Pathetic 15 year old. Appreciates help.

[KookieItaliano]

Yeah.. I'm sure the last thing you people need is some lovesick 15 year old whining. But, I have nothing else to do.. so you random strangers get to take a dip into my personal life. And I'm hoping for some help.

I don't know if this is a factor at all, but previously yesterday I got word that this dude that I swear I've fallen for [as hard as a teenager can fall..which I know adults think is total bs, but just stick with me here]... told anotehr one of my friends that he knows he can kiss me anytime he wants, but he actually cares about me and doesnt want me to get caught up in his personal life, seeing as he's seeing a few other girls.

But anyway... After being beyond confused and a few tears later... I fell asleep. Which is where my lovely dream begins.

My friend Kristen and I went to the Japanese restaurant that he works at, and went to sit at the Hibachi bar. There was no one else in the place except for me, Kristen, the Hibachi chef, and like.. hundreds of waiters and waitresses running around there. They were taking the most conveluded paths to get to various places in the restaurant. I saw the object of my affection a few times, but was never able to get his attention. Finally, he passed by me so I tapped his shoulder. Right when he turned around to look at me... I woke up.

So. There. Help if you can. Tell me I don't belong in here if you must. I'm just beyond confused and I just want to see if this freakin' dream means anything.

[JON]

Well, as the "man of your your dreams" is seeing other girls, it doesn't say much for him. Does it? If he cared about you at all, he'd lose those others, and date you instead. And only you. That you can't get his attention in the restaurant means he's probably ignoring you, and eyeing up some tart of a waitress!

My advice. Forget him, he's not worth it. Move on. There's plenty of other boys, and probably much better ones too. But don't whatever you do, try to "fight fire with fire", by trying to make him jealous, by flirting with other boys. Coz two wrongs don't make a right!

Cheers, Jon.

[licia25]

I agree with JON here. This is a guy who likes his freedom a bit too much. The running people everywhere may be showing you that he surrounded by too many ppl (girls it sounds like) for you to catch his attention. Crushes, unrequited love, whichever you may call it hurt and are confusing and most of all blinding. Prince charmings DO exsist but this is not one of them and don't be fooled by those in sheep's clothing they can be the most hurtful. Be careful, don't waste time when there could be someone out there much better just waiting for you to notice them.
good luck!
-licia

[joew2690]

I have read a few of licia25's interpretations and I will tell you licia you have a pure God given talent and you have an amazing prophetic gift. Whether you hit the interpretation head on or you may be way off base, I can see great things in you and I can see that you care for people and you have a true self-less heart. I just wanted to let you know that.

Now my Interpretation of this dream KookieItaliano is that it appears to me what you said before the dream is indicating that he is in a point of his life right now where he can not make a dedication to one girl, which usually indicates that there is something very troubling going on in his life. For him to say he does not want to hurt you and you should not get mixed in with him is a pretty bold statement, and I would just befriend him and stay away from a more serious relationship or you will be bound to get hurt.

However the dream seems to indicate like Licia25 is that he is tied in his own place where he cannot take the action to commit to a relationship at this time. Also in the dream you said he did not notice you, I think that is saying he is just to busy with his life right now that he does not have time for all the things he may or may not want. I think when you were about to look into his eyes to see how he felt is why you woke up because, you are not really sure what he is feeling at this time. I agree with Jon and Licia25 and you should take some time to yourself and maybe just be a friend he can rely on when he may need it.

[JON]

I agree with JON here. This is a guy who likes his freedom a bit too much. The running people everywhere may be showing you that he surrounded by too many ppl (girls it sounds like) for you to catch his attention. Crushes, unrequited love, whichever you may call it hurt and are confusing and most of all blinding. Prince charmings DO exsist but this is not one of them and don't be fooled by those in sheep's clothing they can be the most hurtful. Be careful, don't waste time when there could be someone out there much better just waiting for you to notice them.
good luck!

Hello again, Licia. Thanks for that. Sadly, I speak from experience. But am happy in my private life at the moment....

Cheers, Jon.

[Jennings]

You have just come through puberty and are attracted to this young man and probably fantasize about him and, young love, especially at aged 15, can evoke powerful feelings and if rejected can hurt deeply and at times turn to hatred. You are hopeful that your affection will be reciprocated but this is not happening as obviously he does not harbour the same deep feelings about you but he will take advantage of your caresses when he is in need or has no other female available. This is one of life's trials that will confront you throughout the remainder of your adult life; it is all part of maturation. Your dream is simply confirming your inner-fear. Try not to allow yourself to be emotionally vulnerable in his company (although at your stage to life you might find this constraint difficult) and do not blame his rejection on any short-comings you might feel you have. You clearly are an intelligent young lady and if you become too involved in relationships with the opposite sex at this stage to your life you will probably later regret doing so. Meantime, enjoy those wonderful exciting feelings of young love!

[licia25]

Those are such very kind words Joew, i really appreciate them. You've made my day, my week! very very kind but i just try to help...I see a caring soul in you joew for such kind words.
much love
-licia

[joew2690]

Originally Posted by licia25

Those are such very kind words Joew, i really appreciate them. You've made my day, my week! very very kind but i just try to help...I see a caring soul in you joew for such kind words.
much love
-licia

You are most certainly welcome, I speak what I feel, and I can only sense loving vibes off your personality that you have shown. Whether you originally came here for self-gain or answers, I can tell that your hearts desired changed and you knew people were in need of your wisdom that you can bring to the table. All I can say is you are doing a great job, and I am sure people appreciate it more then they could ever describe.

Blessed are the poor in spirit: for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.
Blessed are they that hunger and thirst after righteousness: for they shall be filled.
Blessed are the merciful: for they shall obtain mercy.
Blessed are the pure in heart: for they shall see God.
Blessed are they that have been persecuted for righteousness' sake: for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.

Genesis 12:3
I will bless those who bless you, and whoever curses you I will curse; and all peoples on earth will be blessed through you."

John 20:29
Then Jesus told him, "Because you have seen me, you have believed; blessed are those who have not seen and yet have believed."

Best Regards,
Joew2690

[licia25]

Joew, you've left me speachless! You are very kind. I'm glad I found this site. Thanks so much! I'm flattered.

JON your very welcome if only we could visit our younger selves and show them of what to be wary, but we can't and that's a part of life and how we grow.

Kookie, i hope that you are finding the answers you need. It's hard to be told to do the opposite of what your heart tells you to, in the end your choices are yours, hope they lead you to happiness.
best of luck
-licia

[JON]

JON your very welcome if only we could visit our younger selves and show them of what to be wary, but we can't and that's a part of life and how we grow.

Interpretations on that strange dream painting of mine show this is a 'level' it can be 'read on'. Our lost youth and past [the black covering the white on the boy]. When everything appeared to be so much better. Golden - like that corn. With endless blue skies - freedom. And white clouds - innocence. Then we have to grow up and 'move on', leaving all that behind us. The boy is like a 'shadow' - memories? I keep thinking of that Cher song "If I could turn back time. If I could find a way... ." Sadly, time travel hasn't been realised...yet... .

I'm analysing my Dream Journal notes on the colours and techniques used to try and identify the artist!

Cheers, Licia.
Jon.