My ex Boyfriend is always with a pregnant girl in my dreams

[CasperStorms]

Hey Everyone,

I'm new here and to dream interpretation. Hopefully, someone can help me. Last summer I broke up with my BF of four years. It was a bad break up that I still haven't fully gotten over. I still have deep feelings for him, but he changed into a person I didn't recognize. He let his personal issues and problems get in the way of our relationship. I haven't spoken to him in months, but he seems to be on my mind everyday.

Anyway, starting in Feb I have had two dreams that concern him and pregnancy. My own mother just had a dream about him and a pregnant girl 2 weeks ago.

In the first dream I was standing with one of my friends at some concert. I was in the bottom section and he was on the top with one of his friends and some pregnant girl. In the dream I could see him pointing down at me so they could see me. Then all of a sudden he grabs this girl's hand and leaves. My friend then grabs me so we can follow them. We follow them to this back staircase, but they don't see us. I can hear them fighting and the girl is saying "you're not over her not by a long shot" and he is telling her to shut up and come on. It seemed to me like she was carrying his child.

Then my mom had a dream where she and I was in some women's house. The women beat her young pregnant daughter because she was being disrespectful. While we were in the house my ex and a group of thugs burst in. They wanted to kill this woman for beating this girl. Turns out the girl is pregnant with his child. So the thug guys say they want to kill everyone in the house because we all would know what happened. However, when my ex saw me and my mom there he told us to leave even though his friends wanted to kill us. Later in the dream, he was sitting in a truck with another woman who appeared to be his GF. I was standing outside by his window and he was telling me that he has tried to find me and get in touch with me. He told me to take his number down and the girl in the car was jealous, but she never said a word.

Lastly, I had a dream last week where I hacked into his e-mail account. I saw where he was sending e-mails to this girl he dated after me. However, in this dream he didn't seem to care about me or have any feelings at all. He seemed like he was in love with this girl, but they broke up. Near the subject lines in these e-mails, I kept seeing images of pampers and packages of pampers.

These dreams are really confusing to me. In two dreams he seems to still care and than in another he doesn't. However, in all three there is a theme of pregnancy. I keep wondering if he is expecting a child or something. I wouldn't know anything since he moved out of state and I haven't spoken to him in awhile. If anyone can give me some advice or help it would be greatly appreciated. Thank you.

[CasperStorms]

No responses? I am assuming my dream is cut and dry and there is no other hidden meaning?

That will suck if my ex has turned into a jerk who knocks girls up lol.

[wrgolden]

Pregnancy dreams often symbolize spiritual or psychological growth. It represents a transitional phase in your life that is in the process of growing and developing. Maybe you are starting to move on, or you fear that he is starting to or already has moved on? You said that he moved out of state and that you haven't spoken to him in months. Perhaps the distance and the unknown is what's causing this fear of him moving on. We all want our ex's to continue to want us, even if it was the worst relationship in the world, we're human, it's a natural reaction. Since you haven't fully moved on, subconsciously you may want him to be feeling the same way you are and out of fear you are dreaming that he has moved on.

[CasperStorms]

Wow. First off let me say thank you for responding. I would have never thought of that connection.

You really hit the nail on the head on all points. I do still care for him and I fear that he has totally moved on and forgotten about me. Just to know that he still has some feelings or still cares for me would mean a lot, but sometimes I fear he doesn't. On the flip side, I feel selfish and silly feeling that way.

I do have a question for you......when you say that pregnancy dreams symbolize spiritual or psychological growth, does it only mean my growth or can it mean somebody else's? I ask since I wasn't the one pregnant in the dream and it was his child.

Thanks again for your insight.

[CasperStorms]

Can anyone answer my question?

BTW last night I had another pregnancy dream. This time I was pregnant with my exes baby. I understood what that means since I was the one pregnant. But can anyone answer my previous question? Thanks in advance.