new girl lost

[silus_botwin]

Ok so heres what happened in my dream:

As far as I remember I was at a festival of some sorts and I met a small group of new people, who were from out of town. I noticed a very beautiful mexican looking girl and she was with a guy but they were not showing signs of affection. So after befriending them I left to go do something which I cant remember. So I came to their hotel room and everyone was laying on the beds there hanging out, and the man who seemed to be her boyfriend was there. Somehow I realized that it was not her boyfriend. So I went to claim my spot on the bed next to her and I grabbed her in a playful way and gave her a hug and she laughed and smiled and so did everyone else including her former "boyfriend". The next thing I know I'm walking to meet them (mainly her) back at the festival and one of her male friends was sitting at the street curb (very non rural area) and the festival is going on behind him and he told me the girl was sick and she was in the hospital. So he led and I followed. When I got to the hospital I was by myself trying to find her bed. When I came to her room her male friend was there and said she had skin cancer but she would be ok. And this was the point I woke up. It seemed as though she was "the one" for me during the dream and when I woke up I wanted to find a girl like her. I am single yet I do see about 3 girls at a time, who all want me to commit to them but I wont. so Im not sure if this a dream signifying my expectations in my current relationships. Any interpretations would be gladly appreciated. In the meanwhile I'm going searching for my mexican girl.

[Athanor]

While it’s possible sometimes that a dream could be hinting about finding an outer person, another viewpoint is that the people shown in a dream are usually more often representing aspects of the dreamer’s personality.

Although it’s normally best to have a lot of background information about the dreamer before attempting to interpret a dream, you’ve mentioned that you often see three girls at a time and avoid commitment. This attitude might be represented in general terms by the festival, a sort of “fun place” where nothing too “serious” happens.

Just before the dream, you perhaps experienced something unusual or unexpected about your own feelings and emotions (Mexican-looking girl, new people). However, this tended to be just a passing realization (left to go do something).

A hotel often tends to symbolize the collective on the analogy that anyone can book a room there. It’s not individual like a house, so this can often represent the idea of “thinking and doing what everybody else does”.

The dream changes from a light tone to a more serious one since the idea of cancer is introduced. Skin cancer usually occurs because of too much exposure to the sun. Throughout the history of various societies, the sun has been seen as a symbol of the masculine, the intellect, thinking, action etc., so the “feminine” in you (feelings, values, emotions) may have been “damaged” by too much of a “masculine” approach. The clue about what made her sick might also be the atmosphere that pervaded the hotel room in the scene just before since dreams often follow this kind of logic where one scene is the “cause” of the next.

In addition, assuming that you are Caucasian, the idea that the girl is “Mexican-like” suggests the “foreign” and “hot” side of yourself that is undeveloped in some way (darker).

The dream ends on a positive note that apparently she will be OK. Her being “the one” for you could symbolize the need for you to look carefully into the emotional and values-side of your personality because any outer woman that you get attached to will have essentially the same value-set as yourself.

I hope that these ideas will help you to find the personal meaning of your dream.