Many Questions, No Answers

[sumbody_please]

I have many questions regarding 3 dreams I've had in the past, and I'm looking for some insight regarding the one I had last night.
I find that my dreams disturb me for one, I don't recall dreaming very often, and second, the content of them when I do scares me.
This is my first time reaching out to anyone regarding this, please let me know if you think you can help.
Details to follow..

The first came to me several years ago, but I remember it as vividly as if it happen last night. I find myself in a building, deserted, emply, chasing my son Sergio (5 years old or so at the time), and with every corner I turn, he seems to be just disappearing behind the next, I think I have the feeling of irratation, calling out to him to stop it and come here, I'm coming out of a long corridor into an opening kind of like a hospital ground floor where there is tile then carpetingall around with elevator doors directly in front of me byond the clearing, when from my right Sergio darts towrds the open elevator doors and fallls down an empty elevator shaft. I hear the boom of impact, instantly I'm peering over the edge down to the bottom floor, and see him, again instantly I'm standing above him leaning over, but on the same floor this time, and I know his neck is broken, his eyes glassy, he isn't dead but I feel within seconds he will be, I awake crying, and yelling NO SERGIO NO!.

The second came a year or so later maybe, first thing I recall is that Im standing in doors, having a face to face conversation with an unknown person, when my attention is drawn to the open doorway to my right, bright daylight beyond with no obstructions, you know like what the sky looks like over the ocean, as my eyes glance to this light I see a man quickly walking past, carrying my son, he never looks in, he doesn't seem scared jsut briskly walking past the door, I run to the opening, turning to the right following them then I notice Im on like the deck of some huge ship, with metal deck, chain like, you know so that you can see the floor beneth, anyway as I come around the corner to ask him what he's doing, he throws my son down the stairs, I don't recall what happen to the man, or seeing Sergio fall down each individual step, but again i'm standing over him, I know his neck is broken, again he has the exact look of nothing can fix him on his face, his little eyes oblivious, I wake screaming and crying again.

The vividness and detail never fades regarding these dreams, with every recolection I can't breathe and warms my face to tears, I don't understand them. Nothing I can think of sybolizes anything in them, it disturbs me, It scares me, and I want to understand. I believe I have a logical thinking patern, I see the reasoning behind every action, every sentence spoken, every thing, I believe I see what drives people to do certain things, why they said this , why they did that, what they meant when they did this, I want to know why, i want to know why my son, why twice??
Just why...

I have 2 more dreams, one about the death of someone, the other more recent, please if you feel something, share it with me, help me find the answers...

[Jennings]

Your dream shows that you possess the natural loving parent's protective instinct. My understanding from what you have said would suggest that your son is your only child and the question is also raised of whether you are a single parent as all your love seems focused entirely on your son. You cherish him and manifestly appreciate his value to your life. The inevitable problem here is that loving someone so dearly evokes fears of possible loss and those fears readily manifest themselves in dreams.

If you are concerned about the dreams being predictive then, possibly, but not probably. Predictive dreams can take years to materialise and the dream lanuage may simply be saying that sometime, when your son is an adult, that he might fall from social grace; it would not necessarily determine his demise, indeed, it would be unlikely. If such a social situation did arise then it looks as if you will be by his side ready to help.

Try not to allow your dreams to hinder or spoil this wonderful love you have for your son and do not allow them to spoil the happiness of the present. One can only know if a dream is predictive after the event and few dreams, very few indeed, are predictive.

If you are a Christian, which I suspect you might be, then remember the biblical tale of Jesus when he went into the mountains and the devil tempted him; recall what Jesus was reputed to have said to the devil? Then you do the same and liberate yourself from this devil of yours!

[Wolfjk]

Hi,
I agree with much of Jennings says, However dreams do not predict anithing - they reflect what you are thinking of, fear or things that you think likely to happen.
You said your dreams happened some time ago so you will not remember your own state of health at the time of the dreams. My experience is that dreams are concerned only with what is happening to the dreamer in the sleep. I believe that you had some problems with your own health in the sleep these dreams happened in and you had to be woken from sleep by the nightmares you described.
Your subconscious was using your fear and concern for your child to wake you from your sleep.
I think you can be sure that the dreams concerned only your own health and safty.
Cheers Wolfjk