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I have a friend ... only friend... i after i showed her my mom pic... she dream abt me... ad the dream was like... im playing in the field and she and my mom was looking at me and smailling ...then my mom told her that "take care of him.. he is still a child..."
i know she likes me but not love me.... what is in her subconscious mind... |
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Hi, I don´t think I can tell you anything about her subconscious thinking, but yours I can try. Is this girl older than you in real life? How does she treat you in reality? You told us she´s a friend. Have you been friends for a long time? How do you feel about it? If she´s a long-time friend then her ´maturity´ in the dream may be a reflection of this.
The interesting part of this dream I think is the fact that she´s with your mother instead of playing with you in the field, which represent no more than friendsip, just like you told us things are in real life. How do you feel about that? Apparently this dream has got everything to do with how you feel for her. Maybe you´d want her to be closer to you in reality? Perhaps you won´t acknowledge it, but it seems to me subconsciously you do. Anyway this is just the way i see it, and I am just an ordinary person and by no means a professional. Hope this helps a little
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"The unconscious refers to that part of mental functioning of which subjects make themselves unaware" - Freud
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It sounds as if she sees something childish in you overt behaviour that triggered her dream. This does not imply that she would treat you like a child. You could umwittingly be transferring those feelings to her.
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thanks Clarity and thanks Jennings
we are very good friends in the college...her age is 25 my 27.. im very serious with behavior with people..but with her i am very friendly..we like to do childish fun with our friends...with other i m very serious... i saw her my mom pic and after days she told me abt that dream.... she likes me but dont love me so far as i know... i like to be with her..its true..i like her and it can be more also... she sometime tell me that im your mama here so i have to take care abt you... :P ( when she tell me do this , not do that,, i compline and tell her that dont do like mama) Last edited by neo21580 : 05-30-2007 at 02:28 AM. |
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Thank you for the feedback. You evidently feel happy or comfortable in this relationship but your friend may be longing for the man in you; just possible.
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maybe..... maybe not... thanks for your comment... |
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thanks for your comment...
acording to your comment... it seems like that she treat me as a child... ... i dont understand why girls think like that........ |
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well deams use symbols in many ways. But we say that people "are still children" in many ways. A child is someone who lacks experience and needs guidance. It maybe that your friend feels that you are vulnerable or need special help. or that simply you tend to act like a child and exhibit some of their enthusiasm.
------------------------ The dreams we have are very much related to the brain and how it devotes time to the pressing needs in our lives. The dream mind can decide to try to look at the bigger picture. In other words we may suddenly stand back and take a good long look at our lives. We may ask what is the point of carrying on with a job that we hate or a relationship that is falling apart. So in that way the intuitive mind may decide to take an objective look at the reality of our lives. At other times the dream mind will be content to get caught up in the little issues in our lives. It may wonder if we should get ourselves a new hair cut or if we should decide to get a new digital TV. So the dreams we have will sometimes reflect the bigger and important long view but also expect them to get caught up in the seemingly mundane issues of everyday life. Try to see what type of a mood you are in. If you suddenly feel as if you are thinking more in the long term then look at your dreams in that way. They are likely to link to general issues and about the bigger picture and how you live your life. They may reflect your own personality and some changes that you are trying to bring about. Dream symbolism and dream dictionary interpretation - How to interpret dreams Interpreting dreams Dream symbolism - How to use dream symbols Triggers for dreams A dream dictionary that explores the variety of meanings in a dream symbol Dream dictionary |
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I dont know ... i dont dream so often... i think very few dream i remember... cos i don't believe in dreams..i think its just a mixture of your experience and ur desire.... so dream always mean something in terms of our subconscious thinking... thats why i sometime try to think about finding the pic behind...
the interesting thing is my friend dream a lot... i think most of the night she dream... when she tells her dream ..i can see the recent event behind that dream |
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I want to know one more things.......... why some people don't trust people...always try to find a clue? even looks to every possible things ..every day and very often??? i think its also a psychological disorder... ??
Last edited by neo21580 : 06-20-2007 at 02:14 AM. |