and poetry. When I was still single at the age of 33 that was month of January (about seven years after this dream) I prayed and asked to the Lord to send me a husband to be on Valentine day to be my valentine. My prayer has been answered I received the first letter of my British penpal on Valentine's day. Eighteen months later we met personaly then on 1992 we got married and I come to live in England UK 1994. We have two daughters 10 and 12. I know God is always guiding me. I believe in fate and destiny.

laurie
www.lauriescreations.co.uk

[Darkstar]

Originally Posted by dreamintonight

I know there has to be some people on this site who have dreamt of meeting their future soulmates, so how in the world can that happen to me? I want to induce one and cast spells (lol) no I don't think I'd go through that.
But do you think its more of fate?
Another question to soulmate couples, is when did you two meet? What were the condititions like in your lives..and how do you know he or she is your soulmate?

If anyone wants to add about soulmates feel free, cause i'm sure this is a very interesting topic to anyone who believes in such =)

I suggest you do what Golanv suggested and right it down. If you don't know what you want you probably won't get it. And if any man you meet is NOT what you want then dont settle for him. You are only going to get what you think you deserve. The man you pick for your soumate is one of the biggest decisions you will make, so pick wisely.

[dreamintonight]

Ok I really appreciate your three posts. And I will try to do that writing exercise in which you write down everything you envision about your twin soul. But here's my situation. I do not know whether I am more attracted to women or men!! cause I haven't had a relationship with either!! I'm 23!
And I know this is a pretty religious site so hopefully I don't get those posts that condemn homosexuality and all.
So anyway, since I'm into to dreams and all i thought i had a divine dream among others about an attractive woman i knew but it ends up that she's probably scared of me now (lol) Though its not fair that i was sent this dream in the first place cause i am almost still obsessed. So it went that I flew out of my room past forest trees and onto a castle where there were student I took her hand and she curiously accepted and we made love and in that instant it felt like we knew what was on each others minds without saying a word, and isn't that what twin flames feel?? So after this dream you'd imagime how i a single bisexual i guess, would feel after such a lucid dream experience...I was her friend for awhile then came that 'come on' from me and she's a gonner..though she might still be at my college.

the other thing is that i had a couple of dream about a guy too, but it wasnt as fascinating as the aforementioned one with the girl. only this time i never dream of guys and i was like what the hell?! anyway in waking life i think he's my type and i'm scared to admit cause i dont know how people would take it with my reputation of being lez or whatever.

ugh! my love life is nothing but i should keep faith I have faith in God but when it comes to relationship i dont know what to think. All i want is to be with my twin flame nothing more nothing less. And to have a great profession and life in general.


Well thnx for your posts i will try to dream a beautiful dream again and i'll opt to that writing exercise.

[dreamintonight]

I didn't mean to make this thread just for myself, however I guess hardly any one besides the three posters have thoughts on such a meaningful subject??

I asked a pen pal from the middle east if she believes in soulmates and she exclaimed 'why yes of course, it is a principle fact taught in Islam!' There's no doubt in her mind that soulmates exist, but when I ask Americans they tell me 'oh there's no such thing' Even my bro and his wife for whom I think are soulmates, even doubt this?! Its frustrating to think that most people here are closed minded or just ignorant of it. But then again most marriages in the US end in divorce, however some find their soulmate after, so maybe you can also say people are tired of the baggage and they will not believe it for themselves.

You know when you come to think of it: the American culture, especially pop culture and sociology or whatnot, is not very romantic... I know this such a generalized statement, but you can Americans are indeed: the American dream is a romantic thing in itself and its the Americans that have freedom to choose who to marry, so maybe they could be romantic in many ways. I just don't understand why people actually put down "hopeless romantics" and label them as some desperate needy person, but I see it different. So what's wrong with seeing the world through rose colored glasses if you can pay the bills??

Any thoughts or critiques?

[Darkstar]

Originally Posted by dreamintonight

Ok I really appreciate your three posts. And I will try to do that writing exercise in which you write down everything you envision about your twin soul. But here's my situation. I do not know whether I am more attracted to women or men!! cause I haven't had a relationship with either!! I'm 23!
And I know this is a pretty religious site so hopefully I don't get those posts that condemn homosexuality and all.
So anyway, since I'm into to dreams and all i thought i had a divine dream among others about an attractive woman i knew but it ends up that she's probably scared of me now (lol) Though its not fair that i was sent this dream in the first place cause i am almost still obsessed. So it went that I flew out of my room past forest trees and onto a castle where there were student I took her hand and she curiously accepted and we made love and in that instant it felt like we knew what was on each others minds without saying a word, and isn't that what twin flames feel?? So after this dream you'd imagime how i a single bisexual i guess, would feel after such a lucid dream experience...I was her friend for awhile then came that 'come on' from me and she's a gonner..though she might still be at my college.

the other thing is that i had a couple of dream about a guy too, but it wasnt as fascinating as the aforementioned one with the girl. only this time i never dream of guys and i was like what the hell?! anyway in waking life i think he's my type and i'm scared to admit cause i dont know how people would take it with my reputation of being lez or whatever.

ugh! my love life is nothing but i should keep faith I have faith in God but when it comes to relationship i dont know what to think. All i want is to be with my twin flame nothing more nothing less. And to have a great profession and life in general.


Well thnx for your posts i will try to dream a beautiful dream again and i'll opt to that writing exercise.

It is very natural for woman to be attracted to other woman and there is nothing wrong with that. And dont deny to yourself if you fantasize about other woman, that is perfectly natural for a woman to do, even if she is strait.

"I was her friend for awhile then came that 'come on' from me and she's a gonner..though."

I assume you wanted to take things to a sexual level with your friend. I would not do that, the reason is because if you do take things to a sexual level she may feel like she is jeapordizing your friendship by doing so. And she doesnt want anything bad to happen between you to, or change the friendship you two have already established.

"Anyway in waking life i think he's my type and i'm scared to admit cause i dont know how people would take it with my reputation of being lez or whatever."

Why would you care of what people think of you? Are you afraid of losing your reputaion of being lezbian? There is nothing wrong with being bisexual. And if the guy you like is against that, then you shouldnt be with him because he would not be respecting the fact that you are bisexual. And if he is the right man for you he will initaite for a threesome and set it up, so you should have no worries about bringing that up. Just dont set it up with your friends.

I know with society nowadays how it may be frowned upon, but the truth is that doesnt matter. Do what you want to do, live the way you want to. Do what makes you happy. And if fantasizing about other woman makes you happy, then there is no one stopping you, just yourself.

Still write out what you want to have in a person.

[dreamintonight]

I think your right about alot. I may have gone too fast, but I didn't necessarily come on to her sexually, I just conveyed a crush on her by telling her that she was beautiful and more. So after that who knows what she thought? obviously she hasn't talked to me since and i havent forgotten about her and i do wish to see her again but that doesnt mean i haven't moved on, i am talking to other women.
well you are absolutely right when you say i shouldnt give a lick about what people think about my sexuality, i've had enough of this mentality, I think i'll drop this whole self conscious thing and do what I want without hestitation. thanx for ur encouragement...

[Darkstar]

Originally Posted by dreamintonight

I think your right about alot. I may have gone too fast, but I didn't necessarily come on to her sexually, I just conveyed a crush on her by telling her that she was beautiful and more. So after that who knows what she thought? obviously she hasn't talked to me since and i havent forgotten about her and i do wish to see her again but that doesnt mean i haven't moved on, i am talking to other women.
well you are absolutely right when you say i shouldnt give a lick about what people think about my sexuality, i've had enough of this mentality, I think i'll drop this whole self conscious thing and do what I want without hestitation. thanx for ur encouragement...

Even if you did not try and physically advance, saying that she was "beautiful and more" did let her know that you wanted to take your friendship to the next level. And she was probably shocked by what you said, as it was unexpected and doesnt want to talk to you because she would find it weird talking to you if you are physically actracted to her and she isnt toward you. That would make her uncomfortable and it would be easier pushing you away than trying to talk about it. So you did the right thing and moved on.

And you shouldnt give a damn what people think about you. You are only going to get what you think you deserve. And if you think you deserve to hide your sexuality because its not what other people like, then my dear that is what you are going to get.

Doesnt it feel so good to do what you want? To feel what you want? And not live by everyone elses standards. You are a new woman now. You will do what you want. You will look at beautiful woman and be proud that you want to bring out the sexuality in her.

Why do you refer to yourself with a lower case I? That shows you have low self esteem. When you talk about yourself have the self respect to use an upper case I.

I am curious though, how do you approach woman? I know if I wanted to have a threesome I would lead throughout the whole experience. I would have my girlfriend with me so the woman I was talking to knew that it would be a threesome. My girlfriend would not have to do much because I would lead. But how do you pick up woman to have sex or a relationship with?

And good for you for overcomming your self conscious, many people have a hard time doing that, and I respect the fact that you did.

[transcendantpig]

The Crystal

I find myself in the small spare room of a castle. There is a tapestry, a spinning wheel, and a mirror, plus a lot of other dark wood furniture. I looked at my reflection in the mirror, and I was older--perhaps nineteen--(I was fifteen or sixteen at the time and I was wearing a red dress overlaid with black lace. My hair hung in long black spirals down my back. I have never been that beautiful. I ventured out into the main room of the castle, but I didn't have much time to look around before the door opened and the sunlight came pouring in around him. He was tall and blond, dressed in green, carrying a longbow and a quiver of arrows on his back. He was the handsomest man I had ever seen, but something in his expression frightened me, so I ducked and hid under a table. He seemed not to notice me, and strode out of the room. When I was sure he had gone, I crawled out from under the table and ran outside, and I didn't stop running until I came to a stone bridge over the merest trickle of a creek. I decided to hide under the bridge. Dirt and sand had collected in piles there, and something else: a long crystal, purple at one end and deep green at the other, the two colors presumably merging somewhere in the middle under a clod of sand. I felt that this crystal was a wonderful thing to have, and I was full of joy...then suddenly my brother appeared. He was angry with me--I don't know why--and he told me to come with him. When I showed him the crystal, he told me to put it back and not to touch things that don't belong to me. Reluctantly, I put the crystal back where I found it, but I refused to go with him, and he left. I was just wondering what to do next, when I woke up.

I was just beginning to tell this dream to a friend, when he interrupted, and begin to describe the room I started out in, in better detail than I could have used! He then claimed that he was the man I saw in the doorway, but I'm not sure I believe him, because from that point his dream became a sexual encounter while mine was as I have written here. But there does appear to be some sort of special connection between us, and I sometimes think this dream is why. But, while we are connected to each other, does that make us soulmates? What about how our dreams diverged?

Anyhow, I've had several dreams of a man I believed to be my soulmate, including one detailing how we would meet. Circumstances have changed, such that that meeting in that particular location is not possible, and I am turning 30 this Wednesday, with no prospects. So phooey on soulmates! I'm going to be a spinster, and I must learn to accept it.