Help! I dreamed my husband was gay.

[cgmercer05]

Last night I had a really wierd dream. I pulled into our driveway and there was another car there. Even though I trust my husband completely and he has never cheated on me I had a really wierd feeling in my dream like he was with another woman. So I ran into the house and when I got into the bedroom I saw there were two people under the covers. When I jerked the covers back it was my husband with a man. I was screaming "what is going on" and my husband said it was over with me and him. i was so devastated.i took our daughter 5 months old and left. i still loved my husband in my dream and didn't want to lose him but now he wouldn't have anything to do with me. Please help me. Dreams like these make me so nervous.

[Varzandeh]

Hi,
Don't worry at all , dream symbols sometimes are disgusting.
In dream language symbols to have sex means doing a favor or a help.
Even betwen two men or even two women, means the same a favor.
Once a few years ago two politician came to my office gurds stayed out and they locked the door.They asked are you the one who interprets?
They were disgusted becase they were both males and they both had dreams about having sex with each other.I said both of you will do favors to each other.
After a month or so, one of them called me ..The other one who was a housing project too had granted him a flat in a low price and he had helped him to publish his book.
Is it clear?

Here is some more about dreams:
Dream language interpretation is an ancient science of allusions . Pointing of the surrounded environment. As Mr. Einstein has said the events are like train stations which exist and we are moving towards them. These are prewritten destiny with some authority ( in decision making seconds) in a very full details. This dream language should be translated, and interesting to know it is international and common for all human beings. But ignorance causes some misunderstanings.People were not aware of this language and always thought in a bad way , for example Mr. Freud said about sexual dreams it is because you have suppressed your sexual desires so misled everybody and some women dreamt about having sex with co-workers or another and thought they should do that, while it only meant he will do something for her, or some others dreamt had sex with the same sex and invented homosexual, while it meant the same ,Also some men dreamt his wife had sex with a man and didn't understand or a woman dreamt her partner had sex with a woman and didn't' understand ...etc.Do you see what catastrophes are caused by misunderstanding a language. About the approximate interpretation time table: Dreams at noon or exactly at midnight( In the summer time 13 at noon and 1 midnight else at 12)in the same day if past a few minutes, a few days later. Dreams at 10-11 in the morning in 15-30 days later. Also dreams at 3-4 in the evening in 1-2 months .Dreams in the sunset mostly are not truthful and are messed, they have no interpretations, Dreams at 4-5 in the morning in a few days to 2 months some dreams in the holy books( Josef dream of kneeling the sun and the moon and 11 stars)was interpreted after 20 years and other dreams of the Pharaoh's prisoners interpreted in the same day and after 7 years. Dream of Pharaoh about the 7 thin cows and 7 fat cows interpreted from the next year to 14 years. Also dreams in 6th of the month will interpret after 1-2 days, in 9th at the same day, in 10th after 20 days, in 13th after 9 days in 14th after 26 days and in 15th after 3 days, in 16th after 2 days and in 28th ,29th ,30th in the same day, but these are solar (Persian months and you should refer to a calendar or convert them) . Of course there are different kinds of dreams , like messy dreams which have no interpretations or deja vu dreams, or psychological dreams or dreams which are caused by bad food or drinks.

[Wolfjk]

Hi,
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When I jerked the covers back it was my husband with a man. I was screaming "what is going on" and my husband said it was over with me and him. i was so devastated.i took our daughter 5 months old and left.
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Perhaps you are suffering some post natal depression. You are imagining all sorts of things in waking time and it impacts on your dreams. I think you are also overworked, may be suffering from lack of good relaxing sleep.
Dreams are designed to wake you up when you need to wake up. Normally one does not remember a waking dream, however in times of stress or exhaustion the sleeper may need a shocking dream to wake him or her. I think this distressing dream was just one of those shocking waking dreams. Try to take life a bit easier and talk to your husband about your situation. He might offer a helping hand.
Cheers Wolfjk

[unclesirbobbyrobson]

Well if he is having an affair with another man it could mean lots of things ion a symbolic level. But most dreams are more likely to point to worry or tension about how things are rather than be a premonition. So try to see how the dreams relate in such a way. They could mean that you feel that your husband is not attracted to you right now? It could mean that he spends too much time with his guy friends and seems more married to them than to you?
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Many dreams simply link to very immediate urges and problems which demand attention immediately. If you are sexually aroused when you wake then interpret the dream in that sense. It is likely to link to involve sexual and fleshy emotions. It will include a real sense of excitement.

Dream symbolism and dream dictionary interpretation - How to interpret dreams Interpreting dreams
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The pages above all help you to learn the basics of dream interpreting

[JON]

This is a tough one. Is this dream a subconcious manifestation of a genuine fear or insecurity? One you feel unable or unwilling to discuss openly with a loved one? I've found myself in relationships where I've had 'suspicions' that, in the end, prove to have little foundation. But they can eat away at you all the same. In other relationships where they've proven justified. Love can often seem like a minefield, dangerous and hard to negiotiate. Because you have to trust them as much as they do you.