need help with interpretation

[kittymomma]

since i am new here is a little background about me i have tons of prophetic dreams ever since i was younger and woke to find a cross under my pillow that no one in my family or any one of my friends had ever seen before when i was 15 i had a dream about my 2 sons with my father and his girlfriend and my husband all there and at the time i had not even met my husband my father lived in another state and was not with the girlfriend well at the age of 20 it happened exactly as i dreamed it sometimes it happens a few days later other times weeks months or years later ok so now since that is out of the way here is my dream i need help with


my mother (who lives in another state) myself and my almost 2 year old son were living on the second floor of my grandparents 2 family home (both of them ar no longer with us and the house has been sold although i did live there for 4-5 years) women from my family kept coming by and saying that my grandmother was alive again (she passed away almost 6 years ago) so we went down the stairs and around the side of the house my male cousin was there and my mother dissapeared then i went around to the front of the house and my cousin dissapeared and i saw a different male cousin wrestling with my very first boyfriend all the doors and windows on the first floor were open i walked up the stairs and the wrestling duo dissapeared i walked through the door into the living room and it was just as it was the last time i saw it then into the kitchen where i saw my grandmother sitting in a chair that was right in front of a hallway that lead to the back door blocking anyone from coming in that door or going out of that door now by this point in the dream i was standing in front of her holding my youngest son on my hip and i was feeling shocked and not believing what i was seeing and i did not want to say arent you supposed to be dead well then she said to me well dont you have anything to say to me and i went on to say how i love her and missed her and asked her where she has been and what it was like she ignored me then asked who i was holding and i told her then i went to hug her but she pushed me away and she was eating small pickles (me and my grandmother were very close so that last part about bieng pushed away made no sense) then i woke up crying and my husband heard and asked if i was ok i told him and then i had a panic attack and could not breath

now this is as far as i got with the interpretation so far i believe in reincarnation so one thing i was thinking was maybe she is telling me she is ready to be reborn or in the process of bieng reborn (also i just found out i am pregnant with a daughter)

another thought was maybe she was pushing me away because she did not approve of my life she passed away before my children were born and before i married

i have had dreams about here before once the same one for a week straight and the last time i dreamt it my grandfather (her husband) passed away the next day and the dream was just her face like she was trying to prepare and confort me we were surrounded by a light purple haze

and the only other dream i had with her in it was really wierd and havent figured that one out yet either but this other is more important or atleast i feel it is please any help would be greatly apreciated and dont mind my spelling i am trying to get this down fast thanks again

christina

[Varzandeh]

Hi,
The dreams you said in the first paragraph are Deja Vu dreams .They happen as they are seen days or months later.But they are less than 5% of the dreams .Usually dreams are symbolic and based on illusions of holy books verses.
Here is a little more about dreams:
I want to tell you a reason to know that 5 senses can't understand anything except by the soul,
Have you dreamt you were eating and drinking and had pleasure of that. He said yes. I said: have you dreamt laughing and crying, and strolling in the cities that haven't seen yet but you know the specialties. He said: yes dreamt very much. I said: Have you ever dreamt about your dead brother or father and know them like they are alive.
He said: yes too many times. I said: tell me which sense has received such things to see the dead and talking to them or crying and laughing. He said: I can’t say which one. Because the body is slept like a dead. I said: tell me when you wake up don’t you remember and report to the friends exactly, He said; yes and sometimes I see that before night in real life. I said; which sense keeps it to remember the dream after waking. He said; there is no way for sense. I said then you should know because senses are vein here that is the soul that God has put wisdom in it and it is a reason. He said; what I dream is like mirage one thinks it is water but when arrive at there is nothing. I said; how do you say it is like mirage and you ate sweets and pickles and were happy and sad he said; because what I dream when I arrive at it is nothing. I said: have you ever had sex in the dream and your hearts beat, have you ever had wet dream about a woman or man. You know him or don’t know He said many times said had you orgasm and when you woke up you were wet then this is not mirage.
He said: dreaming orgasm is just like the real life .I said this is my reason that soul. Knows everything although senses are dead and can’t see or hear of course you shouldn’t deny that soul in addition of the senses knowledge recognition in the waking life and after vanishing the senses has sex with them then it recognizes the things after going senses and now you understand that the itself is guiding the senses and is their governor and none of the senses can’t do anything without soul; if the soul goes a head body wasn’t get back and if soul gets back the body won’t go ahead with the soul the happiness comes and with it the ache is received if a sense is damaged the soul is remained but if the soul is damaged senses can work properly.

Dream language interpretation is an ancient science of allusions . Pointing of the surrounded environment. As Mr. Einstein has said the events are like train stations which exist and we are moving towards them. These are prewritten destiny with some authority ( in decision making seconds) in a very full details. This dream language should be translated, and interesting to know it is international and common for all human beings. But ignorance causes some misunderstanings.People were not aware of this language and always thought in a bad way , for example Mr. Freud said about sexual dreams it is because you have suppressed your sexual desires so misled everybody and some women dreamt about having sex with co-workers or another and thought they should do that, while it only meant he will do something for her, or some others dreamt had sex with the same sex and invented homosexual, while it meant the same ,Also some men dreamt his wife had sex with a man and didn't understand or a woman dreamt her partner had sex with a woman and didn't' understand ...etc.Do you see what catastrophes are caused by misunderstanding a language. About the approximate interpretation time table: Dreams at noon or exactly at midnight( In the summer time 13 at noon and 1 midnight else at 12)in the same day if past a few minutes, a few days later. Dreams at 10-11 in the morning in 15-30 days later. Also dreams at 3-4 in the evening in 1-2 months .Dreams in the sunset mostly are not truthful and are messed, they have no interpretations, Dreams at 4-5 in the morning in a few days to 2 months some dreams in the holy books( Josef dream of kneeling the sun and the moon and 11 stars)was interpreted after 20 years and other dreams of the Pharaoh's prisoners interpreted in the same day and after 7 years. Dream of Pharaoh about the 7 thin cows and 7 fat cows interpreted from the next year to 14 years. Also dreams in 6th of the month will interpret after 1-2 days, in 9th at the same day, in 10th after 20 days, in 13th after 9 days in 14th after 26 days and in 15th after 3 days, in 16th after 2 days and in 28th ,29th ,30th in the same day, but these are solar (Persian months and you should refer to a calendar or convert them) . Of course there are different kinds of dreams , like messy dreams which have no interpretations or deja vu dreams, or psychological dreams or dreams which are caused by bad food or drinks.

Waiting for your next short dreams that are the most prophetic but in symbols.
Good luck.

[kittymomma]

ok a little hard to follow and not exactly what i asked for but thanks for the reply anyway how about any one else any other thoughts

[kittymomma]

ok i dont understand how i can get 35 people looking at my post but only one who answered and not even really an answer i am not asking for a pros opinion i am asking for other people normal everyday peoples opinions everyone else seems to get thiers answered i guess as long as your 15 and scared or 15 and thinking your crazy every1 pays attention maybe next time i will put something more interesting as a topic like nude dream whats up with that then maybe i will get an answer sorry if i seem a little ticked off but i really was looking for some kind of thought from anyone about this particular dream not dreams in general and not lessons from the bible or whatever that was thanks anyway i guess i am left on my own here

[licia25]

Kittymomma, i will give you my own opinion on your dream as best i can but let me say this first. Some dreams on this site are answered before others for different reasons. First off i think you posted this dream in the wrong section, second some dreams are easier to interpret than others. I've interpreted dreams on this site to best of my ability, i have looked at your dream a number of times and have had much difficulty with it. If you've had alot of views but no posts then i would assume that others are having the same difficulty trying to help you. your dream is no less interesting than any others but mind you this is a community, i have come to realize but thankfully so, that you must give as much as recieve in this community. When i first came on here it took while to get a response but then i asked myself, "have i not been interpreting my own dreams for years now? Can i not try to help others while i am here?" and so i did and found joy in it and started to get help in return. I've found more joy with helping others with their dreams than i ever thought i would on this site, let's face it, that's not why i came here, i came here to get answers for myself and that was it. I would assume that you have tried to help others with their dreams as well on here? All of us are here for a reason, we all need and want help with dreams that linger on in our minds despite trying to understand them. We each come on here to find answers, keep in mind you are not the only one who has not had satisfactory posts, some have been on here longer than you and have had none at all. I am sorry you feel hurt and ignored, but you are not ignored, people are watching your thread. I do find it disrespectful that you chose to specifically point out others' dreams in your complaint; their dreams are just as worthy as yours. Instead of belittling their dream interp needs, you should have left them out of this. Again I am sorry that you haven't received any posts, but like I said, you have to give to get.
Here is what i can gather from your dream:
This kind of dream is a common one, dreams of deceased loved ones happen often especially after changes in our life. These kinds of dreams are usually because of a need for closure or a need for advice or comfort from this person. When she pushes you away, it may only be YOUR feelings being projected thru her. Maybe you are worried that she would not approve even tho that may not be her nature, because she is no longer here you cannot be for sure. In these kinds of circumstances, you may just have to go with your gut that she would approve and love you just as you are. Others may try to tell you she is trying to contact you and send you a message from beyond the grave, but you knew her best and that would be for you to decide. The locations and such are from your past and perhaps a part of what your life was like when she was still alive. HOw does this dream make you feel? about your loved ones, the places, the mood of the dream...I would start there to fully understand this dream.
hope i helped alittle
best of luck
-licia

[kittymomma]

well thanks for trying i think i made a huge mistake coming here and asking for help and thinking maybe i could help someone else but i have been more upset since posting here and i was not pointing out any particular dream there were a few where they said they were 15 in the subject line and i was not trying to belittle thier dreams i was simply saying they seemed to get more posts and people seemed to be more interested by what was in thier subject line that all had nothing to do with thier dreams and because i am not bieng understood here that is antoher reason why i will not post here again i thought i had finally found a place where people would understand me and not think i was crazing for these dreams and feelings that i have and like i said i am sorry if i offended anyone by the post but i am very emotional right now and it is hard to control my feelings and this dream is really messing with me and i dont know why you think i posted in the wrong thread this is the dream interpretation thread right well that is what i was looking for but anyway thank you for taking the time to read my post and try to answer me and i am sorry once again if i have offended anyone and you wont have to worry about it ever happening again because i will not make the mistake of posting any of my dreams in here ever again i will figure it out on my own in time i already have a few possible ideas good luck to you all looking for help and advice hope you get it and i wish everyone a happy and healthy life i am sorry things went this way

[Clarity]

Kittymomma, I am sorry if you feel like you´re being ignored, however, as you can see we´re all here trying to help you already People have been reading your post and your dream is really interesting, but just like Licia said this is a community. You said you were feeling emotional and I completely understand why you acted the way you did and I´m sure none of us in here meant to offend you.

Your dream is, indeed, very difficult to interpret and I´m sorry since I cannot help you with this one. I´m just writing this to welcome you here, and i hope you didn´t mean what you said about figuring these things out on your own. I´m sure we´ll all be glad to help you in the future, however, I´m giving you an advice to be patient as most people in here (like myself) are just normal people with our own, busy lives and it may take some time for people to simply find the time to post a reply. Please feel free to share with us any dreams you need help with, i´m sure we´ll all do the best we can to help you. And as you´ve already started to interpret other´s dreams I´m sure you´ll more likely also get more replys to your own dreams. Good luck with everything

[sumbody_please]

I am brand new here, and I don't feel I am of any use to others regarding their dreams, but I wonder if you already know what your dream is about and either you're looking to have someone give you a different explanation because you don't like what you see/ feel about this particular dream, or you are looking for someone to confirm what you already know. I feel bad that I am not as talented as yourself or others in deciphering these things, I think its a shame you would cut others like myself off from your gifts, I think maybe by helping others with your gift, you perhaps can bring peace and acceptance to your current situation regarding this one dream. I don't want you mad at me, I wish I knew more people with underliying characteristics I see in your posting, I think releasing yourself from this hostility is your key in the answers you may be seeking.

I truely hope to hear from you. By the way, Love your name.

ALWAYS, CHRISTINE

[Jennings]

Even after 6 years from your grandmother's passing you still seem to be in the throes of bereavement as if emotionally you are unable to let her go. The conflict within your dream might indicate a concern you have over your current marital situation, almost as if you feel that your grandmother would not approve (of whatever it is). It is not unusual for the bereaved to become stuck at some level of grief. In folk lore it is believed that if you are not able to allow the dead to pass-on then their spiritual development could be hindered. It is not a view that to which I subscribe but will leave the thought with you.

Incidentally, and I am not attempting to be facetious but, thanks for the feedback.

[kittymomma]

to clarity thanks i am feeling better now just not much time to be on here right now

to christine i do have my own opinions but i am no expert either and this one was really tough and i needed some extra eyes and mins to help me

to jennings i have accepted my grandmothers passing and my concern with my grandmother not approving is really just because i got pregnant for the first time really young and moved away from all my family to be with the father to see if we wanted to be together or if we would be better of not together and we decided we wanted to be married which was also done very young and then i became pregnant once again and now for the third time and that is my concern my grandmother was a very important person ikn my life and i feel that she does tend to look in on me from time to time and i do see her in dreams not doing routine things that i have seen her do a hundred times but odd things or nothing at all and something big usually happens when she comes to me in a dream

and to everyone thanks again and i am sorry for my outbursts i am very bad with my temper and bieng pregnant and quiting smoking cold turkey does not help and i also know that it is not an excuse and i am sorry if i offended anyone thanks again