boyfriend raping other girls

[licia25]

Had a dream in which i found out that my boyfriend was a rapist. He saw girls developed crushes on them then raped them when he was supposed to be at work. I found out thru a vision of him tying a girl up and raping her. When i confronted him he said he loved me but chose to rape rather than stay with me. After the argument in which i cried hysterically we went to the store he worked, i was so depressed i became suicidal, i decided to steal from his store he followed me asking me to put it back ( a fountain pen) i said no and walked out of the store and turned around, he turned into a security officer with a gun, i wanted him to shoot me to stop the pain of what he'd done. My boyfriend and I have a wonderful relationship but i am plagued by dreams like this....

[Varzandeh]

Hi,
Dream symbols are disgusting but mean good, if he had sex would mean he will do a favor to her and rape means he does favors people unwanted?!!
Crying if in tears means you will receive a happiness soon.
Stealing something means you will receive some dignity and a pen means you will follow the science or study.
Good luck.

[licia25]

thanks so much for reading and offering helpl
my boyfriend and I have a perfect relationship, we've been together almost 2 years and have never had an argument. Many people around us express jealousy and utter disbelief that we are so happy together which can get rather upsetting after awhile. though he is such a wonderful person, caring, thoughtful, patient, giving, i am plagued with these kind of dreams. They are very upsetting and i have them often. I appreciate any help. thanks again.

[unclesirbobbyrobson]

well our dreams represent our insecurites and the very thoughts that we have. They can be extremely symbolic. Rape is a physical act but iots also got other things asdsociated with it. It symnbolises powerlessness,disrespect and things like that. Does your bf talk disrespectfully about womenin general or trEat you or others in a shabby way?

But likeI say dreams are symbolic and can mean lots of things... try not to worry

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If a dream features someone you know who is important to you then start out seeing if the dream is about them. The dream maybe a clarification of how you feel about them and your relationship with them. Dreams represent our thoughts and thoughts that we should be able to recognise. Try writing down some quotes that capture the current state of your feelings about them eg "My friend is not being as supportive as I she could be". Then try to see how the symbols could work. Negative symbols and bad feelings in the dream may represent bad feelings in real life or present difficulties. Many dreams about close friends, fiances, boyfriends and close family members will be about them and will represent new feelings. So try to spot ways in which new feelings are developing. It could be you are reacting to some incident the day before. Or it could be that some pattern is building up and finally you have changed your mind on them. But as we go through life we constantly assess and reassess how our relationships are progressing. Dreams are part of the way the brain monitors our own emotions. They maybe hidden in code but they truly can represent the very latest changes in your feelings. But having said that any person can appear in a dream and that dream may not be about that person.

These pages are especially helpful in showing you how to interpret dreams

Dream symbolism and dream dictionary interpretation - How to interpret dreams Interpreting dreams
Dream symbolism - How to use dream symbols Triggers for dreams
A dream dictionary that explores the variety of meanings in a dream symbol Dream dictionary

[Varzandeh]

Dream language interpretation is an ancient science of allusions . Pointing of the surrounded environment. As Mr. Einstein has said the events are like train stations which exist and we are moving towards them. These are prewritten destiny with some authority ( in decision making seconds) in a very full details. This dream language should be translated, and interesting to know it is international and common for all human beings. But ignorance causes some misunderstanings.People were not aware of this language and always thought in a bad way , for example Mr. Freud said about sexual dreams it is because you have suppressed your sexual desires so misled everybody and some women dreamt about having sex with co-workers or another and thought they should do that, while it only meant he will do something for her, or some others dreamt had sex with the same sex and invented homosexual, while it meant the same ,Also some men dreamt his wife had sex with a man and didn't understand or a woman dreamt her partner had sex with a woman and didn't' understand ...etc.Do you see what catastrophes are caused by misunderstanding a language. About the approximate interpretation time table: Dreams at noon or exactly at midnight( In the summer time 13 at noon and 1 midnight else at 12)in the same day if past a few minutes, a few days later. Dreams at 10-11 in the morning in 15-30 days later. Also dreams at 3-4 in the evening in 1-2 months .Dreams in the sunset mostly are not truthful and are messed, they have no interpretations, Dreams at 4-5 in the morning in a few days to 2 months some dreams in the holy books( Josef dream of kneeling the sun and the moon and 11 stars)was interpreted after 20 years and other dreams of the Pharaoh's prisoners interpreted in the same day and after 7 years. Dream of Pharaoh about the 7 thin cows and 7 fat cows interpreted from the next year to 14 years. Also dreams in 6th of the month will interpret after 1-2 days, in 9th at the same day, in 10th after 20 days, in 13th after 9 days in 14th after 26 days and in 15th after 3 days, in 16th after 2 days and in 28th ,29th ,30th in the same day, but these are solar (Persian months and you should refer to a calendar or convert them) . Of course there are different kinds of dreams , like messy dreams which have no interpretations or deja vu dreams, or psychological dreams or dreams which are caused by bad food or drinks.


I want to tell you a reason to know that 5 senses can't understand anything except by the soul,
Have you dreamt you were eating and drinking and had pleasure of that. He said yes. I said: have you dreamt laughing and crying, and strolling in the cities that haven't seen yet but you know the specialties. He said: yes dreamt very much. I said: Have you ever dreamt about your dead brother or father and know them like they are alive.
He said: yes too many times. I said: tell me which sense has received such things to see the dead and talking to them or crying and laughing. He said: I can’t say which one. Because the body is slept like a dead. I said: tell me when you wake up don’t you remember and report to the friends exactly, He said; yes and sometimes I see that before night in real life. I said; which sense keeps it to remember the dream after waking. He said; there is no way for sense. I said then you should know because senses are vein here that is the soul that God has put wisdom in it and it is a reason. He said; what I dream is like mirage one thinks it is water but when arrive at there is nothing. I said; how do you say it is like mirage and you ate sweets and pickles and were happy and sad he said; because what I dream when I arrive at it is nothing. I said: have you ever had sex in the dream and your hearts beat, have you ever had wet dream about a woman or man. You know him or don’t know He said many times said had you orgasm and when you woke up you were wet then this is not mirage.
He said: dreaming orgasm is just like the real life .I said this is my reason that soul. Knows everything although senses are dead and can’t see or hear of course you shouldn’t deny that soul in addition of the senses knowledge recognition in the waking life and after vanishing the senses has sex with them then it recognizes the things after going senses and now you understand that the itself is guiding the senses and is their governor and none of the senses can’t do anything without soul; if the soul goes a head body wasn’t get back and if soul gets back the body won’t go ahead with the soul the happiness comes and with it the ache is received if a sense is damaged the soul is remained but if the soul is damaged senses can work properly.

[joew2690]

Originally Posted by licia25

Had a dream in which i found out that my boyfriend was a rapist. He saw girls developed crushes on them then raped them when he was supposed to be at work. I found out thru a vision of him tying a girl up and raping her. When i confronted him he said he loved me but chose to rape rather than stay with me. After the argument in which i cried hysterically we went to the store he worked, i was so depressed i became suicidal, i decided to steal from his store he followed me asking me to put it back ( a fountain pen) i said no and walked out of the store and turned around, he turned into a security officer with a gun, i wanted him to shoot me to stop the pain of what he'd done. My boyfriend and I have a wonderful relationship but i am plagued by dreams like this....

I am no expert on this at all and you can take or leave what I say, but to me it seems like with all the negative your friends and maybe people you know put in your head you fear for loss of your boyfriend. You are scared to lose the ones you love. You love him with all the love in your body, that you would rather die and not take the pain of losing him. Also you would rather have died then to hurt him.

I believe this is you yourself giving assurance to yourself that there is no question in your mind that you love him. But you have doubts that he will love you the same way that you have shown him. I recommend you be cautious of this dream and do not let it dictate the way you look at him or questioning him, just continue loving him the way you do, because without a shadow of a doubt you would do anything for him.

[licia25]

thank you so much joew, that is very very true, i'm amazed you saw that in this dream. It is true that i love him very much and hope for the same love in return. They are many insecurities and my father hates him and is constantley trying to tell me my boyfriend is a bad person and doesn't truly love me. so what a great interp thanks
-licia