Please Help Me

[izayahsmom]

i have a 2 year old son. my sons father left me when i was 2 weeks pregnant and i havent seen him since. he told me he wasnt going to be in mine or my sons life. some part of me still loves him. well last night i had a dream about him, we were still together and then he looked into my eyes and said baby forget about me, please. its been haunting me all day long. someone please help me!!!!

[Deborah]

Very say. He's a No Hoper. Forget about him. Ask God to give you a good faithful man to husband you and your son and then live in a righteous manner so God will answer your prayers. He doesn't hear sinners. Clinging to the past stops you from advancing into the future.

[Jitkinge]

My opinion is that it is your subconscious telling you to let go...By using his presence in your dream and by letting him tell you to forget about him says that you should start to accept your situation and move on for the good of you and your child, I'm not saying don't turn to God for answers, after all God sees all his children as equals even if they have a shady past, he will still listen...Me and my mom went through the same thing...it helps not to dwell on the bad side of things. All I'm saying is look inside yourself first, and try to see the good in this ...God helps those who help themselves. Then when you are sure you accept his leaving you, only then can you move forward.

[marywilkinson45]

Originally Posted by izayahsmom

i have a 2 year old son. my sons father left me when i was 2 weeks pregnant and i havent seen him since. he told me he wasnt going to be in mine or my sons life. some part of me still loves him. well last night i had a dream about him, we were still together and then he looked into my eyes and said baby forget about me, please. its been haunting me all day long. someone please help me!!!!

I went through the same thing, my second husband and I had two children back to back and we divorced when they were very young. my x husband decided he didnt even want to be in our childrens life and that was very hard on them. But because I could not let go of him in my heart. I KNOW NOW. That I actually made things worse for them. I prayed alot and one day I was able to let go. It did take me a while. Now many years later I realize I wasted alot of time on some one who didnt love me or my children. It was by the grace of God that We got though that time. I know this for sure (I'VE GOT THE BEST THING HE EVER DID) And one day when he is old and grey he will miss them, but it might be to late. And if he doesnt well its his loss. Just pray and God will help you because he loves you. BLESSINGS TO YOU.

[starchaser]

What a tough break for you and your child!

He got in over his head (poor baby) and just couldn't hack it--being a dad and a husband. Pity him, feel sorry for him, pick yourself up and move along. You'll keep dreaming about him as long as you keep thinking about him and grieving over your loss. Time for you to get tough girl.

We're all cheering for you here.

A DREAMS-TELLER