What has happened to us?!

[hazelflame]

Hannah,
I have gone through very similar situation(s) throughout HS where I was always sticking up for cousins or friends my age & just to find out in the End they where NO Where to be found. This was VERY difficult for me as well because I felt like I was giving my ALL to everyone & no one cared to ask How I was (even after my mom pasted at 19)this is only 1 example btw. After a few days all my friends just wanted to continue to party & act like Nothing ever happened to me.

This is when I decided ENOUGH was ENOUGH. I wasnt going to surround myself around people who were still too immature to show any real Compassion to someone & for no real gain for it.

I believe you've just reached a Point in your life where you Realized you dont really need anyone in your life to Depend on. and I have to say, but even recently I wondered why is it so Difficult to meet any REAL Friends? I Stumbled somewhere in the Blble where it stated,"Live a Quite & fruitful life-so that when people do see you they will see that God has Blessed you without the distraction of the world around you." or something like that.

Just dont give up--I almost did (wanted to take my life But then asked god how & why this could happen, where everyone is always taken away from me) Right after this I met this guy who a few months later I married (5yrs) & I can Honestly say He's the only person I trust in this world other than myself & Mostly God for Blessing me with 2 beautiful children, & even striving to get my 4-6year Degree in Speech Pathology.

Ask help Sincerely from the Lord (even if you have to SHOUT it) & he will Answer.

[clockworkcorvid]

Originally Posted by Glorybound

... Fanatics have turned this into a religious debate for some reason (maybe god knows why) and people who know absolutely nothing about THE THEORY of evolution which, by the way, is still ONLY A THEORY.

Where did the Evolution thing come from in the first place? And it's also about as much of a theory as gravity is. If you were brave enough to truly study it in depth, it's about as logically true.

And i assume you spake of my being the Fanatic. Which is verrry ignorant, since members here are constantly spouting off religious Dogma, not even once closing their mouth enough to listen.

The rest of your post was useful however, that just bugged me.

[Hannah1234]

Originally Posted by Glorybound

OMG, what HAS happened to us? Firstly, I'd like to say that you shouldn't lose faith in the whole entire human race because of one really supremely shite shituation. Fanatics have turned this into a religious debate for some reason (maybe god knows why) and people who know absolutely nothing about THE THEORY of evolution which, by the way, is still ONLY A THEORY. Life can be cruel and sometimes seems to make no sense, but let me tell you just one thing; that if you look hard enough, try to make the world make sense, things will eventually fall into place for you. But also life is cruel. It's what you do with it, how you make your circumstances work for you, turning weakness into strength--that's what will get you what you want and take you where you want to be.

nah im not really lookin at it because of one situation its the situation that has made me realise. ive been taking this nonsense for yrs to the point where i sat with my mum and neither of us could think of a single good thing that has happened. To put it into perspective to perhaps make it easier for u to understand why im so negative is this: since i was 11 i have been raped, beaten, i have had over 12 good friends die, my auntie died, my mum became ill, my brother nearly died, My niece became epileptic, i got kicked out of school, my frends all hate me because of that girl and my bf d umped me and finally ive been diagnosed with an illness they can only figure out to be related to stress that is an overdrive of adrenaline that my body canot control to the point where if i get to stressed i will have a heart attack because my organs start failing. In fact the ONLY good thing we took of this was the fact my brother didnt die in the end and the fact that the boy who did all the nasty stuff to me wen i was so young finally been arrested.........The situation made me look into things like looking in the paper and seein crap crap crap every day. Last night iw as in a night club in Guildford surrey called harper and a boy got stabbed 2 feet away from me on the middle of the dance floor. This isnt a one off it happens a lot! Its not everyone but its clearly a fair few for this to happen THIS much.

[Hannah1234]

Originally Posted by clockworkcorvid

Where did the Evolution thing come from in the first place? And it's also about as much of a theory as gravity is. If you were brave enough to truly study it in depth, it's about as logically true.

And i assume you spake of my being the Fanatic. Which is verrry ignorant, since members here are constantly spouting off religious Dogma, not even once closing their mouth enough to listen.

The rest of your post was useful however, that just bugged me.

At the end of the day, i am totally unreligious, i couldn't really give any less of a shite bout god and all the other religions this world has formulated BUT needless to say everyone is titled to their own opinion. arguing about religion is just daft because no one has the right to tell someone else that their silly for their beliefs just like no one has the right to try an enfringe their beliefs on another person. Enough with the religious debating, it is possibly the most pointless thing on earth to do because if you are suceptable enough to change your religion or stop believing because of someone arguing with you about it and pointing out the logic of the situation (i do agree with everything you said) then you shouldn't be bothering with religion in the first place, your just a sheep!

[christina_9]

he has made new friends
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that usually happens.


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[Hannah1234]

I realise that this is quite a while later but i was just thinking isn't it sad that people can get so upset over things as simple as religion. It is a simple thing regardless to what anyone thinks because you either believe in it or you don't....simple. But for people to argue over who is right and who is wrong or for people to try and infringe their beliefs on a non-believer or vice versa....i duno i jus read through the posts and thought it was quite strange how people can react to something so small and irrelevant, something that shouldn't need to be discussed at all.

I apologise if that offends anybody obviously but it just to me seems daft that people care enough to be so upset by someone telling them not to send religious posts or that they should turn to christ for help, it works both ways. I just find it odd.....hmm lol

[Joeay]

If there is a god, he'll be happy to know I simply try to be a good person. He wont care whether I praise him or not. So no need to bring religion into this.

[Hannah1234]

Originally Posted by Joeay

If there is a god, he'll be happy to know I simply try to be a good person. He wont care whether I praise him or not. So no need to bring religion into this.

i agree with that, i am not totally persuaded there is a God nor am i completely against it, i just find it hard to believe but i believe that if he exists then he will know i am a good person without me having to argue my beliefs.

[greekboy]

What has happened to us... Interesting read, it's so full of shame how such a question probably only raises finger pointing... Has anyone ever thought about how each and everyone on this earth shares a responsability?

[Luna]

The world is not such a terrible place. The next time you see someone doing something you beleive is wrong, say something....maybe they will realize. avoid bad people and u will start seeing the good people around. And I think it's quite interesting the way you take time to think about the world and all these things. It's good to know I'm not the only one...U should consider being a writer. There's a reason to everything that happens and beleive it. You learn a lesson just by watching people make the terrible mistakes that they make everyday and I'm sure that you'd learn not to do it yourself and the fact is...no matter what race or religion any of us are,...if we want this world to be a better place, we must each start with ourselves.