Need Help With This Dream I'm Stuck!

[deep_dreams]

Over the last couple of years, my first love has popped up in the dream. Thing is I literally in my waking life do not have feelings for this man nor have I felt the need to be in contact with him. He did get in touch with me last year and I thought he had something's to get off his mind, but nothing came of the visit, so I was cool with it.

I thought this would resolve the random appearings in my dreams but it hasn't and just recently again there he is again. Nothing bad we are both in the same dream, just random stuff like walking in a mall or I would be talking or going somewhere and there he is. Does anyone know why this is happening?? Cause it's driving me nuts that I cannot come to resolution on this one. Any suggestions??

[StephiiskitzO]

Sorry if this seems rather obvious...but, Since you say you dont have feelings for him, he could be the one having feelings for you. Like you said with that visit, you thought he wanted to get something off his mind, but he didnt.
The repetitiveness of the dream could mean that he's still trying to get that something across to you. Maybe he is having a simmilar dream, just not telling anyone? Because, he could, in a way, be trying to tell you something in the dream instead of bothering you in person. It could be the littlest thing, thats just really important you are aware of.

[Shirah]

Hello Deep Dreams...

Since you have no feelings towards this person...look at situations that happened in your life when you were with him. His presence in your dreams could indicate a reoccurrence of the same matter(s) (which may not have anything to do with him). For example...when you were dating him...were you struggling with a family relationship....or having money troubles? This is what I mean by remembering other details going on in your life at that time. His presence in you dream may just be symbolic to this problem/situation appearing again. Best of luck.

[deep_dreams]

stephilskitzo you know what, that did cross my mind, so i guess that is his battle from the way i see it. Thank you :-)

[deep_dreams]

Hey, no the times I thought of him where random, nothing paticular was going on at the time.


Hello Deep Dreams...

Since you have no feelings towards this person...look at situations that happened in your life when you were with him. His presence in your dreams could indicate a reoccurrence of the same matter(s) (which may not have anything to do with him). For example...when you were dating him...were you struggling with a family relationship....or having money troubles? This is what I mean by remembering other details going on in your life at that time. His presence in you dream may just be symbolic to this problem/situation appearing again. Best of luck.[/quote]