Reoccuring dream theme

[shortchica4life]

Just a little background on my dream.. I had a best friend for 3-4 years and we were just about as close as sisters. At the end of the school year last year, she decided we weren't friends anymore and ignored every phone call and blah blah blah, and now we aren't speaking anymore. No fights, nothing.
So now to my dream.


I keep having dreams where we're friends again. It always starts off where we just bump into each other and kind of say hi, and sometimes we start talking and hanging out, and other times we just say hi and part ways. The most recent one, as of last night, was one where we started talking again.

We were at my school and I was asking her about her current boyfriend and how long they have been together [accurate, because she answer she gave me is most likely right] and I was talking about my current boyfriend [accurate time and name, nothing out of the ordinary] and we just started goofing around. I felt like it was the last day of school, because I was leaving a classroom and saying goodbye to the teacher like it was the last time. But then, somehow, as I come to the front of my school, it looks like we're on a gorgeous mountain with rolling green hills and beautiful scenery. I ask Sophia [my ex-best friend] how to get to the other campus because we have 5 minutes left to get to class [and the time she gives me is actually accurate to what time it would be at school and that there really were 5 minutes left to class.] So I'm really confused and she points out this trail I need to take through the hills. As we're going down the hill she trips and falls and we're rolling around on the grass laughing together like it's the old times.

The dream left me feeling really depressed and missing her a lot, but I'm not exactly sure I want her back in my life. This could be a wish dream because I kind of wish things were like that again, but I guess my subconscious and conscious are having a little war. My subconscious seems to be telling me I want it that way again, but my conscious is telling me I like things how they are.

Maybe I have this all analyzed on my own, but I don't know. Any ideas or suggestions?

[Nashelle]

This unfortunate incident with your freind is haunting you and will keep doing so until you sort it out. Is there any way you could speak to your old friend (perhaps she feels as bad as you but is too embarrassed to say anything) Kind of the same thing happened to me when I was in my teens. Though I never had dreams about it I always regretted what happened and still think of it now.
If you talk to your freind it may not mean that you will be instant buddies again but at least you will be able to speak to each other, if only in passing, and it will help you feel more at ease. I hope you can sort things out .good luck.
Nashelle

[Disenchanted]

I actually lived the same exact situation, except i was so angry with my ex best friend, that I alway ended up trying to kick her butt in the dream, but the weird thing is, when I tried to punch her, my fist froze like an inch in front of her face.

But, you probably miss your ex best friend, and this dream could possbily be telling you that it is possible to make up with her. So, you never know how things could turn out. Good luck!