Feeling desire for someone else

[dreamy]

A little bit of background: There was a guy in one of my classes whom I felt instantly attracted to. We both felt the chemistry, however I'm married but it me and my husband were fighting a lot at that time. Me and this guy tried to be friends for a while but it really just wasn't working and I was feeling guilty so we lost touch. I had thrown his number away but I knew it by heart for a while. Recently I realized that I had forgotten it and could not remember it even though I tried. So, two days ago I had a dream about him (not the first) I dont remmeber the setting but we both felt the attraction and I desperately wanted to be kissed by him. I realized in my dream that I still had my wedding ring on and I nervously started fidgeting with it in order to get it off. I felt guilt, I think or it was more like anxiety. While he was kissing me I felt so good and so in love, while I was still trying to get my ring off thinking I don't want him to notice I have it. I sorta woke up shocked by what had just happened and out of nowhere his number popped in to my head again. I suddenly knew it again which just felt odd because I consciously could not have recalled it before. I am not sure what this tells me- was it just a crush, does it say something about my marriage or about what I really want?

[Jennings]

Your dream does not demean your marriage nor your husband in any way. We all have the capacity to love more than one person and as one passes through life, situations like this arise from time to time demanding from us self-discipline and loyalty which, on such occasions, we often hate to apply. It is all part of life's experiences. There is obviously 'chemistry' between this other person and yourself which is a potent cocktail of emotion but the question is, could you really live with this guy? If I can add this anecdote; my brother is fond of saying this about his wife, "I love her, but I don't like her"! Try not to be in this situation as the friction it creates can have unfortunate spin-offs. Enjoy the fantasies, then cuddle your husband!

[Varzandeh]

Hi,
Dream language symbols are sometimes disgusting.It simply means that he who kisssed you will do you a favor , if you started may mean that you will do him a favor.Nothing more.
Good luck.

[Varzandeh]

Dream language interpretation is an ancient science of allusions . Pointing of the surrounded environment. As Mr. Einstein has said the events are like train stations which exist and we are moving towards them. These are prewritten destiny with some authority ( in decision making seconds) in a very full details. This dream language should be translated, and interesting to know it is international and common for all human beings. But ignorance causes some misunderstanings.People were not aware of this language and always thought in a bad way , for example Mr. Freud said about sexual dreams it is because you have suppressed your sexual desires so misled everybody and some women dreamt about having sex with co-workers or another and thought they should do that, while it only meant he will do something for her, or some others dreamt had sex with the same sex and invented homosexual, while it meant the same ,Also some men dreamt his wife had sex with a man and didn't understand or a woman dreamt her partner had sex with a woman and didn't' understand ...etc.Do you see what catastrophes are caused by misunderstanding a language. About the approximate interpretation time table: Dreams at noon or exactly at midnight( In the summer time 13 at noon and 1 midnight else at 12)in the same day if past a few minutes, a few days later. Dreams at 10-11 in the morning in 15-30 days later. Also dreams at 3-4 in the evening in 1-2 months .Dreams in the sunset mostly are not truthful and are messed, they have no interpretations, Dreams at 4-5 in the morning in a few days to 2 months some dreams in the holy books( Josef dream of kneeling the sun and the moon and 11 stars)was interpreted after 20 years and other dreams of the Pharaoh's prisoners interpreted in the same day and after 7 years. Dream of Pharaoh about the 7 thin cows and 7 fat cows interpreted from the next year to 14 years. Also dreams in 6th of the month will interpret after 1-2 days, in 9th at the same day, in 10th after 20 days, in 13th after 9 days in 14th after 26 days and in 15th after 3 days, in 16th after 2 days and in 28th ,29th ,30th in the same day, but these are solar (Persian months and you should refer to a calendar or convert them) . Of course there are different kinds of dreams , like messy dreams which have no interpretations or deja vu dreams, or psychological dreams or dreams which are caused by bad food or drinks.



I want to tell you a reason to know that 5 senses can't understand anything except by the soul,
Have you dreamt you were eating and drinking and had pleasure of that. He said yes. I said: have you dreamt laughing and crying, and strolling in the cities that haven't seen yet but you know the specialties. He said: yes dreamt very much. I said: Have you ever dreamt about your dead brother or father and know them like they are alive.
He said: yes too many times. I said: tell me which sense has received such things to see the dead and talking to them or crying and laughing. He said: I can’t say which one. Because the body is slept like a dead. I said: tell me when you wake up don’t you remember and report to the friends exactly, He said; yes and sometimes I see that before night in real life. I said; which sense keeps it to remember the dream after waking. He said; there is no way for sense. I said then you should know because senses are vein here that is the soul that God has put wisdom in it and it is a reason. He said; what I dream is like mirage one thinks it is water but when arrive at there is nothing. I said; how do you say it is like mirage and you ate sweets and pickles and were happy and sad he said; because what I dream when I arrive at it is nothing. I said: have you ever had sex in the dream and your hearts beat, have you ever had wet dream about a woman or man. You know him or don’t know He said many times said had you orgasm and when you woke up you were wet then this is not mirage.
He said: dreaming orgasm is just like the real life .I said this is my reason that soul. Knows everything although senses are dead and can’t see or hear of course you shouldn’t deny that soul in addition of the senses knowledge recognition in the waking life and after vanishing the senses has sex with them then it recognizes the things after going senses and now you understand that the itself is guiding the senses and is their governor and none of the senses can’t do anything without soul; if the soul goes a head body wasn’t get back and if soul gets back the body won’t go ahead with the soul the happiness comes and with it the ache is received if a sense is damaged the soul is remained but if the soul is damaged senses can work properly.

[JON]

Maybe you 'losing' this guy's number, both in reality and the dream, is a way of telling you to 'forget him'. The fact it didn't work out just being friends says a lot. But your dreams manisfested your hopes with this guy, that maybe there was a slim chance of a relationship. But that ring wouldn't budge. Then the guy's number was recalled. You are torn between your husband and that guy.

Yet, despite the 'fighting' [all relationships go through rough patches] you marriage is still strong. The main thing is how you 'weather' those 'storms'. The ring was telling you that. The circle stands for unity, wholeness, the bond between you and your husband. The solemn promises before God, your family and friends you made at the altar. Not to be taken lightly. Talk through any problems and difficulties you have with your husband. Rather than seeking what appears to be an attractive and all-too-easy 'escape route'. Maybe the dream is telling you that.

I agree with Jennings:

Try not to be in this situation, as the friction it creates can have unfortunate spin-offs. Enjoy the fantasies, then cuddle your husband!

Good luck. Jon.

[JON]

Maybe you 'losing' this guy's number, both in reality and the dream, is a way of telling you to 'forget him'. The fact it didn't work out just being friends says a lot. But your dreams manisfested your hopes with this guy, that maybe there was a slim chance of a relationship. But that ring wouldn't budge. Then the guy's number was recalled. You are torn between your husband and that guy.

Yet, despite the 'fighting' [all relationships go through rough patches] you marriage is still strong. The main thing is how you 'weather' those 'storms'. The ring was telling you that. The circle stands for unity, wholeness, the bond between you and your husband. The solemn promises before God, your family and friends you made at the altar. Not to be taken lightly. Talk through any problems and difficulties you have with your husband. Rather than seeking what appears to be an attractive and all-too-easy 'escape route'. Maybe the dream is telling you that.

I agree with Jennings:

Try not to be in this situation, as the friction it creates can have unfortunate spin-offs. Enjoy the fantasies, then cuddle your husband!

Good luck. Jon.