Help! I dreamed my husband was gay.

[cgmercer05]

Last night I had a really wierd dream. I pulled into our driveway and there was another car there. Even though I trust my husband completely and he has never cheated on me I had a really wierd feeling in my dream like he was with another woman. So I ran into the house and when I got into the bedroom I saw there were two people under the covers. When I jerked the covers back it was my husband with a man. I was screaming "what is going on" and my husband said it was over with me and him. i was so devastated.i took our daughter 5 months old and left. i still loved my husband in my dream and didn't want to lose him but now he wouldn't have anything to do with me. Please help me. Dreams like these make me so nervous.

[Varzandeh]

Hi,
Don't worry at all , dream symbols sometimes are disgusting.
In dream language symbols to have sex means doing a favor or a help.
Even betwen two men or even two women, means the same a favor.
Once a few years ago two politician came to my office gurds stayed out and they locked the door.They asked are you the one who interprets?
They were disgusted becase they were both males and they both had dreams about having sex with each other.I said both of you will do favors to each other.
After a month or so, one of them called me ..The other one who was a housing project too had granted him a flat in a low price and he had helped him to publish his book.
Is it clear?

Here is some more about dreams:
Dream language interpretation is an ancient science of allusions . Pointing of the surrounded environment. As Mr. Einstein has said the events are like train stations which exist and we are moving towards them. These are prewritten destiny with some authority ( in decision making seconds) in a very full details. This dream language should be translated, and interesting to know it is international and common for all human beings. But ignorance causes some misunderstanings.People were not aware of this language and always thought in a bad way , for example Mr. Freud said about sexual dreams it is because you have suppressed your sexual desires so misled everybody and some women dreamt about having sex with co-workers or another and thought they should do that, while it only meant he will do something for her, or some others dreamt had sex with the same sex and invented homosexual, while it meant the same ,Also some men dreamt his wife had sex with a man and didn't understand or a woman dreamt her partner had sex with a woman and didn't' understand ...etc.Do you see what catastrophes are caused by misunderstanding a language. About the approximate interpretation time table: Dreams at noon or exactly at midnight( In the summer time 13 at noon and 1 midnight else at 12)in the same day if past a few minutes, a few days later. Dreams at 10-11 in the morning in 15-30 days later. Also dreams at 3-4 in the evening in 1-2 months .Dreams in the sunset mostly are not truthful and are messed, they have no interpretations, Dreams at 4-5 in the morning in a few days to 2 months some dreams in the holy books( Josef dream of kneeling the sun and the moon and 11 stars)was interpreted after 20 years and other dreams of the Pharaoh's prisoners interpreted in the same day and after 7 years. Dream of Pharaoh about the 7 thin cows and 7 fat cows interpreted from the next year to 14 years. Also dreams in 6th of the month will interpret after 1-2 days, in 9th at the same day, in 10th after 20 days, in 13th after 9 days in 14th after 26 days and in 15th after 3 days, in 16th after 2 days and in 28th ,29th ,30th in the same day, but these are solar (Persian months and you should refer to a calendar or convert them) . Of course there are different kinds of dreams , like messy dreams which have no interpretations or deja vu dreams, or psychological dreams or dreams which are caused by bad food or drinks.

[Wolfjk]

Hi,
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When I jerked the covers back it was my husband with a man. I was screaming "what is going on" and my husband said it was over with me and him. i was so devastated.i took our daughter 5 months old and left.
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Perhaps you are suffering some post natal depression. You are imagining all sorts of things in waking time and it impacts on your dreams. I think you are also overworked, may be suffering from lack of good relaxing sleep.
Dreams are designed to wake you up when you need to wake up. Normally one does not remember a waking dream, however in times of stress or exhaustion the sleeper may need a shocking dream to wake him or her. I think this distressing dream was just one of those shocking waking dreams. Try to take life a bit easier and talk to your husband about your situation. He might offer a helping hand.
Cheers Wolfjk

[unclesirbobbyrobson]

Well if he is having an affair with another man it could mean lots of things ion a symbolic level. But most dreams are more likely to point to worry or tension about how things are rather than be a premonition. So try to see how the dreams relate in such a way. They could mean that you feel that your husband is not attracted to you right now? It could mean that he spends too much time with his guy friends and seems more married to them than to you?
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Many dreams simply link to very immediate urges and problems which demand attention immediately. If you are sexually aroused when you wake then interpret the dream in that sense. It is likely to link to involve sexual and fleshy emotions. It will include a real sense of excitement.

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[JON]

This is a tough one. Is this dream a subconcious manifestation of a genuine fear or insecurity? One you feel unable or unwilling to discuss openly with a loved one? I've found myself in relationships where I've had 'suspicions' that, in the end, prove to have little foundation. But they can eat away at you all the same. In other relationships where they've proven justified. Love can often seem like a minefield, dangerous and hard to negiotiate. Because you have to trust them as much as they do you.

[highness]

O.K., so the two of you have a new baby. The baby takes up your time and energy. You, as Mom, are very into the baby. Dads often feel left out. They often feel that the "end of all of the fun part" of a relationship has been reached when the responsibility of a new baby hits home.. that is after the newness begins to wear off and reality hits home.

You suspect that your husband is more into himself than he is into you and the baby these days. The other guy most likely represents your husband's love for his own self, as seen through your eyes anyway.

[unclesirbobbyrobson]

Well dreams CAN be premonitions. They can link to different times and places. They can link to deeply significant moments in our lives which are about to happen. Yet they can also have much simpler meanings. They can simply reflect very real paranoias and doubts. Its difficult to tell the difference between various different types of dreams. So do not try to hard. You will simply get yourself upset.

Since you have a five month old child then your life is pretty much devoted to your child. Your dreams maybe magnifying any doubts you have.

It may have to do with sex in general. A gay man often signifies someone whom you are not having sex with. If you feel your husband is not interested in you right now it maybe to do with that.

Dream studies and interpreting - the study of symbolism of python snakes and cobras in dreams interpretation and real analyzed dreams

Hundreds of real dreams and background information which is linked to the explanations.

[vklinge]

The past few days I have had this weird feeling that something was going on a few days ago we had a deep discussion and my boyfriend emphatically denied that nothing was going on and that I was the only one he wanted. However, this morning between 9 and 10 am. upon waking I had a dream that I walked out of a building (my old job) and saw my boyfriend about to drive off in another car and looked up ahead and saw a girl in his car. She had long brown curly hair. I walked over to the car and yelled WHO IS THIS? and then began to yank her out of the car by her hair.. I then woke up. Later this morning (11-12noon) I had another dream where my mother was telling me I had two options that we could go to dinner tonight(without Mark my boyfriend) of meet him tomorrow at "Wendy's". I then woke up. Someone please help me He is such a wonderful person and I don't wont to send him the wrong vibes that I don't deserve his love nor trust him. By the way I am detoxing from my serequel that I have been taking for six months and feel this may have something to do with the paranoia..

[Wolfjk]

Originally Posted by vklinge

The past few days I have had this weird feeling that something was going on a few days ago we had a deep discussion and my boyfriend emphatically denied that nothing was going on and that I was the only one he wanted. However, this morning between 9 and 10 am. upon waking I had a dream that I walked out of a building (my old job) and saw my boyfriend about to drive off in another car and looked up ahead and saw a girl in his car. She had long brown curly hair. I walked over to the car and yelled WHO IS THIS? and then began to yank her out of the car by her hair.. I then woke up. Later this morning (11-12noon) I had another dream where my mother was telling me I had two options that we could go to dinner tonight(without Mark my boyfriend) of meet him tomorrow at "Wendy's". I then woke up. Someone please help me He is such a wonderful person and I don't wont to send him the wrong vibes that I don't deserve his love nor trust him. By the way I am detoxing from my serequel that I have been taking for six months and feel this may have something to do with the paranoia..

Hi,

a few days ago we had a deep discussion and my boyfriend emphatically denied that nothing was going on and that I was the only one he wanted.

The above quote from your post indicats that you feel jellous of your boyfriend. If you feel jellous in waking time you think "jellous" in your sleep and these thoughts intrude into your sleep. It is your own thoughts that are causing your dreams. However detoxing does not help either! It makes you edgy and irritable in daytime and and interferes with your sleep at night.
Try to keep the negative thoughts out of your waking life. Be strong with your detox. It will all turn out well!
Cheers Wolfjk