Dreaming of marriage

[Schoie]

Hi, wondering if someone can help me interpret this dream...

About 3 weeks ago, I walked a girl home and ended up kissing her. She had a boyfriend, who broke my nose when he caught wind of what happened!

Anyway, last night I dreamt i was marrying her. It wasn`t even arranged, I just remember she had arranged all of the wedding, told all her family, my family and friends. I was really shocked and kept asking her if she really wanted to get married and her reply was always yes. My friends all were happy for me, even when I told them of my worries in my head ie. the fact that i didn't even know i was getting married until a day before the wedding.

I remember it was all like a fairytale wedding, big white dress, in a church etc

Can anyone help me with this?!?

[Jennings]

You appear to have the need for a close relationship with the opposite sex which is, of course, natural. What seems unnatural is the underlying fear of the consequences of becoming involved which the dream highlights. This could be due to either a suspicion of intimacy or a bruised self-image, almost as if you were disappointed or emotionally hurt sometime in your earlier life.

[JON]

About 3 weeks ago, I walked a girl home and ended up kissing her. She had a boyfriend, who broke my nose when he caught wind of what happened!

Ouch! A bit extreme, but can you blame him?

Anyway, last night I dreamt i was marrying her. It wasn`t even arranged, I just remember she had arranged all of the wedding, told all her family, my family and friends. I was really shocked and kept asking her if she really wanted to get married and her reply was always yes. My friends all were happy for me, even when I told them of my worries in my head ie. the fact that i didn't even know i was getting married until a day before the wedding.

I remember it was all like a fairytale wedding, big white dress, in a church etc
Can anyone help me with this?!?

I think it's called 'wish fulfillment', Schoie. Especially as she had done all the preparations for the wedding in the dream. For you this clearly was a 'dream wedding' in all senses!! My advice. Steer clear of her - in real life. Or God knows what her boyfriend will do next...