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05-08-2007, 09:42 AM
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dreamt of dead dad...please help
Hi good day to all,
Im new in the board. I want to know what could be the meaning of dreaming my dead father and he was reading some kind of a letter with me and my first child... Please help interpret... Thank you very much.     
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05-26-2007, 04:51 PM
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obviously it is not unusual to dream of dead parents or other close family members. It sounds as if there is something possibly lurking somewhere in your mind that you feel remains unresolved; it could be about your father's estate but not necessarily so. Do not place too much emphasis on this point as it may simply be a random dream yet at the same time there could be something around which he would like you to have. It looks as if your attention is being drawn towards something.
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05-28-2007, 11:25 AM
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 Its you trying to answer some questions you still have
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05-28-2007, 12:06 PM
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Hi,
Dreaming of a deceased father means a better situation and a better financial situation is on the way.
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Dreams are scenes of daily day happenings in real life when interpreted will come and pass.This may happen in the near future in a few days to a month or two.Please let me know when something like that happened.*** People are asleep, when die they will wake up.
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05-28-2007, 01:33 PM
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Regardless of how long ago he passed away, it may still be hard for you to face the reality about him being gone, so you unconsciously start creating illusions that he´s still there with you and your family, doing everyday things with your children etc. Seeing him in your dreams may be your defence not to become distressed, to put your mind at ease. Good luck to you!
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"The unconscious refers to that part of mental functioning of which subjects make themselves unaware" - Freud 
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06-03-2007, 05:57 PM
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After my father died I would have different dreams about hi. Not a lot of them, just a few, but they were very meaningful to me. I had one where when I looked in the mirror I would see his face looking back at me, and was comforted by that and it was a happy dream. However, I had other dreams where I went back to when he was only about 13 or 14 and I told his that he has cancer and is going to die and leave his children and that he needs to go to the doctor NOW! He kept telling me that he didn't have any kids (because he was only 14 he hadn't had us yet) and to stop calling him dad. I begged and cried and it was awful. I woke up several time that night crying, and I mean Ugly crying, snot and all that lol. but kept falling back asleep into the dream. When I woke up I had soaked my pillow and my hubby's t-shirt. That was a bad one.
Last edited by Beautiful_Dreamer : 06-03-2007 at 05:58 PM. Reason: Edited for grammar..sorry
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06-03-2007, 06:51 PM
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Hi Beautiful_D, just a point about your own dream in relation to the latter part of your post. There does seem to be in bereavement a point that some arrive at not dissimilar to your own where your father seems to have rejected you. I hold the view that your father was stuck on the intermediate spirit plane due to your emotional need for him or possibly your continuing grieving and, awkward as this might sound, it just could be his way of communicating at saying something like, 'Allow me to be free so that I can progress spiritually'. Does this sound inappropriate?
PS I was about to address you as 'Beautiful' without the '_Dreamer' part then remembered you mentioned a husband; end of story (but the name sounds great)! Last edited by Jennings : 06-03-2007 at 06:56 PM.
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06-03-2007, 11:57 PM
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Not trying to high-jack your post..
Not trying to high jack your post but Jennings, I had never thought of it that way. I think that was actually the last time I had a dream like that. I mean it was an incredibly emotional experience, and now my dad doesn't show up as often, and when he does its usually a bit part or from a memory. I hope that doesn't sound awful.... but he died in 1999..I was only 15 and the dream I had (mentioned above) was right around my 18th birthday. He would have been dead 2 years and 3 months...no wonder he was getting tired of waiting...lol
 By the way, thats you for your flattering comments about my name, although in reality I am not a beautiful dreamer...unless beauty is in the yelling and groaning...maybe the jerky awakenings with a gasp lol..i sleep rough..when I sleep
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06-09-2007, 03:53 AM
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