Another mean girl gone nice?

[lizzy]

I had another dream with another girl from high school in it. Again this was a girl who was not really my friend, she was kind of a bully and dropped out I think in the 9th grade but she lingered because her twin brother graduated he was very nice and popular. Anyways I dreamed that we were at some kind of a water park or something and after we showered (not together the stalls were all privet) she was being very nice and she was showing me a new way to curl my hair (this makes no sense I have natural curls) anyways after she showed me I told her I didn't feel clean enough and wanted to go back to the shower and wash out my styleshe was supportive. When I went back to the shower rooms each room was being cleaned they had bubbles and suds everywhere I asked the cleaners if I may use one and they said yes. I started my shower and I woke up. That was all.

So is it natural to dream of people from high school? I have not even gave high school a whim of thought lately and all the sudden 2 dreams in a row about mean high school girls. The only thing I can think of in this dream is that I have been thinking about trying a new hair style but everybody tells me not to that they would die for my hair. So maybe I dreamed of her showing me a new way of hair and then I had to go wash it out right away? Does this make sense? Thanks for the help Lizzy

[unclesirbobbyrobson]

well hair often actually does symbolise itself. If you have been thinking about having a new hair style it may simply link to that

Showers are refreshing. They clean away the bad feelings. So a shower can capture this feeling "a new hair style would give me a bit of a boost. I would feel more confident"

Its a sort of fit. But in many cases thats all you can expect. There is no book you can go to that ill give you the right answer to your dream. They speak their own mind and do not care to give you the rosetta stone. They do not mind if you do not interpret their dream incorrectly. Dreams are like that. They like to confuse us. thats why they are so fascinating.

Some have surprisingly mundane meanings yet others tease us with deep meanings. Its like TV I suppose. We can see shakespeare and other high culture on TV yet we can also see some terribble soap operas that are not even worth watching.

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Many people tend to say that our dreams are about YOU the dreamer. That is true in one sense as dreams are about things important to you. But really other people are important to you so your dream maybe about people that you interact with and who you are directly trying to influence. For instance if you have a son with a drug problem then of course your dreams will link to that issue. That issue impinges on your world. It reshapes the way you think on many issues. So look for ways in which the lives of other people interfere with the peaceful running of your life.

Dreams will tend not to be about political issues and world events. Yet occasionally they can have immense impact. Your dreams feature the issues and emotions that are most important to you. Can you honestly say that on the evening of September 11th,2001 your mind was not totally dominated by the terror attacks in the USA? You may never have been to New York or ever seen or heard of the World Trade centre yet this issue became personal that day.

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[Wolfjk]

Hi Lizzy,
Thanks for the reply in the other post.

So is it natural to dream of people from high school? I have not even gave high school a whim of thought lately and all the sudden 2 dreams in a row about mean high school girls. The only thing I can think of in this dream is that I have been thinking about trying a new hair style but everybody tells me not to that they would die for my hair. So maybe I dreamed of her showing me a new way of hair and then I had to go wash it out right away? Does this make sense? Thanks for the help Lizzy

In school we all go through a lot of emotional upsets. Dreams often use one of those when something similar happens in the sleep, either to wake the sleeper or divert the sleepers attention. Perhaps in your sleep the thought comes into your head: "I feel I need a bath or a wash" .The subconscious weaves a dream round the subject. Of ten with a twist! :-)
Cheers Wolfjk

[lizzy]

Wolfjk, Boy oh boy that is true high school is full of drama;^) And this will stir up almost anybodys emotions. I think another thing is I have been trying my best to look on the bright side of things lately as I can sometimes be negative thinker. Maybe I am looking for the best in everybody? Even the high school drama queens lol. Thanks for the reply to my dreams I appreciate this! Lizzy