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07-30-2008, 01:50 AM
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guy friend issues
k so i like this guy but he is my bestfriends step brother...i know he only sees me as his little sis's annoying friend
but the strange thing is that he is always talking to me about having sex with me...he says that one night then the next night he doesnt have anything to do with me i dont think that he is actually seriouse about it or anyhting but i would just like some advice...i just think i am in love with him but i dont think he likes me at all...we talk almost every day and i even stayed up all night to talk to him once...but he is always flirting with me...mind you he flirts with almost anything that can talk..he always tells me his msn names are about me but dont beleive him like this one time it said only thinking bout one thing...we were just having another convo about sex and i had said i would do it if he told me what his name was about and he said me. i love this guy with all my heart and i just want to know if this could turn into anything so just please leave your thoughts anything will help      
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#2
07-30-2008, 03:32 AM
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From your post it seems that you're practically throwing yourself at him! Try to play hard to get!  it might make him try harder!
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07-31-2008, 03:34 AM
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Be careful because from the sounds of it he might just be after sex? If he keeps bringing it up then its obviously his priority at this moment. Dont assume he doesn't like you but like whats been said, you might need to slow down a bit. Its annoying when you let yourself get excited just because he talked to you when normally any other bloke you'd not be dazed by it. Just protect yourself before you jump in head first and think your in love because if you go into anything with him with your heart on your sleeve you are much more likely to get hurt. But i do agree that he sounds like he likes you!! Why dont you try playing the one who puts all the inuendos out there, it can be quite fun to be a tease and he will end up being the one to chase you if he wants it and if not then at least you no he doesnt! Hope that helped...good luck!!! 
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08-01-2008, 02:28 AM
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hey Well an update on things...i was at my friends house and her brotha came over (my friends were all a little tipsy from drinkin but i wasnt cuzi had to work)we were going to have a water fight then he showed up with his friend who i must say is real cute.well my other friend who was over there too when we were alone was saying that my friends brotha had tred to get her into his bed...so i dont even know what to do i mean i know he is really into the whole sex thing but i still like him (not for that but he is funny and nice...and good looking) but i know he isnt in to me just sex so what do ya think i mean i cant just not like sombody but yet i fell slightly turned off by this
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08-10-2008, 08:18 PM
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so I think this guy is not worth your time sex is not everything so hey maybe you could go after his friend and if he does like you he could end up getting jealous but you would just be showing him that he didn't act quick enough and you are to good to wait for him.
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#6
08-13-2008, 02:39 PM
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Honey, don't go after him because he is cute and charming. He obviously is not interested in you as a person but as a sexual encounter. Be wise. Stay away from a guy that does not want a real relationship if that is what you'd like to have with him. If you just want sex have at it, but let me warn you, the heart ache is not worth the few hours (you hope)... or minutes of sex.
And it sounds to me that you might not feel ready for engaging with him sexually, so my advice would be you not to do it.
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