am i desperate?

[curiouslyconfused]

okay so ive never had a serious relationship before, and of course ive always wanted one. So tell me if you think it plays in..

Alright, so my dream started off at some dancing thing, and im a dancer so i see how that plays in, im lost some where its starts off in miami and then some how becomes Italy(im going to Europe this summer). I meet a guy there and ask him to help me find my way back and he does. I guess i meet up with him again and throughout my dream we hit it off, i basically fall in love with him. I tell all my family and im just the happiest i have ever seen myself. Then i walk in on him cheating on me, i get so upset and run into a bathroom hysterical. He follows me and tries to apologize and i just get so angry yelling at him, but i found my feeling to not be hate, i still loved him even though. SOMEONE HELP ME FIGURE OUT WHAT THIS MEANS!

[Jennings]

It does sound like a bit of wishful thinking being manifested in dream. Your pending trip to Europe figures in it possibly because of your awareness of going there. What I find interesting is that although you say you have never, as yet, had a serious relationship yet in the dream you are expressing all the typical feelings involved. Those who are in love, especially when in their younger years, tend to become possessive of their partners and fear losing them through the attraction to others yet when one truly loves (in a muture relationship) forgiveness comes easily. As for example my wife and I often have differences of opinion when we express our anger to each other (but never lose our tempers). Shortly afterwards the incident is forgotten as we love and care for each other deeply. Damage control and rapid repair is always essential. One should never shut-out love of which you seem to be aware. I hope you soon find your Mr Wonderful.

[Athanor]

In order to properly analyze a dream, it’s always best to have the context of the dream, that is, background information about the dreamer, their thoughts and memories about each image, as well as what was happening just before the dream. Without this information, motifs that often appear in dreams have to be relied on but this can be unreliable in coming to a good interpretation.

In general, the presence of dancing and Florida in your dream would tend to suggest the normal everyday way that you are doing things. But the dream seems to be saying that something is missing (being lost). What’s missing is perhaps being shown as far away from daily consciousness (Italy).

In this distant place (probably a part of your unconscious mind), a helpful figure appears. A reliable approach to one aspect of this inner person is that he likely represents traits and ways or orientating yourself that are currently far away from everyday life, that is, perhaps things like being truly assertive rather than seeking out harmony at all costs, using your own ability to examine an overall situation and make your own valid conclusions about it and so on. However, without knowing you it’s not possible to say what these currently undeveloped talents, abilities and ways of orientating yourself are in actual fact.

Regarding relationships, one view is that a woman chooses as a husband a man who matches in some way her inner image of men (the equivalent would be true with men in choosing a wife). So in general terms, part of your attraction to a guy would have its origins in these mostly undeveloped parts of yourself. That may be why you’re shown in the dream as in love with the man.

One aspect of unconscious parts of ourselves, that is, things we tend to be less skilful in handling, is that they are “unreliable”, come and go, and generally can’t be controlled too well by the conscious ego. This may be the meaning behind the image of his cheating on you in the dream.

The general characteristics displayed by a male in a female’s dream can also symbolize in part her commitment to her overall self development as a person. This currently may be “unreliable” and flighty in yourself, but at your age this would be of course very normal.

Perhaps the overall situation is being clarified by the dream because you’re naturally becoming more interested in forming a relationship with a guy. A bit of advice from someone who is older than you: relationships work best if the two people involved are as developed as individuals as possible. If one or both of the couple has a very immature and non-functioning part of themselves, this will usually cause nothing but endless grief in a long term relationship. So now is the time to tentatively explore yourself by being involved with various guys and trying to figure out what it is deep down that tends to attract you about them.

I hope that at least some of these ideas will help in understanding your dream, and of course any unwanted advice can be ignored!

[tschuch]

It sounds like maybe you're afraid of having a serious relationship and your dream is letting you see those fears. You're afraid of the relationship ending, in this case because this man you love, cheats on you. Perhaps you're also torn about what you would do in such a case?

[Wolfjk]

Hi,

I meet a guy there and ask him to help me find my way back and he does.

Your dream is reflecting your imagination about the trip to Europe. If you try to remember what you had been thinking about this trip in your waking life I'a sure you will recognise many of the hopes, fears and apprehensions your dream expresses.
Essentially the dream is for diversion and entertainment. In sleep the mind wanders about the forthcoming trip and often gets stuck at the negative thoughts and fears you have about the trip. At your age romance and adventure is always anticipated and the dreaming mind adds and creates scenarios purely for entertainment and to preserve your sleep.
I think you can forget any predictions, however the events in the dream may happen since they have a reasonable chance of probability.
I hope you enjoy your trip to Europe!
Cheers Wolfjk

[Varzandeh]

Hi,
Having sex with an unknown man only means achieving a wish at work.
And going to a bathroom means thinking too much as to how to increase incomes.
Crying hystric means a happiness and laughing.
Good luck.