Dreaming and Sexsomnia?

[bsmith]

HELP! My best friend stays over at my house about half the time, and although there's never been anything between us, recently he's been making sexual advances towards me during his sleep! I've talked to him about it, and he says he is asleep, does not remember, and had no dreams to speak of. After some research, I discovered that there is a parasomnia referred to as sexsomnia. Does anyone know anything, or have experience or an opinion about this? For example, if he rolls over and begins caressing and reaching into my shirt, is it possible that he is asleep? I want to believe what he says because I have known him for years and we are very close...He is a virgin as well, and does not seem very concerned with sex much at all...I thought he was gay! I am wondering, if he has this parasomnia, is he dreaming of what he is doing, and acting it out? Is he in REM, and just not experiencing paralysis? He has never slept with anybody else. Does his conscious, or subconscious, know where he is, what he is doing, and who he is with? In other words, is this about ME? HELP!

[Wolfjk]

Hi,

I am wondering, if he has this parasomnia, is he dreaming of what he is doing, and acting it out? Is he in REM, and just not experiencing paralysis? He has never slept with anybody else. Does his conscious, or subconscious, know where he is, what he is doing, and who he is with? In other words, is this about ME? HELP!

HR
If you are sleeping together it is inevitable that he gets aroused if he is inlove with anyone - male or female. Your body warmth will sexually rouse him. It is up to you to decide who he is attracted by.

Is he in REM, and just not experiencing paralysis?

What Paralysis? Contrary to popular belief there is never any paralysis in normal sleep. Dreams are dreamt to move, wake or entertain the sleeper.
Cheers Wolfjk

[Varzandeh]

Hi,
I agree with wolfy, Also your gender isn't clear, perhaps cotton and fire are too close.

[ndream]

Hello,
I had similar dream last monday when a UK friend came for a stopover. After meeting him on sunday night, I dreamt that he had sexual advances with me. I awoke next morning feeling rather shocked because he was well mannered in person and showed no sexual feelings towards me. Thus, in order to clear my doubt I asked him frankly if he did think/feel something sexual to me the night before he went to bed or during his sleep.

He revealed that he had such similar thoughts after we met. When I had the dream in the wee hours of the morning, which he mentioned was in deep sleep. So just think about it.... how this person's conscious or subconscious mind act upon what he is thinking and that person happened to be me, his good friend. Believe it or not.....it did happen to me few days ago.

[Varzandeh]

Hi,
Dreaming of sex has a meaning and should be interpreted, having sex is a symbol that means he will do you a favor or help nothing more, nothing else.
Here is some more about dreams:
Dream language interpretation is an ancient science of allusions and pointing of the surrounded environment, as Mr. Einstein has said the events are like train stations which exist and we are moving towards them, these are prewritten destiny with some authority ( in decision making seconds) in very full details. This dream language should be translated, and interesting to know it is international and common for all human beings. But ignorance causes some misunderstanings.People were not aware of this language and always thought in a bad way , for example Mr. Freud said about sexual dreams it is because you have suppressed your sexual desires so misled everybody and some women dreamt about having sex with co-workers or another and thought they should do that, while it only meant he will do something for her, or some others dreamt had sex with the same sex and invented homosexual, while it meant the same ,Also some men dreamt his wife had sex with a man and didn't understand or a woman dreamt her partner had sex with a woman and didn't' understand ...etc.Do you see what catastrophes are caused by misunderstanding a language. About the approximate interpretation time table: Dreams at noon or exactly at midnight( In the summer time 13 at noon and 1 midnight else at 12)in the same day if past a few minutes, a few days later. Dreams at 10-11 in the morning in 15-30 days later. Also dreams at 3-4 in the evening in 1-2 months .Dreams in the sunset mostly are not truthful and are messed, they have no interpretations, Dreams at 4-5 in the morning in a few days to 2 months some dreams in the holy books( Josef dream of kneeling the sun and the moon and 11 stars)was interpreted after 20 years and other dreams of the Pharaoh's prisoners interpreted in the same day and after 7 years. Dream of Pharaoh about the 7 thin cows and 7 fat cows interpreted from the next year to 14 years. Also dreams in 6th of the month will interpret after 1-2 days, in 9th at the same day, in 10th after 20 days, in 13th after 9 days in 14th after 26 days and in 15th after 3 days, in 16th after 2 days and in 28th ,29th ,30th in the same day, but these are solar (Persian months and you should refer to a calendar or convert them) . Of course there are different kinds of dreams , like messy dreams which have no interpretations or deja vu dreams, or psychological dreams or dreams which are caused by bad food or drinks.


I want to tell you a reason to know that 5 senses can't understand anything except by the soul,
Have you dreamt you were eating and drinking and had pleasure of that. He said yes. I said: have you dreamt laughing and crying, and strolling in the cities that haven't seen yet but you know the specialties. He said: yes dreamt very much. I said: Have you ever dreamt about your dead brother or father and know them like they are alive.
He said: yes too many times. I said: tell me which sense has received such things to see the dead and talking to them or crying and laughing. He said: I can’t say which one. Because the body is slept like a dead. I said: tell me when you wake up don’t you remember and report to the friends exactly, He said; yes and sometimes I see that before night in real life. I said; which sense keeps it to remember the dream after waking. He said; there is no way for sense. I said then you should know because senses are vein here that is the soul that God has put wisdom in it and it is a reason. He said; what I dream is like mirage one thinks it is water but when arrive at there is nothing. I said; how do you say it is like mirage and you ate sweets and pickles and were happy and sad he said; because what I dream when I arrive at it is nothing. I said: have you ever had sex in the dream and your hearts beat, have you ever had wet dream about a woman or man. You know him or don’t know He said many times said had you orgasm and when you woke up you were wet then this is not mirage.
He said: dreaming orgasm is just like the real life .I said this is my reason that soul. Knows everything although senses are dead and can’t see or hear of course you shouldn’t deny that soul in addition of the senses knowledge recognition in the waking life and after vanishing the senses has sex with them then it recognizes the things after going senses and now you understand that the itself is guiding the senses and is their governor and none of the senses can’t do anything without soul; if the soul goes a head body wasn’t get back and if soul gets back the body won’t go ahead with the soul the happiness comes and with it the ache is received if a sense is damaged the soul is remained but if the soul is damaged senses can work properly.