Urgent!! Please help us!

[sumbody_please]

I recently posted a dream I just had about a man that I love but am far away from. ( see thread 'STRANGE AND CONFUSED'] I had a great interpretation from a member and am looking for some insight to the following.

This same man just recited his dream from last night to me, it went as follows:

He said that him and I were purchasing a house, we were moving in together. It wasn't new or anything but we went to go over the paper work and sign the papers making it official and when returning to the house, he describes the front porch as being " all jacked up, in worse condition than we had initially thought."

Please, what do you think that means?

[licia25]

Originally Posted by sumbody_please

I recently posted a dream I just had about a man that I love but am far away from. ( see thread 'STRANGE AND CONFUSED'] I had a great interpretation from a member and am looking for some insight to the following.

This same man just recited his dream from last night to me, it went as follows:

He said that him and I were purchasing a house, we were moving in together. It wasn't new or anything but we went to go over the paper work and sign the papers making it official and when returning to the house, he describes the front porch as being " all jacked up, in worse condition than we had initially thought."

Please, what do you think that means?

Okay, here is where i'm going to go on this one. Houses in dreams usually represent ourselves. He admits that the house isn't new or anything and later find out that the porch is in bad condition. Buying a house is a BIG step in life, it's a step that takes much thought and to buy it with someone shows trust. But this dream says that the person having doesn't see themselves in the highest regard. A porch in a dream has alot to do with one's personality (the outer part of the home), perhaps he doesn't feel his personality is good enough, or maybe he puts on a false persona around you and he may be insecure about his true self (this may only mean that he acts more exaggerated around you, uses more humor than usual or tries to be more suave than he usually does, etc. you'll find that most of us do this to certain people in our lives especially those we want to impress) But he does buy the home with you which says to me that he wants to share something big with you but is insecure. He may feel like he doesn't have enough to offer, but that doesn't just mean money, it could mean he doesn't have enough time to offer or love. Hope this helped. Keep me posted.
best of luck
-licia

[Jennings]

The dream seems to suggest that although, from his pont of view, the relationship between you has all the trappings of being sound, he seems to be worried about becoming too intimate possibly on a long-term basis. It a kind of cautionary dream.

[DrmDoc]

Hi Sumbody,

At your request, I have reviewed this dream. Purchasing a house together is likely how he perceives the time, effort, and value you both have invested in creating the life together you hope to share. Often, houses describe the social structure, stability, and routine that we surround ourselves with for security and comfort sake. When he later describes the front of the house as more dilapidated, it suggests his opinion that the life he had hoped to share with you may not outwardly (frontal imagery of house) appear to be as privileged or appealing as he thought. The dilapidated condition suggests an unfavorable distinction between the life he has and the life he is about to enter.

Your previous dream (killer whale and infidelity) described what concerned you about your companion's behavior; i.e., a concern about fidelity. His dream, however, appears to describes what may have influenced his behavior. I hope this help.