Do you believe in signs??

[devilishangel]

There have been some problems with me and guy and we arent together right now but everywhere i go everything i see reminds me of him. OK now i tried to think that maybe its just my mind but these certian few things keep popping up too often like his name, there are two colors and a number that are special too us cause its our birthstones and the same number date we were both born on. And we both wanted the same name to name our child someday that pops up too. and other things similar to those. and they happen to often its hard to believe its just a coincidence. anyone else have any of the same experiences or similar? What do u think?

[Wolfjk]

Originally Posted by devilishangel

There have been some problems with me and guy and we arent together right now but everywhere i go everything i see reminds me of him. OK now i tried to think that maybe its just my mind but these certian few things keep popping up too often like his name, there are two colors and a number that are special too us cause its our birthstones and the same number date we were both born on. And we both wanted the same name to name our child someday that pops up too. and other things similar to those. and they happen to often its hard to believe its just a coincidence. anyone else have any of the same experiences or similar? What do u think?

Hi,
The signs appear because you look for them allthe time and associate everything with your lost love!
You will find that they will mean less and less to you as you grow up, or find some other interests!
Cheers Wolfjk

[switchback]

Devilishangel,


I would encourage NOT to worry about what others believe.


I'm so sick of people feeling like they need someone else's approval.


If you believe in signs, then that's all that should matter...but you have to bring yourself to the point where you DO NOT care what others believe.

[XxLuinxX]

@switchback: I don't think she's posting for approval.
I think she's just trying to start a discussion. :/

That being said, I agree with Wolfjk. If you have your mind fixated on something, you're going to be reminded of it everywhere you turn. The is why horoscopes are so effective.

[devilishangel]

I am honestly not trying to see these things. I try all the time not to think about him and continue my life. And i do try to think that maybe that it could be in my mind but its not like stupid little things like far away connected they are big and show up everywhere like hitting me in the face. Like at the end of a romantic comedy right b4 the person goes back to them (haha) ive even been around other ppl when i see these things and they thinks its weird too how it always happens to me. I was just wondering how other ppl felt about these things and if they've ever happened to u. And im not trying to get other ppls approval i was just explaining my situation.

[Devildog501st]

I know where you are coming from I went through the exact same thing as you. I loved her more than anything! But, it wasn't meant to be. I saw things that I thought were signs for us to be together. But, I found the reason for that was I always had her on my mind even when I tried not to she was always there in the back of my mind. When you feel strongly about someone there an active part of your mind if you want them to be or not and when ever someone is constantly on your mind it is very easy to relate everything in your life to that person.
I had friends and family who swore up and down that we were made for each other and they saw many of the same signs I took for granted. But, in the end it only caused more pain. I had to wake my self out of a deep depression and realize that I was carrying something that was literally killing me. Letting her go was one of the hardest things I've ever done and you may not be exactly where I was but I can tell you hanging on isn't healthy.
If you love this person I truly hope it works out. But, chances are you already do know deep in side if it can work and you just don't want to let go. I hope this is not the case because it turns your life in to misery to hang on to someone that has already let you go.
It's unfair to you and my suggestion is that you start letting go even though you don't want to and it's hard. If it's meant to be then it will all work out and if it's not meant your probably better off anyway.
I hope this in some way helps! Good luck

[unclesirbobbyrobson]

Yes it may just be coincidence. We can associate anything with a relationship. It just means that you are still thinking about him. You may get over him and these signs will be either forgotten or you may well use it as a cue to have a go at him.. it will become a negative thing.... that reminds you of your ex.

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[char k]

i ignored a sign that i desperately prayed for one time about 20 years ago and i am here today regretting it. oh what would be different now had i listened to that sign.
much love
char k

[Things]

i believe in signs.
i don't believe in coincidence.
always follow yer heart-instinct
and nobod else's.

[Lala6179]

I think there can be signs from God Himself and other signs just out to mislead us. Try and see the signs for what it might mean to you if you followed them through. Then judge them to be of God or Satan. Hope this helps... Laura