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06-17-2007, 05:35 AM
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Keep dreaming of deceased parents
Hello! I keep having dreams of my father. He died over a year ago and I really thought I was ok. He was sick for along time and passed away peacefully. I was there when he passed. Now, I keep having dreams about him. These dreams also have my mother in them. My mother passed away 3 years ago. She passed away suddenly. The dreams are never the same and I do not even really remember the details I just see my parents and that is enough to wake me up and remind me that they are gone, not that I need reminding.
Anyway this has been going on for four nights and I wake up upset and crying and if I go back to sleep I start dreaming of them again. Today I woke up and was crying and just got frustrated and got up and started doing things around the house just so I wouldn't have to think about it. HELP!!! I am so tired and I am getting depressed!     
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#2
06-17-2007, 07:19 PM
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Your dreams indicate that you are missing your parents and that you are still in grief. It takes time to overcome the sense of loss of those you have loved in life. It is an experience that cannot be shared and it hurts and life since their loss feels lonelier and emptier. To help you through the processes of grieving you should not hold back your feelings and allow yourself to weep whenever (or wherever) necessary. Grieving is a double whammy as it is a combination of deep emotional wounding through loss combined with that of loneliness. Your love for your parents did not die with them and, paradoxically as this may sound, this love of yours is now seeking another focus. You are probably feeling like mud at the bottom of the sewer and the walls of the Valley of Death are steep and it takes gargantuan effort to claw your self out but eventually you will manage it. Everyone has a different time span for the raw emotional wounding to heal and it does. Now that you have passed your first year you may find that you are slowly beginning to manage the hurt. Never be afraid to speak to your parents (even in their absence and to listen to the replies that rapidly come to mind) or to write your feelings in a daily journal; it all helps.
Last edited by Jennings : 06-17-2007 at 07:22 PM.
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#3
06-17-2007, 10:02 PM
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Hi,
Dreaming of your deceased father each time means that you will have a better situation and blessings in a month time. Dreaming of your deceased mother means she has a good situation in the spirituals and also means blessings for you or a hard job will bo done for you in a month or two. Good luck.
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Dreams are scenes of daily day happenings in real life when interpreted will come and pass.This may happen in the near future in a few days to a month or two.Please let me know when something like that happened.*** People are asleep, when die they will wake up.
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06-19-2007, 05:04 AM
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Thank you so much for your responses. Jennings, I think you are right. As I read your interpretation I cried. I do miss my parents alot. I have not allowed myself to greive for either one of them. It is too hard. I guess my subconcience is telling me I need to so that I can move on.
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#5
06-19-2007, 05:12 AM
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I do hope you manage to 'exorcise' those repressed feelings as the more you do the quicker the healing. You may well be afraid to allow those fresh memories of your parents to drift into the past but when this happens the ones that are retained are the happy ones of which you will feel proud. Thank you kindly for the feedback.
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