Hapa honey, i cant respond to your thread for some reason...

[Silent_wisp]

So ill answer your dream here.

Before i start i thought id tell you that im still learning about dream interpretation and i have never studied psychology or anything. Ive been teaching myself so if iam wrong or i say anything that annoys you i apologise


When i read your dream my first instinct was that it is relating to "jamie"- as you call him- who you turned down in highschool. Though you may be very happy with your current partner it doesn't mean you don't still wonder "what if i had gone with him?" "what would of happened?"
Everyone has curiosities about decisions they have made in life and wonder what the consequences may be and i think that your dream is your subconcious trying to answer these questions.

The part about you having casual sex is your curiosity aabout sex in general. Since you are a virgin you may be wondering what your experience of sex will be like. As you said, "if you didn't have physical problems you would have lost it by now" Don't take this the wrong way, but i would imagine that you would feel quite frustrated at times by not being able to have sex with your partner. Thats why i feel that this dream is also your mind satifying your curiosity. I can remember having such dreams when i was still a virgin and they stopped when i started having sex. (I hope me saying this didn't offend you or anything)

You also said you are a very considerate person and always put others first which is why this part stood out to me
"but what the long-haired man is doing feels so good that I think 'F*** it' to myself and open my legs so he can have sex with me"

Its human nature to be a bit selfish at times and i think its your mind telling you to think of yourself a bit more. Everyone needs to be a bit selfish sometimes and do something they want to do.

I don't know if that made any kind of sense, but i hope it helped a bit

[Hapa Honey]

Thanks for the quick response!

That is strange that you couldn't respond to my post.

Don't worry, I am not offended by anything you've said!

Sometimes I do wonder 'what if' about a lot of things. Sometimes also about guys who liked me, but I always come to the conclusion that we wouldn't have been as happy together as my partner and I are right now (maybe that's why I was cheating on Jamie?).

I think you are right about the sex part. After spending a lot of time and money correcting the physical problem I do feel very frustrated!

You could also be right about the being selfish part. Actually, we are both planning on getting married and everything seems to be revolving around our parents right now even though it is our wedding and not theirs... That issue was the first thing that popped into my head when I read what you had typed.

[Silent_wisp]

yes- the wedding really is an issue. Ive always wondered why parents are like that. Mine were the same when i wanted to college, i had to do the right course for them
Sometimes you just gotta do whay YOU want

Im glad i helped a bit!