Dreaming about a dead person and realizing that they're dead

[omgknock]

First of all I'd like to say hi to everyone. So hi! (^^)/

Anyways, I just woke up from the weirdest dream in my life. Here's goes the story. I dreamt about this guy, who used to be a classmate of mine in 7th grade whom i have a minor crush on. We never talk in person, the last time I saw him was the time he was my classmate. he's pretty much a stranger to me. I'm 22 now. He died 3 years ago, gang related and a case of mistaken identity.

The dream was in a school setting, I saw him and his brother walking and talking. I didn't talk to him because there's really no reason to. I don't really know him beside the fact that he used to be a classmate of mine. Suddenly it hits me, I REALIZED THAT I WAS ACTUALLY DREAMING & THAT HE'S DEAD IN REAL LIFE. So, I approach him for the first time in my dream and told him that right now, he and I are in my dream and that once I wake up from this he will be dead. He didn't say anything, and I don't think his facial expression change much. I think I told him that I like him and also told him to be careful and I gave him a hug. That was the last time I saw him until I dreamt about something else and woke up from it.

My other strange dream that occured a few months back was also about him. It was also in a school setting. I was talking to him this time, and once again. In the middle of our conversation it hits me, I realize that he's actually dead. So I asked him "aren't you dead in real life?" or "aren't you dead?" And I think I remember a sad or troubled look on his face and I woke up.

What do you think these dreams mean?

[Varzandeh]

Hi,
Hugging a passed away person is a symbol that means if you have kind of illness it will cure in a month or so.
Good luck.

Dream language interpretation is an ancient science of allusions and pointing of the surrounded environment, as Mr. Einstein has said the events are like train stations which exist and we are moving towards them, these are prewritten destiny with some authority ( in decision making seconds) in very full details. This dream language should be translated, and interesting to know it is international and common for all human beings. But ignorance causes some misunderstanings.People were not aware of this language and always thought in a bad way , for example Mr. Freud said about sexual dreams it is because you have suppressed your sexual desires so misled everybody and some women dreamt about having sex with co-workers or another and thought they should do that, while it only meant he will do something for her, or some others dreamt had sex with the same sex and invented homosexual, while it meant the same ,Also some men dreamt his wife had sex with a man and didn't understand or a woman dreamt her partner had sex with a woman and didn't' understand ...etc.Do you see what catastrophes are caused by misunderstanding a language. About the approximate interpretation time table: Dreams at noon or exactly at midnight( In the summer time 13 at noon and 1 midnight else at 12)in the same day if past a few minutes, a few days later. Dreams at 10-11 in the morning in 15-30 days later. Also dreams at 3-4 in the evening in 1-2 months .Dreams in the sunset mostly are not truthful and are messed, they have no interpretations, Dreams at 4-5 in the morning in a few days to 2 months some dreams in the holy books( Josef dream of kneeling the sun and the moon and 11 stars)was interpreted after 20 years and other dreams of the Pharaoh's prisoners interpreted in the same day and after 7 years. Dream of Pharaoh about the 7 thin cows and 7 fat cows interpreted from the next year to 14 years. Also dreams in 6th of the month will interpret after 1-2 days, in 9th at the same day, in 10th after 20 days, in 13th after 9 days in 14th after 26 days and in 15th after 3 days, in 16th after 2 days and in 28th ,29th ,30th in the same day, but these are solar (Persian months and you should refer to a calendar or convert them) . Of course there are different kinds of dreams , like messy dreams which have no interpretations or deja vu dreams, or psychological dreams or dreams which are caused by bad food or drinks.

[unclesirbobbyrobson]

Dreams tend to symbolise our thoughts. But they may not be obvious in what they mean. Here the dream combines two things

DEATH : something that has ended. A phase in your life that has ended or about to end
CRUSH : Something that you really like.

Perhaps you are realising that life can change. Maybe something that you used to obsess about and were your idea of perfection is now over. Does that make any sense right now?
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If people truly knew the meaning of their dreams they would be quite surprised. Many have helped perpetuate the myth that dreams are really deep and meaningful. True some are but the majority of dreams are simply part of our brain functions. They help us clarify everyday issues. These are very important at the time but
are far from being crucial in the overall scheme of things. Freud and others talk of the deeper dreams. But that is only because of their interest in psychology. They also speak of lots of other dreams that are insignificant and just linked to the previous day. But these dreams are interesting in themselves. They too show how the brain works. So simple dreams with meanings like "I need to spend more time on my studies" are important. If we can understand the simple dreams we can apply knowledge gained to solve the more trickier dreams.

These pages are especially helpful in showing you how to interpret dreams

http://www.geocities.com/hairybobby2...howtopost.html Interpreting dreams
http://www.geocities.com/hairybobby2...ssayhowto.html Triggers for dreams
http://www.geocities.com/hairybobby2000/dreamessay.html Dream dictionary

[omgknock]

That true, I've thought of it that way. However, he never really cross my mind; and it was such a minor crush. I only see him for one school year, that was it. I just find it strange how he would showed up every now and then, and how i'd just react the same way every time i see him.

thanks for the input i really appreciated it. =)

[Wolfjk]

Hi,
Hasn't it downed on you that the actual realisation that you are talking to a dead person in your dream is a waking agent?
Perhaps your crush was more serious than you realise and his death affected you a lot. Your subconscious uses his memory in your dream to wake you up.
Perhaps you need more outside interests, you maybe in a rut at present.
Cheers Wolfjk

[Kathie]

I wondered something a little different.

I wondered if the two dreams meant that your friend had died but didn't realize he was dead.

You informed him that he was dead and surprised him.

He became comfortable with his situation and returned to your dream to inform you that he now has accepted his predicament.

In other words he wants you to know he is ok with being on the "other side" now.

He came back to tell you he was ok with it so that you would not have any long term effects from his negative reaction when he found out he was dead in your dream.