Needed for new book: dream stories of deceased loved ones

[jewlsgiftgirl]

I would always have dreams of my brother when he first died.I had several dreams where I was talking to him about things that were actually going on in my life at the moment.For example when I first got with my husband,I told him in my dream that I was with him,and asked him what he thought,I have to say that he had never met him before he died,anyhow I told him and he made a face of disappointment.Little did I know in reality my husband really did bring me alot of disappointment in my life.Another one is when I Became pregnant I told him in my dream i was pregnant,I was talking to him about other things that were going on back then as well.I have had many dreams about him,as the years have past it is less,but when i do for some reason something bad usually happens in real life.I have notice this for a couple of years and only one .time nothing happened.I think it was because when we actually found out 6yrs. plus later who murdered him I wondered about him,and of course I dreamed of him.He was somewhat sad and saw him with a white shirt with dry blood on his body,he spoke a few words only.At the end a girl said he was maybe glad they found out who killed him.Who knows why I have these dreams about him,and conversations.

[Yoda]

I lost my dad in 1999 and it was a very traumatic experience for me. My dad had Allzheimer's and he slipped away while in a nursing home so I never got to say goodbye.
One night mybe a year or two after he passed on Ihad a dream where I was walking down a very old, cobblestone street. It looked very familiar to me when it dawned on me that I was in my dad's home town in Sicily. I visited there on the one year anniversary of his passing. I was confused as to why I was there. I don't speak the language very well and I was wandering around like I was in a haze. When I heard from a door way, Hey, paisano! When I turned to my right I saw my dad standing in the door way, only he was much younger (20s to 30s tops). I yelled out, DAD! I found you! and I gave him a big hug with my head against his shoulder. I remember that I started weeping once I had a grip on him. Then he asked me "What are you doing here?" and I told him that I mised him and I was looking for him. Then I woke up.

[Katia]

hi there,

my dad pased away in 1999. Very sad as we had a fight the morning he died and a was so angry that i just left without greeting him and 5 min. later he died.

my dream is that we met at a lake....beautiful lake and we went there alot as a child. the sun was setting over the lake, me and my dad were sitting on a bench on a pier in the middle of nowere, there was nobody but the 2 of us....he put his arm around me...we didn't speak one word to eachother....he picked up an old coin and gave it to me.....( still have no idea what this dream means)....woke up and that was the last dream i had of my dad.

regards,
katia

[jellyfoster]

My mother died when I was 16. Her father died when she was nine. She had always told me a story of the night after he had died. He came to her on a train (she was awake) and told her that everything would be ok, and not to be sad or worried. When she died, I was fearful of this kind of visitation and told her never to come to me while I was awake. Then she came to me in dreams, always crying because I was pushing her away...

[gayleygrl1281]

Hello,
I am new to this web site so I hope I am doing this right. I had a friend that died about six years ago she is always in my dreams. Last night I had a crazy dream that her mother called me and told me they were digging up her grave because she was really still alive. In the dream I ended up at the cemetary with her parents and a few other people I was there crying, begging them not to bring up the coffin because she was dead and they kept telling me no she isnt. As I was crying and begging them not to do it her mom turned and looked at me and said "why do you care so much you werent that close to her anyway". Which in reality growing up were really good friends we grew apart when she moved away and she died a few years later. I was devastated when she passed I always think of her till this day. Anyway back to the dream after her mother said this to me the coffin was up they opened it and there was my girlfriend laying there I thought she was dead and then she moved. Everyone started screaming "she is alive and she was burred for six years". I couldnt believe it. Her parents brought her home and I followed I stayed at her house waiting for her to wake up cause she was sleeping, finally she woke up and turned to me. She started talking away to me like nothing even happened. This dream has been bothering me all day.


Second Dream about her

I had a dream that she came to me because I asked her what it was like to die and she told me its just like living down on earth, we have to work and we have friends ect.. Then out of no where someone butted in the dream I have no idea who it was and said "you told her what it was like" and she said I had to she is my friend. Whoever it was that was there said u know what we are going to have to do about this, she started begging them not to do anything that it was her fault that I didnt know she wasnt supose to tell me. I was just standing there confused and then the person said you realize you have to die now because we cant let you tell people what it is like to die. My friend begged and pleaded with the man to let me go and finally they did. That was it I woke up!
Please help me figure out what these dreams mean.

[gayleygrl1281]

Hello,
I am new to this web site so I hope I am doing this right. I had a friend that died about six years ago she is always in my dreams. Last night I had a crazy dream that her mother called me and told me they were digging up her grave because she was really still alive. In the dream I ended up at the cemetary with her parents and a few other people I was there crying, begging them not to bring up the coffin because she was dead and they kept telling me no she isnt. As I was crying and begging them not to do it her mom turned and looked at me and said "why do you care so much you werent that close to her anyway". Which in reality growing up were really good friends we grew apart when she moved away and she died a few years later. I was devastated when she passed I always think of her till this day. Anyway back to the dream after her mother said this to me the coffin was up they opened it and there was my girlfriend laying there I thought she was dead and then she moved. Everyone started screaming "she is alive and she was burred for six years". I couldnt believe it. Her parents brought her home and I followed I stayed at her house waiting for her to wake up cause she was sleeping, finally she woke up and turned to me. She started talking away to me like nothing even happened. This dream has been bothering me all day.


Second Dream about her

I had a dream that she came to me because I asked her what it was like to die and she told me its just like living down on earth, we have to work and we have friends ect.. Then out of no where someone butted in the dream I have no idea who it was and said "you told her what it was like" and she said I had to she is my friend. Whoever it was that was there said u know what we are going to have to do about this, she started begging them not to do anything that it was her fault that I didnt know she wasnt supose to tell me. I was just standing there confused and then the person said you realize you have to die now because we cant let you tell people what it is like to die. My friend begged and pleaded with the man to let me go and finally they did. That was it I woke up!
Please help me figure out what these dreams mean.

[sapna]

i have dreamt about dead peple innumouros time.i will give account of few of them.
1)
my colleage died on 12apr2006.2 days after his death i saw him in my dream.i saw that his body is stiff but eyes are open .(he died with his eyes open)and he can talk.in dream i am very well aware that he is dead and came to meet me.so i ask him how do you feel and what first thing did u do?/ he replied "i went to meet my wife.i wanted to tell them to change the room.my wife and my son kept on talking themselves..and did not see me"
the suddenly his stiff body slipped and i hold him to keep him from falling.them i exclaime"see you are alive otherwise i would not been able to hold you"(i hv heard you cannot touch spirits)
then i woke up.

2)once i dreamt that i am sending my younger daughter in flight unaccompanied.i go with her to see her off.i go upto tarmaic(i am an airline employee),and me and my daughter board the caoch which will take her to plane..i am suppose to get down,,but coach starts and and think dosent matter i will go upto the aircraft and come back.i go inside the plane with my daughter and look among the passenegers for any familiar face so that i can ask them to look after my daughter b cose she is travelling alone.i see few kown peple but they doesnot seem to interact me so i turned back to come down from aircraft..there i see my friend form my school whom i didnot mee after schooling .it is nearly 15 years or more.i tell her if u r also travelling take care of my daughter.she says "dont worry".as i am getting down the ladder i meet my elder daughter boarding flight and ask why are u here u are not suppose to travell.but she say"mom i also hv to tvl , see i even have boarding card" i chechk her boarding card and come down leaving her to board the plane..
then i woke up..and realised the freind to whome i gave resposiblity of my daughters has already died a year back..
this dream made me paranoid and i never sent my daughters alone in flight fearing something bad will happen..though 6-7 yrs has passed and nothing has happened that way but once my daughter was once wrongly diagnosed for the same disease of which my friend
died.and almost all familiar people a saw there had fallen sick quite sereously aleast once.

3)my father died in oct1990.after that i saw him in my dream many times.once i saw my childhood home.there saw his grave which was in the front passage of front garden .(actually he died in different city ).then i suddenly saw my father coming out of grave then he went to have bath.then he came out bathed in fresh clothes .

4)once i saw him in bed and bed was located between my office and home..while coming from office i find him there and he lokks quite old though he died not so old.he kept his hand on my head to bless my there i notice that sheets of bed are not very clean..i called my mother and asked for clean sheet so that i can change it.but my mother is angry and saying "how many times i can give fresh sheet ..ok this one is the last one"i took the fresh sheet which is clean but not new and change it for my father.

5)recently may be 15 days back i saw my cousin who died arround 18yrs back in my cream.i found he lying on the his bed in his childhood house.some other person is also sitting on the same bed.i saw him shaking at the same time he was talking to the other person and laughing.he seemed happy..

[cgmercer05]

When I was pregnant with my daughter, who is now 5 months old, I was always wishing my family that I have already lost could meet her. I had a dream that I walked into my grandmothers house and my grandaddy was sitting at the kitchen table drinking coffee out of his usual cup in his usual seat and I was shocked because I knew he was dead. In the dream they said he had been in a coma instead of dead and now he was back and he was ok. He was so happy about the baby and about catching up on stuff he had missed in the past 6 years. I was so excited that I called my mom and my granny and told them that grandaddy was ok. My granny is now deceased too. When I woke up I actually thought he was alive and whenI realized it was just a dream I cried because it felt like I had just lost him all over again. I was wondering if maybe this dream had any sort of special meaning?

[juliaterras]

But 10 years ago, I was eight, I was by myself in the house for an hour during which my dog (to whom I was very attached) died as I watched. I called the veterinarian crying but they thought it was a joke. The dog had cancer it died very slowly and her body got hard in my lap while she was still breathing and she looked like she was in a lot of pain and was very reluctant to go.
In my first night of sleep after that (2 nights later) I had a dream in which she woke me up and said she was fine and had no more pain, but she could only rest when I stopped crying and started eating. Clearly I was having a hard time dealing with her death and that's the way I found to get out of it.

Good luck with the book

[brianna]

when my husband was in Iraq last year, I went to Kentucky to visit my mom. one night I dreamed that I was at home and someone knocked on my door, so I went and answered it. it was a Marine dressed in dress blues there to tell me that my husband was killed in action that they couldn't find his body. I woke up freaking out finally got myself calmed down and fell back asleep. then I dreamed that I was in a place that was very bright, and all white but I couldn't see myself just white. and I heard my grandpa's voice telling me not no worry that he was watching over my husband over there that nothing would happen so long as he was there to protect him. then I felt really peaceful and the white started to fade out and I moved into a different dream. I am happy to say that my husband mad it home safe and sound october 13th 2006.