two dreams : my insecurities?

[mmr1972]

Hello All -

I would like to thank everybody that voiced their opinions on my previous dream.

These dreams I had both in the same night, rather early morning hours before I woke up. Typically I have dreams of a similar nature after a period of time when the woman I'm seeing and I have the opportunity to spend a lot of time together, and then life gets busy and communication and contact gets cut drastically.

The first dream:
We are in a campground type location with a stream and rocks. There is myself, her and two other guys who have an interest in her. One of them is my brother in law, oddly. During the dream it appears she is enjoying the interest and dividing her time equally amongst us all. At the end of the dream I am climbing down some wet rocks and see her sitting by the side of a creek crying. At this point I wake up.

The second dream:
Very short dream where we are on a drive to a county park that we often go to that has a creek (different than in the first dream) and special place we like to go sit and just enjoy the outdoors and being together. She is driving and suddenly looks at me and says 'mmr1972 I am never going to marry you'. At this point I wake up.

I guess what I see is that when things are going well and there is plenty of contact between the two of us, I don't have these types of dreams. Are these simply my own insecurities from previous experiences creeping in?

Thanks in advance, I certainly appreciate the insight.