"Lapdance" Poker Game + Crush

[summerdreams]

As I share my dream, I will refer my friends with the first letter of their names...



I am in my family room of my house, with my friends R and two other friends whom I cannot seem to remember. There is a green poker table and we are sitting around it. I think we were playing some sort of game (using game cards), i think it was Poker. However, we made our own varition of the game and incorparated something naughty into it. I cannot remember what it was, but the word that comes to me is "Lapdance"

My friend R. was on my lap and I remember feeling a sensation of breathlessness and gasping for air almost, and I had asked her to get off or change her position.



after this, some time had pass(still in the same dream), I am walking down my stairs with my friend D. and he suggested that we play Poker(this time, nothing naughty involved, just NORMAL poker). I agreed and we proceed to the table. The table is located near my crush, who happens to be sitting in my sofa. For some reason, me and my friend D. made some homo comment reffering to us (AS A JOKE), and we all got a laugh, then I remember saying something like "Yea, he'd be gay but as soon as he laid eyes on you, he'd turned straight cuz your the most beautiful girl in the world" or something very similar.

After this, I started to go to the back of the sofa, lean from the side and kiss my crush softly and seductively on the back of her neck. I then start to move my kisses towards her cheeks.



My dream ended here.


I would very much appreciate a interpatation

[elected.rejected]

Perhaps you feel that R is smothering you and you want less attention from R and more attention from your crush. That's what it's suggesting me.

[summerdreams]

hm...it does make sense symbolically


anyone esle please give me an interpertation please

[unclesirbobbyrobson]

well its always hard to tell what symbolic dreams mean. The dream can be interpreted in any number of ways.

I always look for synonyms. POKER is a synonym which maybe relevant - it sounds like POKE HER. Since the dream was quite sexual in nature then maybe thats relevant. How do you feel about your friend? Have you any sexual feelings at all.

But thats just a guess based on the symbols. I tend to play with the various symbols unitl I have a symbolic meaning that fits. In this case poker can mean other things.

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Try to see dreams simply. The dream maybe very long but may follow a simple theme eg I had a problem that I was unable to solve resisted help. Try to reduce a dream to a simple theme like this. Many dreams follow such a pattern eg " I had a dreadful time and everything seemed to go wrong". Then see how these simple themes replicate in your own life. Think back especially to the day before the dream and see how its relevant.

These pages are especially helpful in showing you how to interpret dreams

Dream symbolism and dream dictionary interpretation - How to interpret dreams Interpreting dreams
Dream symbolism - How to use dream symbols Triggers for dreams
A dream dictionary that explores the variety of meanings in a dream symbol Dream dictionary

[summerdreams]

I look at my friend R as a friends with benefits...as in I would do stuff with her that regurler friends don't but at the same time, have no commitment to each other whatsoever.



Why about my crush? whom I'm kissing on the back of her neck, and slowly moving towards her cheeks. I don't recall kissing her on the lips and I've read that when your about to kiss someone, it means you are unsure of how they feel about you.

[unclesirbobbyrobson]

well dreams can eal with themse and ideas. Here there are two people who sum up different aspects of one conceptual idea. There is your freind who is a girl and their is a crush. Well that uses two people who perfectly represent the following conceptual idea

"perhaps I should really try to seek friendship in women rather than seek base sexual desires"

Maybe its about choosing girls you can develop a real interest with rather than going for something obvious. Has that been a theme in your mind recently? If yes then its possible that this is what has trggereed your dream

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Dreams are fascinating but maybe its best not to delve too deeply into their meanings and seek advice. Try not to rely on them as dreams are notoriously difficult to interpret. Yet they do tend to concentrate on recent events and new feelings. You should be able to spot the formation of your own conceptual emotions(with some practice).Deeply hidden inside a dream is some conception perhaps to the previous day. Some slight change in your own thoughts (so concentrate on those changes and see if they maybe featured in the dream).

The main fascination of dreams is how they link to the storage and formation of conceptual feelings. Conceptual feelings must be stored in the brain and perhaps the dreams that we have show how we store such ideas. Instead of using the word STRUGGLE the dream mind instead uses a situation involving a struggle. Instead of using the phrase "closer and closer" the dream mind instead uses the symbol of golf where the object is to get closer and closer to some eventual aim (to pot the ball).

Instead of trying to interpret your dreams just go to your own conceptual feelings and then see what recent thoughts could feature in your reams. Say some argument or situation from the day before. Maybe your dream could link to some task or issue about to be faced on the actual day of the dream?


These pages are especially helpful in showing you how to interpret dreams

Dream symbolism and dream dictionary interpretation - How to interpret dreams Interpreting dreams
Dream symbolism - How to use dream symbols Triggers for dreams
A dream dictionary that explores the variety of meanings in a dream symbol Dream dictionary

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SCARBOROUGHSURFCITY - Scarborough surfing photos from the north and south bay
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Dream interpreting -Online line computer dictionary a computer program which searches out dream symbols.

[summerdreams]

haha why yes, there has been many thoughts and ideas running through my mind lately.



For personal reasons, I have felt a hatred towards women. Please understand that I am not racist, bias or sexist. I respect men and women equally and believe that all should be treated equal. But something happened to me, and I feel hatred towards women, BUT THAT IS NOT MY BELIEF NOR MENTALITY. I cannot help that I feel that way. (I am friends with women and I respect alot of them) Hopefully, I will move on and let go of the past because what I feel is a very bias and sexist emotion which is very negative.


ANother thing is I have been wondering about my crush alot. Like I have heard she is a very nice girl, and then I have heard that she is concieted bitchy etc etc.


Perhaps one of these thoughts have triggered my dream?