An arguement that leads to hate.

[mysteriousdreammer2005]

Last week, one of my friends, that's been like a mother figure to me, & I got into an arguement & right now we aren't really on talking terms. (Mainly on my behalf because I don't want to say something that will ruin our friendship) Well, since this has happened, I keep having these dreams where we get into the arguement & end up never talking again.

Here's the dream: My friend & I get into the arguement that we really have. We don't talk for a while & then she calls me or something & we end up meeting each other. My friend says something that really hurt me (like a knife cutting my heart out). My friend says, "I don't know why the hell you went behind my back & did what you did, but you're a B***H! I never want to see you again." (she said some other things but I can't remember what they were). I get really hurt & as she walks away, I can't help but cry because of what she said. Then like a year later, I find out that she was in an accident on the way home from work. (Someone that had it out for her & wanted her dead for arresting them 10 years earlier). One of my other friends told me that she was in an accident so I rush over to the hospital. Her husband sees me & says "Thanks for coming. She's really bad. THe docs said that she might not make it." & he starts crying. "(I said the husbands name), she's going to pull through. She's a fighter. You know that. I know that. Besides, she wouldn't want to leave you so soon, not with out a proper goodbye. She loves you too much." Well, I go to the hospital everyday to see her since the hospital she is in is down the street from me. My friend pulls through. She sees me & said, "I thought that I told you that I never wanted to see you again?!" "I heard what happened. I couldn't let something that you said to me from last year keep me from coming to see you pull through. Besides, I was wherey of coming but your husband wanted me to come." "I don't want you here. Leave", she said. "NO! Not untill I tell you something.-", I said. "I don't want to hear it" she said. "Deal with it. Not until I tell you something. You hurt me when you told me what you said. Especially since you have been like a mother to me since I lost my mother. I trusted you. I guess I trusted you a little too much. Then when you cut me in the heart with the words that you said to me, I never wanted to talk to you again. I kept thinking that everything was my fault. Then I realized that if I don't patch things up with you or try to, then something bad will happen to one of us and the other person will regret what they said to the other person. I am not one to sit back & let someone trash me like you did but since you are an officer I let you do that. I let you walk all over me. I was afraid of you at that particular time. And right now, I am bitting my toung on alot of what I wanted to tell you. That's all I have to say. I'm out now. Get better soon. I want you back out on the streets and to get that bas*tard that nearly killed you. Later." And I walked out. That's all I can remember at this time. Can someone please help me. It's really bothering me. I don't want something to happen. I still care for her even though we aren't talking. PLEASE HELP.

[mysteriousdreammer2005]

Can someone please help me? I want to know what this dream means. I don't want something to happen to my friend. That's the last thing that I want regardless what was said to make us not talk. I kinda remember some other things that happened in the dream.

[Jennings]

See same thread in prophetic dreams for reply.

[idgy]

I think you have answered the dream yourself. You say that you don’t want anything to happen to her because you still care for her. Maybe your dream is not a premonition, but more of a warning that life does throw unexpected turns. You never really know what is around the corner.

Your argument with someone who means a lot to you has obviously upset you, and it is on your mind. There is always a danger after a huge argument with someone, if something awful happened, you never have the chance to make your peace with them.

Make your peace with her, even if she is not interested in making peace with you (as in your dream). Also in your dream you say that you are “biting your tongue”, maybe this is something you need to do in order to make your peace with her. Sometimes there is no point going round and round in circles arguing the same points. Whether she make peace with you or not, is up to her and is something you have no control over. At least you will have no grudges from your part and you have done all you can.

[mysteriousdreammer2005]

But she won't answer my calls. I don't know what else to do. I asked her to give me a call back but no calls from her.

[idgy]

Sorry to hear that she will not return your calls. There is not alot that you can do about that. The only thing I could suggest then is to send her a handwritten letter. Write down how you feel, and how upset you are about all that has happened and apologies for your part. She may just throw it away without reading it, but at least you have done your part and your conscience is clear. The rest is up to her. Good luck.

[mysteriousdreammer2005]

Thanks. I will give it a shot thanks again.