advice anyone?

[holly1846]

so this has nothing to do with dreams on anything buts its really relationship help..
im 16 now.
so i dated this guy. ya know, its the typical 'highschool relationship'. you go out with someone thats a year older than you, you feel special because your a freshman and your dating an older guy blah blah blah. then you experience new things, grow up ALOT in that year, and get your heart broken.
yes i was your. it was only almost 2 years ago but i was in love. i was still in love with him until i met someone else. but after me and the first guy broke up we talked all the time.. and that just made me fall deeper and deeper.
finally time went on andi hadnt seen or heard from him in a long time. i had heard he quit school and had been getting in trouble alot and basically just going down hill from there.
then. i met albert. wow hes the guy of my dreams. i love him so much, he really does complete me. i dont know what i would do without him...but see im in a weird situation. he got sent off about 5 months ago. hes [not] a bad person, he was just in a bad place at a bad time and got into some trouble, it wasnt bad he was just young and gets a worse punishment. he will be back in a month and let me tell you this was the hardest 5 months of my life!!!

but anywhoo..on with the story. lately the [first guy] my 1st love..
he has been EVERYWHERE i look lately. hes everywhere at school... i see him at my work..[i work at sonic lol] drivin down the road;;and at all the parties..
im like what the hell.. i dont even look for him or anything.
he even texts me sometimes and he tries talkin to me at school but i just walk away.
its been 2 years since we were dating!!!

can anyone help me that knows what this means?


thanks.
--holly.

[AlterEgo4045]

It means you still like him whether or not you "know" it.

[holly1846]

but if i still was in love with him, i would feel it when i see him. and i dont feel it.

i wonder if its some kinda of sign.

[AlterEgo4045]

Neither my post nor resin seem to address this. I would have to say it means maybe your staying away from him "too" much maybe he is supposed to be in your life and its just life's way of keeping him there.

[Roxxie]

Hi Holly. I think this guy has unresolved issues with you. I think the next time he approaches you, you should ask him what he wants, let him say what he has to say, and then he will stop being everywhere that you are.

If you don't want to be with this guy, be up front. Don't set up a lunch or anything where you guys can talk. I think you just need to clear the air and you'll stop seeing him everywhere.