help me please..

[8elmo8]

My girlfriend is a single mom. But, she told me the truth after 8 months. Now, we always fight. I can't stop thinking about his ex boyfriend and her stories about him... How she disobeyed everyone just for her ex. I FEEL JEALOUS AND INSECURE. I can't help thinking about the stories she told me... I can't help thinking about how she broke rules for her ex... She loved her ex so much. I asked her many times to come and live with me but she refuses. She always tells me that she need to finish college first, of course I understand that. But, I just can't help not to think of how she gave her all to her ex boyfriend and why can't she give her all to me. I love her so much and she loves me too. I tried breaking up with her but she don't want. She cried and beg.

HOW CAN THIS FEELING GO AWAY?
JEALOUSY AND INSECURITY

[BATMAN]

Perhaps You need to leave her because it's apparent you're not ready to be in a relationship untill you reach a good place. You will end up poisoning each other.

[8elmo8]

I can't. I love her so much. I already tried but I just can't. How do I overcome this feeling?

[Sable]

If you are feeling insecure or doubting the other person in the relationship feels the same way as you it may help to talk. Tell her you concerns and if she really cares about you, you will find out by how she reacts to the talk.

[BATMAN]

You're stuck...You've become attatched (addicted) to that person. It's common. And YES, YOU CAN.....Look it, i'm not going to waste my time here, so listen up.

If you don't leave and honestly try to find peace of mind for yourself, you will NEVER be happy. Right now you are doing nothing more than banging your head against a wall. It sounds like you may not be right for each other...It happens every day and I promise you, it is not the end of the world. You need to let go...But your probably won't and you'll continually whine about this to your friends and family members while they all think and say that you need to do the right thing and move on.

[8elmo8]

Originally Posted by Sable

If you are feeling insecure or doubting the other person in the relationship feels the same way as you it may help to talk. Tell her you concerns and if she really cares about you, you will find out by how she reacts to the talk.

Thanks. I already told her what I'm feeling. She said she will be the best she can be. She told me she really love me and I can see that. It's just that I can't forget her ex.

[8elmo8]

Originally Posted by BATMAN

You're stuck...You've become attatched (addicted) to that person. It's common. And YES, YOU CAN.....Look it, i'm not going to waste my time here, so listen up.

If you don't leave and honestly try to find peace of mind for yourself, you will NEVER be happy. Right now you are doing nothing more than banging your head against a wall. It sounds like you may not be right for each other...It happens every day and I promise you, it is not the end of the world. You need to let go...But your probably won't and you'll continually whine about this to your friends and family members while they all think and say that you need to do the right thing and move on.

Yes, I admit I'm very much attached to her. We already talked about this, she told me she'll do her best for me to forget and accept what happened in her past. She told me it was just a big mistake. Immaturity. That's why I'm having doubts on what to do. She's a big part of me. I love her so much and so does she. Maybe I'll just try to forget and accept her past. I love her and I think I need to move on and accept the things that happened in the past. She's just human. Committing mistakes too. Am I right? If I really love her I should trust her and believe in her. Anyway, thank you so much for the advice. I really did appreciate it all. Thanks.

[mulunshri]

Thanks! I really feel that that video is a big improvement to my other video game videos. The other ones seemed to drag on too much both in length and pacing. I think I'm getting closer to the formula I need to achieve for my videos but I still need as much feedbacks as possible to reach that point.

[zrabit]

Have you thought that maybe she wants to set things straight, and right, and not make the same mistake she did for her EX?

Not that I'm saying your not as important to her as her Ex was, but maybe she's trying to get things done first and have her responsibilities set right before she goes after a guy and suddenly doesn't care about anything else.

I hope you thought about that!! >;/
And the fact she loves you and you say she begged and cried? She probably has stronger feelings for you, she just doesn't want to be in that type of hard situation she was in with her Ex.

Ofcourse, another reason why she's avoiding that behavior, is cause she learned from expirience and doesn't want to rush things the fact she got that baby wooop!

anyways. hoped that triggered.

[8elmo8]

Originally Posted by mulunshri

Thanks! I really feel that that video is a big improvement to my other video game videos. The other ones seemed to drag on too much both in length and pacing. I think I'm getting closer to the formula I need to achieve for my videos but I still need as much feedbacks as possible to reach that point.

Hi. What video? You are talking about what?